text/Da Meng
True love can stand the test.
The old saying often says: If you catch fish, don’t feed the bait.
is the easier it is to accept a person. When the other party just shows his good feelings, he can't wait to establish a relationship. The more difficult it is to manage love.
is the harder it is for men to get. The more they spend some effort, the more they get what they want. The more they pay for sunk costs , the more they will feel fulfilled and want to cherish it.
Similarly, a woman tests a man’s sincerity not to let the other party do anything for him. This kind of behavior of doing what he wants is actually not difficult.
The real difficulty lies in seeking but not getting it, and in setting up obstacles. When you are pursued, you should reject it appropriately, making it easier to see how a man is sincere.
Rejection can be seen, and it is obvious that the true heart of a man is
Rejection is an emotionally negative word, which means it is impossible. Most people will retreat when rejected, even in love. Turn around and look for the next goal.
But how can true love be obtained so easily? A man who truly loves someone will understand this principle and will allow women to refuse themselves, but will make another 101 efforts when the other party refuses themselves 100 times.
Love is like a pearl, precious and eye-catching. The better it is, the more effort it takes when you have it. People who are reluctant to give are too utilitarian to pursue love and consider everything, and it is difficult to see the sincerity.
reader Xiaohua once told me something.
30 years old, she has no partner yet. After being introduced by someone, she went on a blind date with a good boy. The boy fell in love with Xiaohua at first sight and felt that the two of them could develop deeply.
took the initiative to confess to Xiaohua and wanted to try it together. Although Xiaohua also thinks the boy is very good, it is too fast to confirm the relationship when he meets the first time.
Out of reserve and prudence, Xiaohua rejected the other party's idea of establishing a relationship and wanted to understand in depth before making a decision.
Unexpectedly, the boy never sent a message again. After asking, he found out that the boy was going to meet his next blind date.
If a person really likes you, it is definitely not just a lip service, nor will it be unwilling to spend time waiting for you;
Those men who can’t wait to establish a relationship for the first time when they meet, but are rejected, can immediately regain their feelings and find their next goal, but are not in a heartbeat.
rejection is a test for men
rejection, which makes people feel very disappointed. It was like I had been preparing for a long time, holding a bouquet of flowers and walking towards my beloved girl happily, but it was a moment of result.
When the other party said the word "no" from his mouth, various complex emotions such as helplessness and grievance surged into his heart.
To be honest, rejection just means impossible at the moment, and does not mean that it is impossible forever. If you really fall in love with someone, you won’t choose to give up because of a refusal. Sometimes, although it is cruel, it is a test of true love on men.
As the saying goes: Where sincerity comes, metal and stone are opened.
Don’t think you can easily see the harvest. Perhaps a woman’s rejection is not a test, and she really doesn’t like it, but what she really thinks in her heart.
But if a man really loves him, he will not choose to give up easily.
Although you know that there are obvious obstacles in the pursuit of true love, you are still willing to give great sincerity to win the other party's heart.
is like Wang Baichuan in " Ode to Joy ". She has been fond of Fan Shengmei since her high school years, and has never received her approval.
In order to be with the girl he really likes, Wang Baichuan has been working hard until he won Fan Shengmei's recognition.
Rejection is a test, only men who are willing to give their sincerity can pass; rejection is also a kind of screening, which will filter out people who truly respect love.
Does men love each other? If you refuse once, you will know
A love like a dragonfly is very common, and the periodicity is very short.
A man who has no sincerity cannot withstand the test of true love.Time and getting along will tell all the issues. Try to love or not to be together and you can see clearly.
Fast food Love era, love comes and goes quickly.
However, women are becoming more and more cautious when accepting love. If they are not sincere, as long as they are mixed with any false feelings, they can be clearly distinguished.
just spending time and investing to distinguish a person’s sincerity is too much trouble, and sometimes it will hurt yourself invisibly.
Instead of doing it yourself in your relationship, after investing, gets an unworthy ending of , it is better to first verify whether the other party is worth it when preparing to start.
A truly smart woman will not accept the man’s confession immediately, but will choose to refuse. By observing the man’s specific performance after being rejected, she will judge whether it is worth starting a relationship.
A man with feelings will never look back after being rejected. No matter how good a man is, no matter how outstanding he is, he is not worth nostalgic;
A man who is worth cherishing will regain his strength, start over, and give hard on his beloved until he is sincerely impressed.
People's hearts are separated from their belly, and it is really hard to peek at.
All love, hate, and love in this world mostly depends on the degree of true possession of feelings.
When there is no sincerity in a relationship, it will be empty, and it will be exchanged for each other's suspicion and dissatisfaction;
If a relationship is filled with sincerity, it will inevitably be able to enjoy a happy love.
Today’s topic:
How do you think can you see a person’s sincerity?
Welcome to express your views and opinions in the comment section.
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