Author: Yiduan
Picture: From the Internet
What kind of ending will a phoenix man marry? Just look at the prototype of Hu Lijuan in " Double-sided Glue ".
Because of love, I believed the sweet words of the Phoenix man, paid the house and did not give a gift, and started a family with the Phoenix man, but unexpectedly, because I did not meet the money requirements of my in-laws occasionally, I was beaten to death. My mother was so angry that she was admitted to a mental hospital, and her father was angry to death.
married the wife of " Helping Brother Demon ", and life was even more messy. In " is good, ", Zhao Meilan, the wife of Su Daqiang, married the ugly and cowardly man Su Daqiang in order to solve her younger brother's household registration problem. She did not live a happy life after the marriage. Su Daqiang was very kind to her, but she was given a cuckold.
Moreover, after marriage, Zhao Meilan used all the money at home to subsidize his younger brother, and Zhao Meilan moved the expenses of his biological daughter to the children of her parents' younger brother.
Whether it is a Phoenix man or a "brother-supporting demon", they are undesirable criteria for choosing a spouse. Once you get involved, you will often end up losing both money and money. At the least, the family wealth will be gone, and the land will be messy. At the worst, the life will be lost like Hu Lijuan. Everyone understands the great truth, but when facing the choices in reality, few people can deal with them rationally.
"You have a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan, and I shouldn't it be right to give my brother a pocket money of 10,000 yuan? Our mortgage and car loans are only more than 10,000 yuan together. This amount of money can be taken responsibility for your parents. If they give birth to you, they should contract your food, clothing, housing and transportation. If you are inconvenient to speak, I will tell them!"
Zheng Dahui never expected that his wife would make such "shame-skinned" remarks. I have been sleeping in the same bed for more than two years. This is the first time he has seen his wife's true face clearly. After all, my wife is also a graduate student from a prestigious university. It is also a striking thing to distort her three views to this level.
Three years ago, Zheng Dahui and his wife met because of a blind date. Both of them were busy with their studies and ignored their personal emotions. They were about to enter the ranks of older leftover men and women, and their parents and relatives and friends began to urge them to get in love and get married.
Before this, Zheng Dahui had never been in a relationship. He had no high requirements for his partner, as long as he could live a stable and stable life. Zheng Dahui and his wife met three times in a row and confirmed their relationship. Half a year later, the two decided to join hands and enter the marriage hall.
I thought they were both intellectuals and were too vulgar in talking about money, so there would be no "sky-high bride price". Unexpectedly, in order to marry his wife, Zheng Dahui took out all his savings, and even the money his parents saved for the rest of their lives was taken out. After 200,000 yuan was raised, the two of them had the beginning of their marriage. Zheng Dahui originally thought that his wife would bring back a portion of the money after marriage, even if it was only 1/3, he would be content. However, except for a few cheap quilts and sheets and , the wife has no other dowry. Zheng Dahui was very dissatisfied with this, but he was in the wedding day and did not get better.
For more than two years of marriage, Zheng Dahui's monthly salary of 20,000 yuan is used as part of it to pay off his mortgage and car loans, and part of it is used as family expenses. His wife's salary is lower than his, but she has a guaranteed income of 8,000 or 9,000 yuan. Zheng Dahui has never seen his wife take home a cent, and she has all given it to her parents' home.
If the wife just takes her own money, it would be fine if she subsidizes her parents and younger brother, but now her wife has put her ideas on Zheng Dahui and Zheng Dahui's parents, which makes Zheng Dahui unable to bear it.
It is nothing wrong to be filial to parents. He also agreed to give his father-in-law and mother-in-law a living expense of one or two thousand yuan, but for his wife's younger brother who is so stupid that he can't help with the mud, he is young and has hands and feet. If he doesn't go to work, he knows that he wants money. He really doesn't like it and doesn't want to spoil his brother-in-law.
"What does it mean? Do I owe your family? We are not the parents of your parents' younger brother, why should we give him living expenses? He is already 25 years old and is about to be in the third year. doesn't even look for a serious job and is idle all day long. Why should I pay for his lazy behavior when I earn from hard work?"
" parents raised me to support me in school. We got married. In order to prepare the bride price you asked for, they have already taken it out. All the savings . Now they still have to bear the mortgage and car loan. If it were your parents, would you do this? You can’t be too immoral. I really don’t know where you read your books ! ”
My wife didn’t listen to Zheng Dahui’s explanation. She directly put down her harsh words: " does not agree, we will divorce. If you don't agree, it's more men who are willing!"
The scholar met a soldier and couldn't explain it clearly. It was simply playing the piano at a cow. Zheng Dahui gritted his teeth and nodded, and the word "divorce" popped up, and turned his head and left. He didn't want to look at this woman again.
Sometimes, no matter how many books you read, you cannot develop a correct view of the three views. Women who look very sensible on weekdays will be distorted to the point where there is no moral and legal boundary when they encounter things from their mother's family. Unfortunately, when you meet this kind of woman, the wisest choice is to "run by taxi", and you can go as far as you can.
Otherwise, it will only be sucked to the point where there is no bone residue left. For women, the family, husband, and children must stand aside, and only her parents and brothers and sisters are the most important. The saddest thing is that they are not aware of their use by their parents’ family.
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If you were Zheng Dahui, would you divorce your postgraduate wife who had just been married for more than two years?
What do you think of Zheng Dahui's wife subsidizing all her salary for her parents' family, and asking her husband to give half of her salary to her parents' younger brother as living expenses, and letting her parents-in-law repay her mortgage loan?
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