The most important thing in love is to be wholehearted. Since you have chosen to be with the other person, you should treat the other person well no matter what.
Maybe, your ability is indeed very average, so what's so great about it? Since she has made a choice, she naturally recognizes your existence. As long as you are sincerely good to her, even if you have to endure hardships together, what's the big deal?
However, as a woman, you should also learn to protect yourself. If he treats you sincerely, it is naturally worth your expectations. However, if he does not have you in his heart, it is no longer worth your efforts.
Generally speaking, when a man falls in love with others, these three small actions will occur. You can tell at a glance that please stop the loss in time.
If you are angry, you won’t coax you at all
If a man loves you, he will naturally put you in the most important position in his heart. Similarly, if he doesn't love you anymore, no matter how you make trouble, she may be too lazy to look at you more.
This is how love is. When you identify you, you are the best existence in the world. Once you don’t love you, he is too lazy to care about who you are and what you become.
In fact, in the story of two people, after a man falls in love with others, he will not care about your emotions at all. Even if you get angry or quarrel, you are too lazy to coax you. You will know such small actions at a glance.
If he really has you in his heart, even if he will quarrel with you, he will definitely spend his time coaxing you, and he will not be like that. Leaving you and not caring about your life or death.
Go out to play every day and don’t go home to accompany you
Those who like you will naturally feel that being with you is the happiest thing. Only when you don’t like you will feel that every minute and every second you are with you is a waste of time.
Love is often like this. Because I love you, even if I am with you and are bored with you, I don’t feel that there is any problem. On the contrary, the less you don’t love you, even if your topic is interesting, he will be too lazy to say something more.
So, if a man falls in love with others, he will not want to stay at home, and he will want to go out and play every day, and he will not want to go home to accompany you. He will always find various reasons, refuse your request, and he will not be willing to keep your emotions in his heart. He will even feel that wasting so much time on you, which means nothing.
doesn’t care about the ambiguity with other women
If you don’t have you in your heart, you won’t be afraid of hurting you. In a man's subconscious mind, if he truly loves you, he will naturally put you in the most important position, and you don't need to remind him at all, and he will consciously keep a distance from other women.
On the contrary, if he doesn't love you, he won't care about your attitude at all. As for whether you are happy or unhappy, trust or doubt, he won't keep it in his heart.
So when a man doesn't care about being ambiguous with other women, even if you find out, he still has an indifferent attitude. If you have such a small action, it is actually like you have already fallen in love with someone else, you can tell at a glance.
Otherwise, even if you really have bad thoughts, you will naturally explain it as soon as possible when you have doubts, rather than not.