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Opening
Summer is gone, autumn is coming, season after season, day after day, without any stop.
is like our life.
I always got old this morning last night, and I always got wind and frost gradually stained my temples, and my figure gradually hunched, and my physical strength was not as good as before.
But, this is how life is.
How many people are staying up late and taking supplements; while talking about drinking less, swallowing them one cup after another; while talking about forgetting, missing the past...
The momentum of the newborn calf who was not afraid of tigers when he was young is increasingly gone; instead, he has the calmness of being unable to move and calm when he was old.
As we get older, we are getting quieter and quieter.
Living life is less broad and the sky is more complicated and the family is more complicated; in life, less poetry and picturesqueness, more firewood, rice, oil and salt.
But, thankfully, although it is tacky, it is more vivid, more practical and more graceful.
When you are hungry, you will get a bowl of noodles, cook a pot of tea when you are thirsty, take a look at the flowers when you are free, and talk to old friends when you are bored... Don't ask about sorrow and joy, just ask about the present, don't fight for the day, just pay attention to the people around you.
So, if a person is old, it is also a kind of peaceful life.
Let your heart be peaceful and everything is healthy.
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People are old, their hearts are quiet and full
Yang Jiang Mr. Yang Jiang once said:
"We have longed for the waves of fate so much, but in the end we realize that the most graceful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness in our hearts."
People are old, and living a life is like meditation.
You will no longer desire the excitement, but like to be quiet and calm.
All the past has become the word "former"; all the uneasiness has become a dish of wine.
In the time of aging, we collect the state of joy and sorrow and separation, savor the bitter, spicy and sweet life, and then find a quiet corner, flip through the books in the sun, hum a little song, let the breeze come and the mood is peaceful.
is old, but it is not that scary.
Because you will find that the aging of the skin is the appearance, and the quietness of the heart is the ultimate gain.
Perhaps, your legs will not be as flexible as before, and your words will not be as clear as before, but your heart will no longer be as heavy as when you were young.
seems to be living like a tree, watching the clouds roll and unfold, falling leaves fly, sighing about the sorrows and joys of life, the impermanence of suffering and happiness, everything has become a natural phenomenon.
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people are old, their lives are interesting and down-to-earth
Zhou Zuoren once wrote:
"My happiness is now, I just want to drink a cup of tea in my spare time and read some new books."
can be seen that his life was simple and pleasant, without so many complicated trivialities, but just lived the life he wanted.
We are old and we should live like this.
Don’t be anxious anymore, don’t think about making a lot of money, making a fortune, and find something that makes you feel interesting. Only in this way can you make your heart feel at ease, make your life stable, and make your life full of new ideas.
The quality of life of a person when he grows depends on whether you can find your own personal interests and whether you can get spiritual happiness and comfort.
After all, when you are old, simple food is the most healthy, and dressing is the second most.
If you want to live well, you are immersed in things you are interested in, even if you plant a field, raise a few pots of flowers, learn a few operas, dance a few square dances, carve a few seals, write a few typing...
The brighter your life is, the happier you are, the happier your life, and the more at ease you are.
After all, the impetuousness in life will come to you no matter what age you are at. The capital of getting old is that you have enough time to spend with it, and you can enjoy the tranquility and coolness of your heart.
people are old, they just understand the romantic, take human feelings lightly, tease life, and live their own "clear joy".
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People are old, their lives are idle and free
Time is the most heartless, and life will always be unsatisfied.
Each of us is old with scars, and then enjoy the melancholy of the arrival of old age.
When you are old, you are the age of enjoying leisure.
You can travel east and wander around, you can do it without being slow or slow, take your time, and your expression is free and easy.
So, when you are old, life is leisurely and free.
Feng Zikai once had a painting "After the people disperse, a crescent moon is like water". In the picture, a round of crescent moon is hanging high in the air, a square table on the ground, two rattan chairs, and a few tea cups on the table. There are no characters, but people feel a quiet and leisurely feeling.
At that time, it happened to be a chaotic era. He was living in a deserted village. He grew vegetables and raised chickens and ducks every day. He was busy for three meals a day, but he had such a mentality. It is rare.
People live for a lifetime. When you get old, it is about being able to live a beautiful state of mind.
Don’t fight, don’t complain, don’t be angry, don’t be annoyed... Just experience the joy of getting old in every corner of life.
If you meet someone you don’t like, stay away; if you encounter something you don’t want to participate in, don’t get close to them; if you don’t express your opinions on your children’s family affairs; if you ignore the disputes in your neighbors…
You must understand that when you get old, you need the word “enjoyment”.
The focus of life on weekdays should be to focus on health preservation, so that you can have a healthy body, eat well, sleep well, exercise, experience life, and live in peace with yourself every day.
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People are old, and they are in a bright and sober
Zhang Ailing lived alone all her life. In her later years, she rarely interacted with the outside world.
Finally, when people discovered her, she quietly welcomed her end in her favorite cheongsam.
She once said: In occasions where no one handed over, I am full of joy of life.
can be seen that even if a person lives alone when he is old, as long as he is bright inside, he will not be lonely.
People live for a lifetime, not afraid of vulgarity and boredom when they get old, but afraid of your inner despair and have no place to rely on. They are afraid of you being anxious and uneasy and not knowing how to spend your old age.
So, no matter what the years are, you must live a bright and sober life.
You should know that when you are old, you can still write and draw, farm, prairie, and still wear eyebrows and eyes, and still wear high heels to walk in the crowd; you can still wear suits and walk in the downtown area; you can still dress yourself up as a princess, noble and cute; you can still maintain your image as a prince, clean and elegant...
Life is long, and when we are old, we must also let ourselves experience the warmth of this world, and let ourselves live like a cup of hot tea, with a fragrance and a clearer feeling.
People should be kind to every ordinary day when they live. As for those who hate, love, and leave you, let them go with the wind!
Life is like this, shaking a palm-leaf fan in summer and roasting a stove in winter.
We are not afraid of getting old, the older the better;
We are not afraid of the desolation of time, because we will be as old as flowers bloom, slowly, and the fragrance floats on the branches.
Author, calm fox
picture, online
May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
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