My sister died of dysfunction and left her children. In order to take care of her two poor children, her sister chose to start a new family with her brother-in-law. The stories of Li Piaopiao and Han Jiantao from Bozhou, Anhui have attracted attention online.
Li Piaopiao explained her thoughts to the Jimu News reporter: "My sister and I had no father when we were in teenagers. We live in an incomplete family and don't want to let our two children have an incomplete childhood." She said that she would try her best to take good care of the two children and be worthy of every mom the children call her.
At present, although the two have been in a family for three years, they have not held a wedding or received an marriage certificate . "When the financial conditions are improved in the future, I will hold a glorious wedding for Piaopiao," said Han Jiantao.
Han Jiantao and Li Piaopiao (Source: Screenshot of the interviewee's video)
The woman died of dying delivery, leaving behind a pair of children
00At the end of 2012, a 23-year-old young man from Bozhou, Anhui, married Li Minmin, the same year, and formed a new family. Shortly after their wedding, the two went to work in a clothing factory in Pinghu, Zhejiang. In order to increase income, after get off work, the couple often set up street stalls on the roadside, from evening to late at night.
"Minmin was in a teenager, her father died in a car accident. Minmin has four sisters and a younger brother. The family is in a bad condition. She is willing to work hard and can endure hardships." Han Jiantao recalled.
In 2014, the family of Han Jiantao and Li Minmin welcomed a new member and his son was born. In 2016, Li Minmin returned to her hometown to wait for labor after becoming pregnant again. In order to pay off the 160,000 yuan foreign debt owed to build a new house as soon as possible, Han Jiantao stayed in Zhejiang to work.
Because my mother-in-law is in poor health, she cannot stay up late. During her pregnancy, Li Minmin was always taken care of by her eldest sister Li Piaopiao.
Unexpectedly, bad luck came, and Li Minmin suffered a dying child while giving birth. "The doctor and the family tried their best, but in the end they only saved their daughter, but failed to save their adults." Han Jiantao still felt very sad when he recalled the scene at that time.
The wife who was with her day and night said she would be gone, and the beautiful family fell apart in an instant. Han Jiantao could not accept such a reality for a while, and was drowsy all day long and drowning in drinking to drown her sorrows. He once suspected that he had depression , and his speech became unnatural and had not completely returned to normal yet.
Later, Han Jiantao took his two young children from Anhui to Jiangsu, and defected to his mother-in-law and aunt Li Piaopiao who worked there. "At that time, my son was 3 years old and my daughter was just born, and life was very difficult. Thanks to Piaopiao and her mother-in-law, she helped take care of her." Han Jiantao said that this care lasted for more than two years.
Li Piaopiao and the child (Picture source: Screenshot of the interviewee's video)
Aunt and brother-in-law reorganized their family, just for the two nephews to have a complete childhood
Li Piaopiao took care of the two children on behalf of his sister, and was both an aunt and a mother.
"The daughter has followed Piaopiao since she was born and has always called Piaopiao mother. In 2020, her son changed her words and called her mother." Han Jiantao said that his daughter looks very similar to Piaopiao. When she walks outside, others think they are a mother and daughter.
One day in 2019, my mother-in-law called Han Jiantao and Li Piaopiao to her and suggested that they start a new family. "After hearing this, none of us looked at each other. We were both embarrassed and awkward, and we were completely unprepared because we had never thought about it like this." Han Jiantao said that his mother-in-law had never discussed it with them before. They thought about this suggestion seriously and finally agreed.
About a week later, Han Jiantao, Li Piaopiao and his mother-in-law returned to their hometown in Anhui. The elders of both sides sat together and had a simple meal, and even if they were home. "We didn't hold a wedding. When the financial conditions are better, I will hold a meaningful wedding for the beautiful and glorious." Han Jiantao felt indebted from the bottom of his heart.
Li Piaopiao said that her requirements are very simple and she hopes to take a beautiful set of wedding photos in the future.
Han Jiantao told Jimu News reporters that although he and Li Piaopiao formed a de facto new family, the two did not receive their marriage certificates. "Actually, it's not a hassle or a licence. It only costs a few dollars, but I want to leave a way out for Piaopiao.I'm afraid that if something happens to me, Piaopiao can start a new family at that time, at least she has never been married in law. "Han Jiantao explained this.
Li Piaopiao said that she lost her father with her sister since she was a child and lived in an incomplete family. She didn't want her two children to have an incomplete childhood. This is the main reason why she was willing to start a new family with her brother-in-law.
Han Jiantao was grateful to Li Piaopiao and said that she was the child and his benefactor. They did not want their own children. Many people advised Li Piaopiao to have one. She always replied: "The family is not in good condition now. Take good care of the two children first, let them study hard, grow up, and talk about the others later. "
" I hope my sister can rest assured in the sky"
My aunt married my brother-in-law, both in reality and on the Internet, is quite controversial.
" Instead of letting everyone talk behind the scenes, we might as well say it boldly. "In May 2022, Han Jiantao and Li Piaopiao posted the first video online, and they chose to respond publicly online in this way. After the
video was released, some netizens expressed their understanding, sent them blessings, liked Li Piaopiao, and advised her to have her own biological child as soon as possible. But some netizens also believed that it was moral and contrary to ethics to form a new family by her sister and brother-in-law.
"I didn't do anything wrong, so I was not afraid of rumors. "Han Jiantao said that in order to take care of the children and give the children a complete home, they no longer go out to work, but choose to live stream and sell goods at home. He is responsible for making peach wood handicrafts, while Li Piaopiao is responsible for selling goods online.
"On the one hand, I speak unnaturally; on the other hand, there are often netizens who say swear words during live broadcasts. I can't watch Piaopiao be bullied and will retort. The live broadcast room was blocked several times because of this, and later I stopped broadcasting. "Han Jiantao introduced that now they broadcast live for seven or eight hours a day, and their income is not very stable. They can earn about 100 yuan when they are too small, and 4 or 500 yuan when they are too large. "We don't have much talent, and although there are companies that are optimistic about working with us, we just want to make money on our own and raise our children. "Han Jiantao said.
Han Jiantao is responsible for doing handicrafts (Picture source: Screenshot of the interviewee's video)
Li Piaopiao said that she will work hard with Han Jiantao to take good care of her two children, and she will be worthy of every mother the children call her. "Although I can't give them real maternal love, I will always be with them until the brother and sister get married and start a career, and I hope my sister can rest assured in heaven. "Li Piaopiao said.
A family of four (Picture source: screenshot of the interviewee's video)
(In the article, Han Jiantao, Li Minmin and Li Piaopiao are all pseudonyms)
(Jimu News)
Editor: Zhao Shanshan
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