Human nature has its own weaknesses. A 100% perfect companion actually doesn't exist at all. For most men and women, marriage is just an option. When everyone enters a relationship, it actually means that they will stand the test. No matter how certain you are about each other’s

Human nature has its own weaknesses. A 100% perfect companion actually doesn't exist at all.

For most men and women, marriage is just an option. When everyone enters a relationship, it actually means that they will stand the test.

No matter how certain you are about each other’s feelings, you will encounter different things at different ages. Betrayal, lies, and deception are the most heart-wrenching parts of the relationship.

Love is fleeting. Eternity is the beautiful ideal of mankind. The sooner we know the truth about these marriages, the better:

A more confused marriage is happier

Dai Jianye Teacher said:

"Love is not just a short-term attraction between the two sexes, but also a long-term tolerance for each other, and a long-term care for both parties. Never love others, and never been loved by others is undoubtedly the greatest misfortune in life. Both parties must learn to contribute and be grateful."

Marriage is more realistic than love and will also face more challenges and temptations.

In marriage, you are very careful in everything and keep your finger on the other person’s mistakes, which often won’t last long. A good marriage is not that neither of them will make mistakes, but that both parties choose to understand each other.

There is no 100% perfect partner, nor does it have a 100% perfect marriage. Two people turned a blind eye, closed their eyes, and their whole life passed. It is difficult to change a person, so you can only try to accept it.

Zhang Ailing said: Women who are too sober will not be happy, either pretend to be confused or are really confused.

pretending to be confused is a philosophy of survival. If you are really confused, it is a blessing.

The more a woman cares about small things, the more unwilling the man to go home. Home is not a place to reason, but a harbor of love. You have no reason to say about your partner. Close the door, whether you eat pickles or meat, you will talk and laugh. This is the true happiness.

Don’t worry about who makes more money and who does more housework. People with ability make more money and those with free time do more. Only in this way can they be harmonious.

Marriage cannot be 100% perfect

In this world, there are no two leaves that are exactly the same, and there are no two people who are exactly the same. Born in different families and having different family environments, the two people have different ideas. Therefore, quarrel is inevitable.

The reason why the divorce rate in modern society is so high is that everyone lacks patience. If there is a problem with the marriage, I immediately think about throwing it away instead of learning to repair it.

My husband and I have been married for ten years and often have quarrels, but I never thought of being separated. When he is busy with work, I do more housework. When he is free, he will take care of his children for a while.

He threw his socks everywhere, and I also had the problem of losing everything. He always likes to nag, and my emotions are more likely to get out of control.

We are all children from the countryside. We do not have strong financial strength and no parents' support. The two of us have basically passed away since we have nothing. In the past ten years, we have raised children and quarreled occasionally, but we also enjoyed the warm time of the two.

His shortcomings, I chose to turn a blind eye to it. He also learned to be tolerant of my shortcomings.

A discussion with each other on major issues and decisions on small matters. We never check each other's mobile phones, and we also give each other the maximum freedom.

The prince and the princess live happily together from then on. This is a beautiful love fairy tale. Marriage is complicated. No matter how loving each other is when you are in love, once you enter the marriage, all kinds of defects will be exposed.

What will happen if another person gets married? In fact, whoever you marry is always with yourself.

When you adjust your mindset to the best state and your heart is truly full of energy, you will definitely have a new understanding.

Don’t expect too much from your partner. The higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment

People can have expectations for themselves, but don’t hold too much hope for others.Whether it is a couple or a lover, you are different individuals after all.

A good marriage is a person's understanding.

I read this passage:

Caterpillars will never know and will never understand the world of butterflies. However, each caterpillar can become its own butterfly. However, before becoming a butterfly, you will first become a cocoon-bound pupa. In the cocoon, any struggle or attempt to change is futile. There is only one choice for pupa, that is, to give up all resistance, fully accept the current feelings, and wait calmly. Until one day he broke out of his cocoon and became a butterfly.

Your expectations belong only to yourself and cannot be imposed on others. Your dream belongs only to yourself, and imposed on your partner will inevitably put your relationship in trouble.

Put down your expectations, accept calmly, discover the other person's shining points, and learn to appreciate each other, so that their interactions will become more and more harmonious.

Whether it is a couple or a lover, you are different individuals after all.

A good marriage is a person's understanding.

I read this passage:

Caterpillars will never know and will never understand the world of butterflies. However, each caterpillar can become its own butterfly. However, before becoming a butterfly, you will first become a cocoon-bound pupa. In the cocoon, any struggle or attempt to change is futile. There is only one choice for pupa, that is, to give up all resistance, fully accept the current feelings, and wait calmly. Until one day he broke out of his cocoon and became a butterfly.

Your expectations belong only to yourself and cannot be imposed on others. Your dream belongs only to yourself, and imposed on your partner will inevitably put your relationship in trouble.

Put down your expectations, accept calmly, discover the other person's shining points, and learn to appreciate each other, so that their interactions will become more and more harmonious.