In episodes 20 and 21, the plot of " Bottom Line " mainly focuses on two divorce cases, Fu Xiang, Wu Hua, Chen Tao and Tang Wei.
Two divorce cases
From the perspective of persuading peace and not persuading separation, the result was not ideal, and they all ended with divorce.
The contradiction between Fu Xiang and Wu Hua is concentrated on the management of the company. In Fu Xiang's eyes, Wu Hua is "a big addiction to people and vegetables". Many decisions are too short-sighted, which indirectly leads to the company's losses, so Fu Xiang firmly opposes Wu Hua's return to the company. In addition, Fu Xiang was busy with work all day and had little time to accompany Wu Hua, which eventually led to a gap between the two.
Some of the problems between Chen Tao and Tang Wei are very similar to Fu Xiang and Wu Hua, and one of them is devoted to work, but this time it is the woman Tang Wei. At the same time, the two of them live in separate places and cannot meet or communicate for a long time. Over time, their relationship will fade.
Marriage means that the man lives with him
Maybe someone feels sorry for these two marriages. If they can be more considerate with each other, they will not have reached the point of divorce. To be fair, my personal opinion is just the opposite. It is better to have short pain than long pain. There is nothing right or wrong about divorce. Someone once asked me why I got married and what is the meaning of marriage?
It is more realistic to say that getting married means finding someone who is almost the same and living together. Some are similar to job hunting. Companies feel that job seekers are qualified to take on the positions they are recruiting, and job seekers can also accept the benefits offered by the company, so they reach an employment agreement. As for whether the two parties are the best choice for each other, there are still some dissatisfactions, but one party cannot recruit better employees, and the other party cannot find a job with better salaries. The same is true for marriage. When choosing a spouse, most people can only pick and choose within reach.
But even if you enter the palace of marriage, you may not necessarily grow old together, and there are many people who divorce. Labor Contract has a probation period, and both parties can terminate the employment relationship at any time during the probation period, because many things need to be put in their shoes before they can know whether they are suitable for you. Although there is no probation period in marriage, there are a lot of people who find it difficult to get along with each other after getting married. If they can't survive, they can only part ways.
Specifically for Fu Xiang, Wu Hua, Chen Tao and Tang Wei, although they are old couples, the people and objective environment will change with the passage of time. When I decided to live together, some of the conditions that the other party could provide could not be given to me now, so the basis for living together would no longer exist. In real life, it is common for people to break up because one party suddenly loses its source of income or suffers from a serious illness. Couples are birds in the same forest, and they fly away from each other when the disaster strikes.
Don’t think this view is too realistic. Look at those couples who are talking about marriage, you must have learned about each other’s various information before marriage. Including family conditions, financial conditions, health conditions, etc., if there is any unsatisfactory situation, the marriage may not be reached. It should be said that this is human nature. Taking health status as an example, no one is willing to marry a sick person, which will not only become an economic burden, but may also affect the next generation.
The end of a marriage must be family
Speaking of this, someone must be thinking, what kind of marriage can hold hands and grow old together?
The end of marriage must be family affection, because love has never been a long-term emotion, and will be gradually worn out by the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in life. Moreover, it is human nature to be happy with the new and get tired of the old. No one doesn’t like young and pleasing to the eyes of the opposite sex. There is no need to hide this. People are not sages and will inevitably be subject to instinctive tendencies.But once the relationship between husband and wife is sublimated from love to family affection, the nature will completely change. Loving someone can suddenly stop loving him, but relatives are a lifelong thing.
One day, a very stupid question was asked by a girl, "Who will the boy save the boy's mother and the girl fall into water at the same time?"
The standard answer in person's mind is to save the mother. The reason has been explained in the previous article. There is only one mother in her life. If she loses it, there will be no more mother in this world. In fact, saving a mother is also the standard answer for girls. Just imagine, a person can even abandon his own mother. When a girl is old and ugly, the situation can be imagined.
Conclusion
The reason why the marriage of two couples in the play came to an end can only mean that the relationship between them has not yet been sublimated into family affection. When love has completely faded, there is no bond to maintain their relationship.
Personal opinion, don’t criticize if you don’t like it.
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