Even if the whole world abandons you, there are still people who depend on you for your own sake. There is an idiom in "Zhuangzi" called "support each other", which means that two dying fish use saliva as water to cross each other to maintain their survival.

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What is love?

Even if the whole world abandons you, there are still people who depend on you for their own sake.

There is an idiom in " Zhuangzi ", which means that two dying fish use saliva as water to cross each other and maintain their survival.

This autumn, the weather is clear and the weather is clear. We want to share with you a few warm love stories.

They use their own lives to explain this problem:

What does it feel like to be with a person until the end of his life?

"Just know I'm a good person"

CCTV documentary " First time in life " has such a story.

In a sanatorium in Shanghai, a grandfather carrying a lunch box asked a silver-haired grandmother anxiously: "Do you know me? What's my name? What's my name?"

Grandma whispered, "Chao Wenzhen."

Grandma closed her eyes with satisfaction and hugged her husband in front of her tightly.

My wife suffered from Alzheimer's disease and had osteoporosis problems. She was admitted to a sanatorium and traveled back and forth between the sanatorium and home to take care of her wife. This is Grandpa Chao's daily life.

My wife needs to be bedridden, so Grandpa Chao feeds fruits and vegetables into her mouth with a small fork.

In order to tease her, grandfather would ask: "Can I take a bite? Can I?"

It is very complicated to care for patients. The bed cannot be too high, and she can't stand the bones, nor can she be too short, and it is uncomfortable to eat.

After feeding the meal carefully, Grandpa Chao wanted to hold her hand and take a walk in the sanatorium, and help her consolidate her memory: this word is "dedication", this is "dedication"...

Grandpa has a small whiteboard at home, which says "Don't get angry" and once reminded his wife, "I'm out."

The key ring he used was the one she gave to him when he was dating that year, and it has been used for decades.

Grandpa carried his own vegetables and fruits on the subway and walked through half of the city. He went to the sanatorium like waiting for a date and met his lover sweetly for decades.

He did not attend any party and completely gave up his life because no matter what he did, he had a person in his heart who could not rest assured.

Grandpa came to visit and insisted on grandma calling his name, or even the nicknames that belong to two people. When grandma called it right, he bowed his head intimately and pasted her forehead; when she called it wrong, grandpa reminded him over and over again:

"Who am I? Who is the little pig? Do you recognize the little pig..."

and After feeding and taking a walk, my grandfather would tell her like a little girl: Be good and obedient, and don’t fall …

“Can you remember me next time? It doesn’t matter if you don’t remember me, just know that I am a good person.”

As long as she knows that he is a good person, she is willing to accept him and continue to be with her.

But my grandmother didn't know that every time she came to see her good person, she actually had a prostate tumor.

He was awake and knew that their separation was approaching day by day. When he saw each other, he wrote a will:

"We have been married for forty years, and I know that this is a separation of life and death that will never come back..."

At the end of the shot, grandpa was holding a pen and writing his last sentence:

"When you are old enough to forget the world, what do I use to love you? I have to repay you in the next life..."

The back of life is not death, but forgetting.

Even if the disease makes your mind no longer clear, you will forget me for a moment, but I always remember you.

This life and the next life.

Because of love, it is never leaving.

Eloped into the depths of the mountains

There was once a Cantonese song called "The Ladder", which has touched many people:

"If you can share with you, you don't have to be afraid of the ladder, you should defend all slander and rumors. How can you keep others talking for a lifetime..."

This song comes from a story.

In 2001, a group of forest expedition teams discovered a long staircase in the primeval forest. They climbed up one by one, walked into the depths of the dense forest to reach the top of the mountain, and found a pair of old people.

They wore old-fashioned blue shirts from the last century and carried firewood. They were like "savages". When they met an expedition team, they asked Chairman Mao, " didn't know that there was Han , regardless of Wei and Jin dynasties.

It turns out that grandpa was called Liu Guojiang , and grandma was called Xu Chaoqing . They have been escaping here for more than 50 years.

More than fifty years ago, 19-year-old Liu Guojiang fell in love with the 26-year-old widow Xu Chaoqing. Because he did not want his beloved to bear the rumors, they avoided the world and walked through the depths of the mountains.

There are few people here, and wild animals are there, but there are no more gossip and no one interferes with them anymore.

, and worried that his wife would be inconvenient to travel, Liu Guojiang used his own hands to build a mountain road for her to travel.

He made holes in the stone wall and then casted steps with mud and wood. He knurled more than 20 iron drills, and the path led to the top of the mountain, turning into a ladder of 6208.

A widow who was scolded for being a husband, a young man who was said to be indecent, two people on the edge of society walked together bravely in order to warm each other.

The ladder is their barrier, encircling them into a castle of love that belongs to two people.

They are strangers in the eyes of the world, but they live freely and freely in comforting each other.

Even if there are two tares that no one cares about, it will be the whole spring together.

"I waited for the person I like"

There is such a story in the documentary " Chinese Happy Events ".

girl Li Yonggan, she was deaf in both ears because of a fever when she was three years old, and she was bullied by children of the same age since she was a child.

She tried cochlear surgery, but because she missed the best age, the operation was not successful, and she failed to fully recover her hearing and could only hear murmurs.

In order to support himself, Li Yonggan went to a special school when he was a child, thousands of kilometers away from home. When he became an adult, he set up street stalls, worked as a cleaning staff, and worked as a massage shop to work, and was encountered by the store manager who tried to harass her.

But even if she works hard, she can support herself. Others still look at her from another perspective:

You are just a deaf person, what kind of work are you going to do? What chaos is causing?

Her world cannot hear the sound, and the surgery cannot change her destiny. Her family once found a "good marriage" for her, marrying a family with a good environment and a good person, a polio patient.

But Li Yonggan is determined not to. Even though she was deaf in both ears, she insisted on finding someone she really liked.

After a special opportunity, she met a boy named Ma Haoran during the live broadcast.

Like Li Yonggan, Ma Haoran also belongs to this special group of deaf people. After they meet, they will have video chats every day.

They can't speak, so they smiled quickly and gestured. They all understand what the meaning of the middle and what the feelings they convey.

Ma Haoran works in a factory more than 1,000 kilometers away. Like Li Yonggan, he has been unable to hear since he was a child. He has no friends and his family cannot enter his heart.

Only when he saw Li Yongdao did he feel that something came alive.

They made an appointment to meet - the first time they met, Ma Haoran hugged Li Yonggan tightly.

Li Yonggan was very surprised: "He hugged me the first time he saw me, which made my heart thump!"

The two have been in love for four months and got the marriage certificate . When he got the certificate, Ma Haoran was just 22 years old.

The outside world cannot hear their voices, but they understand each other's language.

They are the "marginal people" of society, and are "extraordinary people" that are easily overlooked in corners that everyone cannot see.

But they are still the only lover and comrades who can hug each other, supporting each other and supporting each other.

Because love is fair, no matter whether you are a hero, a villain, a rich man, a beggar, a star that thousands of people pursue, or a grass that no one cares about.

No matter how small you are, it will still come to you. Even the two individuals abandoned by the world can still feel the temperature around you when you embrace it.

love, in every corner

Love seems to have become a luxury in this era. Now, compared to supporting each other, people believe in forgetting each other more.

It seems that only the love of celebrities can barely become the topic of conversation in people's mouths, as if only with the spotlight, gorgeous clothes, fragrant cars and BMWs, love can be firm, beautiful and able to stand scrutiny.

In the corner where the spotlight cannot be illuminated, love is still growing silently.

Last year, "Mohe Dance Hall" became popular, and the sentence "The night star is like your eyes killing and setting fires", which flooded social media.

This song comes from a true story.

In a small border town in the northeast, an old man named Zhang Dequan died in a wildfire decades ago. The old man has not remarried for thirty years and has no children.

Whenever he misses his deceased wife, he goes to the familiar Mohe dance hall to dance alone.

Someone is engraving another person's life in his silent and gentle way.

Infusion room, an old man wearing a sanitation suit was having an infusion. The old man wearing a sanitation suit next to him held his hand and fell asleep quietly.

Someone is using their body temperature to support another person's arm. In the ward of

, an 87-year-old grandfather with an drainage tube inserted in his body, holding a bouquet of flowers, holding his wife's hand, and singing their favorite love song when they were young.

Grandma held her husband's hand back, her eyes wide open and her mouth opened, as if she wanted to sing with her husband.

"You wake up, do you know we are going to celebrate the holiday today."

Someone must firmly hold you even in the last part of life.

In Zhengzhou Park, a grandfather comes to call Kuaishou every day.

There is only one listener, the aunt sitting opposite him. The old lady opposite

didn't look at the old man, but just sat quietly with an expressionless face. After a while, tears slowly flowed out of her eyes.

The old man wiped off the tears from the aunt's face with his hands and gently stroked her shoulders: "She was moved, I know."

The old man has been hemiplegic 5 years ago, and he can't speak and needs someone to help him walk. The old man is playing a slap in the park, and he also wants her to come out and bask in the sun and be happy.

When I got married, the old man asked her: "Are you leaving with me? Is I not your nanny? "

aunt said, "

From then on, the two of them got together, saying a nanny, from young to old age.

Some people have been working hard to fulfill one promise in their lives from young to old age...

Those loves that support each other, overcome adversity, and warm each other sound like stories that will happen in movies in the last century have always existed in our lives.

has a classical beauty of loyalty, restraint and silence.

They may behave roughly, look barren, and get simple.

may only exist in the corners where light is invisible, expressing only the whistle of the rain trough, the swallows returning to the nest, and the wheat ear marks printed on the hand.

is the most precious and the most real.

Love may not be dazzling and colorful. What is stepped on under your feet, held in your hands, and buried in the soil is still deep love.