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"What is love in the world, it teaches people to agree with each other in life and death."
We always think that if a relationship is just a short time, it is probably a romantic encounter, a one-night stand.
only because we live in an eloquent era. How many people, if one looks at each other or a seductive word, may walk into a room and have a "resultless love" happen.
If you want to get "a pair of people in your life, you can get old with your hands".
However, in life, there are still some women who think that after they are in love for a long time, they will naturally have a stable relationship and finally become a family naturally.
However, when she reached the age of getting married, the man did not respond to her at all. In the end, the two broke up and blamed each other, causing trouble.
It can be seen that a long-term relationship is never the final word of time, but his performance tells you the answer when you are together.
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We always miss the deep love when we were young.
only because, even when I was ignorant and even if I loved unscrupulously, it was better to love it sincerely.
When people grow up, although they understand many love skills and many routines in love, they can no longer love them as pure and passionate as they were when they were young.
Many girls say: I can’t understand this man’s mind.
In fact, whether a man is greedy for your skin and company, or wants to develop long-term relationships with you, you will know when he is with you.
The following three "performances" are shown below. See if the person around you has treated you like this. If not, then you must consider whether you want to continue with him.
will "concession" for you. It's not that he is cowardly, but that he really wants to spoil you
women. In most cases, love is a monster of detail.
is like, when crossing the road, she will care whether the man will protect her; when drinking water, she will see if the man will help her unscrew the bottle cap first; when eating, she will pay attention to whether the man will order the dishes she likes...
However, these details can only show that this man is moved by you. As for whether he loves you, it is really hard to say.
Because, in order to get a woman, some men deliberately show their gentleness and consideration, romantic feelings, and
If a man really wants to develop a long-term relationship with you, he will not have some small actions on the surface, but will show a look: concession.
You will find that he will no longer treat you with a thoughtful and thoughtful attitude, but will put himself in your shoes, care for you, be gentle to you, and give you consideration;
You will feel that he will care more about details than you, and every move, Ask you for your well-being;
You will realize that he will seriously consider your opinions and consider them carefully, rather than being in the ears. He respects you very much and knows how to think from the perspective of others;
The depth of love lies in the word "concession".
A man made a concession, not because he was cowardly, but because he sincerely wanted to have future development with you. He did not just want to touch your skin, but to touch your heart.
Therefore, the gentleness and softness reflected in this "concession" is the most realistic and sincere pampering for women.
will be "tolerant" to you, not to curry favor with you, but to take you seriously,
In the TV series " He Yisheng Xiaomo ", He Yichen is cold to everyone and ignores them.
But I only care about Zhao Mosheng . Even though the two of them have not seen each other for many years, I am still afraid of losing her. I just met a few times and wanted to marry her home immediately.
And when he learned that Zhao Mosheng had been married once, he was deeply sad and sad, but he still showed a tolerant attitude and firmly chose to get married with her, fearing that she would disappear from her again.
can be seen. The deep love is like He Yichen, no matter who he meets, as long as this person appears, no one can replace him.
A piece of "tolerance" can erase all your shortcomings, regrets, loneliness, loneliness..., I just want to stay with you forever and never leave you forever.
Many boys asked in the background: How can they impress a girl and make her care about themselves.
In fact, loving someone is not based on routines or skills, but you can give her a certainty: no matter what she does, you will choose to give her understanding and be by her side.
Tolerance is not a kind of superficial "flattering" or love for "love", but sincerely making her feel at ease and comforting her.
In life, we will find that many excellent girls will not marry in the same way as boys. Just because the content of "tolerance" in these men's love will exceed the standard, and he will make women feel that no one will love themselves more than him.
And this is also the manifestation of men's desire to develop long-term relationships with women.
After all, no one in this world is so patient to always tolerate you, unless this person loves you very much.
will carefully "marry you". It's not that he is not romantic, but that he wants to have the love of a future
man, he is not afraid that he doesn't know how to love you, but that he just wants to drag you and never go to the finish line with you.
Singer Deng Ziqi Once when he broke up with his boyfriend: I have been waiting for you for nine years, how many nine years do I have to wait for?
The most disgusting thing about a person is this.
He doesn't want to marry you, and he will delay you. To put it bluntly, he is "riding a donkey and looking for a horse". People like this must leave quickly.
So, if a man wants to develop a long-term relationship with you, a "engagement contract" is the most necessary.
If you find out that he does not have the desire to marry you, and even tells you bluntly that you are not suitable, then don’t waste your time.
And if he keeps asking you to wait, and you have loved him for many years, he will still give a "vague answer", then, don't be nostalgic for such a man, you must be sober: How can someone who truly loves you be willing to treat you like this?
Love to the end is to enter marriage.
If you are alone with you and have never mentioned the word "marriage", then your final outcome will probably be "cold".
If a man wants to develop a long-term relationship with you, a woman, he must be "married" with you. So, if you see whether he loves you or not, just whether he marrys you or not, you will understand in your heart.
Love at first sight, although it is beautiful, if it is just "like" instead of being calm, then this kind of love will be a bit "fake". No matter how much he says "I love you", it is just a kind of scene.
The true love should be that he is willing to "draw a prison" for you and will carefully plan how to "marry you".
When he is with you, he will automatically bring his husband into his role, want to possess you and have a future with you.
Maybe, he is not that romantic, he is always very careful in spending money, but he will plan every amount of money to your future;
Maybe, he is not so gentle, he rarely makes vows to you, but he lets you see it all the time, his determination to live a good life.
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Many women, when they first met men, thought they had met the love they loved for their whole life, so they gave without regrets, wishing they could take out a heart for the other party to see.
is very likely, it is just a play.
There are many other women who have lived with men for many years, thinking that they have met their true destiny, and will have no worries in their lives from now on, and have both support and support.
is very likely, he just hasn't met someone who replaces you for the time being.
So, it is really important to see whether a man wants to develop a long-term relationship with you.
You must be clear that a man truly loves you, first of all, it is an attitude. He will give in to you, instead of using "details" to please you, but when something happens, you must listen to him;
Secondly, you must look at the man's sincerity, whether he will give you "tolerance" if there is a little between you. If there is a little dispute, he will be violent towards you and hold on to him. He must make you surrender to him. For most of the time, you are just his vassal;
Finally, you have to look at the man's love. The man is serious about you. He will not marry you and will not give you a title. You must understand that a man who has not talked about marriage for a long time is either not loving enough or has other plans.
Life is long, and a man develops a long-term relationship with you, that is, he runs with you in big strides towards the future, that is, he wants to give you a good ending.
Author, calm fox
picture, online
May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
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