After retirement, the elderly will have various ways of living, some live comfortably and wonderfully, while others live dull and painfully.

After retirement, the elderly will have various ways of living. Some live comfortably and wonderfully, while others live dull and painfully. Indeed, it is really important to spend this life, especially when you are old. Many people have a lot of regrets. When you think about it, you often feel that your life was not exciting enough. At this time, the elderly will participate in some activities that can exercise and be in a happy mood. Square dance and ballroom dance are one of the entertainment activities.

I believe that in the whole country and even everywhere in the world, men and women can be seen dancing ballroom dances shaking their waists, playing freely with the rhythm of the music.

Ballroom dance is indeed an exercise used to cheer up the body and mind and relax. Just like a woman going to the gym or practicing yoga, she can have a good figure and feel that it is not hard, but she feels that her body is very happy. However, everything has its advantages and disadvantages. Ballroom dance also has its disadvantages, and its disadvantages are not small. An aunt Zhou said, "Ballroom dance has great benefits and even greater harm to me. Ballroom dance is really harmful to people. My family is deeply hurt. I suggest that everyone stop dancing ballroom dance."

Why does Aunt Zhou have such a bad mood statement? Let's look down together.

58-year-old Aunt Zhou

My surname is Zhou. I originally worked in a company and I have a workplace. I am very satisfied because my status is above ordinary women.

I do not live in the countryside, but have a household registration in the county town. My family can be considered a well-off level in the county town, so I am quite content in my life.

My relationship with my husband is not very good or bad. It’s normal. It’s rare to be able to survive until our age and not divorce in China. So even though marriage cannot satisfy me, I still want to thank God.

I just didn't expect that my husband and I had always had no problems, but in the end I was ruined by a ballroom dance, and my husband filed for a divorce from me.

I retired at the age of 55. At that time, I had not danced ballroom dance. My mother was seriously ill at that time and I had to give up all my time to take care of my mother.

In order to take care of my mother, I lost a lot of weight, no entertainment projects, no time to party with my best friend, and no time to travel with my husband.

I have been taking care of my mother for more than a year, and I have almost never slept peacefully for more than a year, because my mother is really old, a person in her 80s, and is close to heaven, so I have to take care of my mother even more, caring for her and considerately. I spent an hour feeding my mother every time I slept with me, and then I slept with my mother again. Because she had difficulty in legs and feet, I needed to help her go to the bathroom in the middle of the night.

Later, my mother passed away, and my physical and mental condition was worse. My best friend told me to let me go with her to relax. She said square dance is very popular.

Best friend has a deep relationship with me. She is not a bad woman. I just went to dance square dance with my best friend.

I remember the first time I danced square dance, I was moved by the music of square dance and the enthusiasm of people, and since then I fell in love with square dance.

I only danced square dance for three months and found that my physical condition was getting better and better, and I ate more delicious. Combining work and rest is indeed a healthier body.

I was infected by the atmosphere of square dancing. I, who was originally serious, suddenly became very enthusiastic and had a very good relationship with everyone.

At this time, the captain asked us to learn ballroom dance. If we are willing to learn, learn. Then my best friend taught me to learn ballroom dance. I was already in the dance and couldn't extricate myself.

I have always been an ambitious woman and I am afraid of being looked down upon by others, so I have made rapid progress in my studies. My best friends and teammates praised me and danced well.

Best friend is a woman with a husband, but she dances ballroom dance with a strange man, which makes me a little puzzled. When I asked my best friend, she said it was okay. The era of men and women not being able to kiss each other long ago has passed. We are just teammates, just friends, nothing.

At this time, a man walked towards me and stretched out a hand to me. His face was a friendly smile. He looked gentlemanly and his voice was gentle. He said, "Hello, can I dance a ballroom dance with you?"

His name is Lao Jiang, and he looks quite gentlemanly. At least at the beginning, he gave me the impression of a gentle man, who is 5 years older than me.

Although I felt it abrupt, the men and women in the audience were dancing. I felt that I would be sad if I didn’t dance, so I made this man happy.

When he was dancing, he praised me for my slim figure, asked me if I had been to the gym, and praised me for my appearance, saying that I was good-looking, and then said that I was elegant and young, etc. In short, I was blushed when he praised me.

When I was dancing ballroom dance with him, I stepped on him a few times because of my nervousness and embarrassment. He even praised me for learning how to dance well. My vanity was greatly satisfied by him.

So, he gave me a good first impression. He is very humorous and funny, often makes me laugh, and is good at praising others. So the second time I danced with him, and he praised me again, saying that I was born to be a dancer and a rare dancer. After

, he bought me a bottle of drink. I was already amused by him. His language was also very humorous and witty. His clothes looked like a gentleman in the upper class, and I actually put my guard against him.

In the first month, Lao Jiang did follow the rules. Even if he danced ballroom dance with me, he would not tangle his fingers like other couples, and would only touch them gently.

What he discussed most with me was how to dance this ballroom dance well with me, so I don’t think he has bad intentions for me.

However, after more than a month, his behavior made me feel more and more awkward and strange. He hinted at me how wealthy he was, saying that he had money, houses and cars, his son was the boss of a company, and he retired as an executive of the company, with a pension of 6,000 yuan.

Although I have the innocence of a girl, I am not simple either. I know he may have a good impression of me, and I have thoughts of bad things about me. So I started to stay away from him on excuses and often left the topic behind when speaking. I can't figure it out either. I said that I have a family, and he still pestered me.

I don’t know if Lao Jiang can understand what I mean, but he seems to be unable to understand. He always takes the initiative to approach me and extends a friendly hand to me. I couldn't get angry with him in person, so I still danced with him.

Actually, what I wanted to resist was, but Lao Jiang looked very friendly and seemed to have no malicious intentions towards me, so I danced with him.

At this time, his salty hand reached out. When I wanted to break free from his hand while dancing, he suddenly told me some very sensational words, saying that he had been divorced for a long time and wanted to find a very beautiful woman to spend the rest of his life.

I told him that I have a husband, and it is impossible for him to do so. Who knew that he suddenly put his hand on my waist and looked at me affectionately and said, "I really want to be with you. Can you be with me? I know that your relationship with your husband is not that good, otherwise you wouldn't have danced a ballroom dance with me."

I let go of his hand and said, "Can you respect yourself? My husband and I have nothing to do with you. At least I am not divorced now. Doing this makes me feel that you have a problem with your morality."

My conversation and pulling and pulling with Lao Jiang were not very loud in the noise around me, but it still attracted the attention of others, and then more and more people looked at us.

Seeing other people's gaze, I hurriedly left. I thought I could no longer dance ballroom dance in the near future, but who knew that this incident had reached my husband's ears a few days later.

My husband asked me why he treated him like this, asked me if I had cheated on him, how long it had been in an extramarital affair, and I couldn't argue. I just told me about the process of my understanding with Lao Jiang from beginning to end, but my husband didn't believe it, and even slapped me in the face indifferently and said he wanted to divorce me.

I knelt down and apologized to my husband. My husband insisted on divorceing me for some reason. I repeatedly promised my husband that I would never dance ballroom dance with other men again. If there was another time, I would divorce immediately, and my husband might consider the child, so I was convinced.

Although my husband forgave me, our relationship has become numb. After

, I went to another environment with my best friend, a place without Lao Jiang at all. But I didn’t expect that Lao Jiang would actually release rumors that I had an affair with many men, and also deceived his relationship, saying that I was a bad woman.

The women around me pointed at me, and even my best friend asked me if this was true.

I can’t explain it to my best friend, and I can’t stand the dirty crowd on the square dance anymore. Everyone is wronging me. I never went to dance ballroom dance again and didn't even dare to leave the door. The circle of ballroom dancing is too chaotic now. It is really terrible that others seek to take revenge if they fail to pursue it.