People often say that a man who spends money for you in love may not love you, but a man who does not spend money for you must not love you. Although the sentence
has some truth, it ignores a premise: Is the money the other party spends for you willingly? Is it what you want to give?
Active giving and active giving are completely different things. This is not only a matter of attitude, but also a matter of the position of the two people in their relationship and their ability to fall in love.
Marriage lawyer Long Fei said: "It is rare that a couple in a family has equal income. One person earns 150,000 and one person earns 100,000. This is normal. The measurement of a marriage should be comprehensive, and it depends on what the other party has paid for the family."
If you want a man to willingly spend money for you, it is not enough to just rely on liking. If you don't love one day, the relationship between the two will collapse.
If you spend money for you and he can also obtain value, then this state can form a good cycle.
In fact, women with three kinds of "soft power" are usually women who are willing to spend money, without exception.
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First: You can grow together
Rainie Yang In a variety show, "Talent is the most useless thing." A friend around
told her that she fell in love with a musician, and he was so handsome when playing drums.
Rainie Yang asked directly: "So what? What can you bring to love with such a person?"
Many people will be attracted by the other person's talents in their relationship, and will feel that they are not worthy of the other person, and infinitely amplify the other person's strengths and their shortcomings.
But in fact, it is the most realistic that you can actually bring benefits to the other party in your relationship.
Rainie Yang also said that in a relationship, she values maturity. Although you will feel pressured when you are with the other person, two people can make progress together, and the other person is willing to stop and look back at you.
Men often have stronger career aspirations compared to women. This also means that in a relationship, they need a sense of maturity of their partners, and they become more.
The relationship that can grow together will definitely open your heart between the two parties, not only living in the present, but also living in tomorrow. Such a relationship is already very stable and is ready to work together for a lifetime.
Everyone is afraid of giving everything, but the two of them are separated in the end. After they lose both their lives and wealth, their future cannot be guaranteed.
When the future is firmly determined and will be happier than a person, and it is also very beneficial to yourself, when a man spends money for you, he will be very willing to give up.
No one is unwilling to invest in themselves, investing in the future, especially when the relationship between the two parties is good.
The request at this time will be generous as long as it is not excessive.
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Second: The higher the level of people, the less they are, the more they will focus on their feelings, because they are tired of maintaining their feelings; the more money a woman can make, the less they will care about men’s efforts, because they can be self-sufficient.
Although money cannot represent anything in love, the heart is the most important thing. But isn’t this an excuse to cover up poor financial capabilities?
If a woman has her own income, she can satisfy what she wants. In this case, after receiving the man's things, there will be a big gap compared to those who are not financially capable.
A man spends money for you. If you act greedy and even imply that the other person spends more money and gives more expensive gifts, in this case, the man may not spend money for you again.
On the contrary, those independent women have become the targets of men.
In a family, both parties often regard income as the standard for contribution to a family. In a relationship, both parties often take the criterion of who spends how much money in this relationship.
says on the surface, "I support you" and "I will work hard for you". Once you lose interest, all your efforts will become complaints.
Friendship is a two-way contribution. You cannot just let the other party show goodwill and give, but you should also let the other party see your contribution to this relationship.
is like in a relationship, the more you refuse, the more proactive the other person will be; the more independent you are, the more attracted to you and admire you more.
What's more, learning to be independent is very important to yourself no matter at any stage of love or life.
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3: It can improve the quality of life
Can men submit their salary card after marriage or transfer money to their girlfriend before marriage. Can these behaviors really express love?
First look at two situations. The first situation is that a man gives you his money, and a woman saves all the money, either he is unwilling to spend it at all, or he spends all the money on himself.
The second situation is that after a man gives you the money, he will take out part of the money and eat, drink and have fun together, buy some daily necessities, save the remaining money, or take out a small part to buy something for himself. Comparing the two situations of
, it is obvious that you will definitely choose the second one.
The reason why people fall in love is because one person cannot face a boring life. There are too many troubles in life. It will be much better for two people to encourage each other and move forward together.
If a man spends money on you, can make himself feel happy and has a significant improvement in the quality of life, then he must be willing to spend money on you.
To a certain extent, men are good at "good wife" and after feeling happiness, men will definitely be more motivated to make money.
This also realizes the initial meaning of falling in love.
doesn’t have to spend money big, you just need to go out for a big meal every once in a while, go out for a trip once or twice a year, and can also enhance the relationship between the two parties in this process.
When a man knows that you won’t spend money indiscriminately, he will naturally be willing to spend money for you. Maybe he will feel sorry for your efforts and give you more surprises.
So it is very important to have a certain ability to dominate in your relationship and be able to live a comfortable and sweet life without wailing yourself.
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Intimate relationship is an indispensable existence in our journey in life, and the domination of money is very important in intimate relationships.
Properly handles the relationship between money and is very beneficial to the development of relationships; if it is not handled well, the two may also part ways because of money.
No matter what, as long as two people are still in love, the relationship should not be dominated by money, but actively dominate money to increase or decrease the weight of money in the relationship.
For women, men trust you enough and love you enough, so that they will give you money and choose to have a home with you.
But men cannot support you for the rest of their lives, maintain their charm and improve their personal abilities. When they become stronger and stronger, they will naturally have everything they want.
When a man voluntarily spends money for you, you already have a certain qualification. With such a relationship, you will definitely have a happy and beautiful marriage.
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