The pension of 7,000 yuan should be a good life, but now the old man says he is homeless. What's going on? Why is this happening? Let’s take a look at this matter together, and hope that this case can remind all the elderly.

The pension of 7,000 yuan should be a good life, but now the old man says he is homeless. What's going on? Why is this happening? Let’s take a look at this matter together, and hope that this case can remind all the elderly. No matter how high your pension is, let alone 7,000 yuan, you can't do these three things wrong even if it's 70,000 yuan. Otherwise, you will be like the old man in the article in the end. At that time, it is called heaven, and heaven will not respond, it is called earth, but earth will not work. Then fuck, don’t blame others, if you want to blame, blame yourself. Let’s take a look at what’s going on. The pension is 7,000 yuan, but I don’t want to live anymore. The 75-year-old man: I would rather be selfish than do these three things.

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75-year-old Mr. Su:

I have no choice now, do you believe it? I think many people don't believe it. How can you be homeless? Even if your children don’t care about you, at least you can go back to your hometown. Isn’t your hometown your own home? How could it be homeless? But what I want to say is that I am really homeless. I don’t even have the old Taoist anymore. Now I don’t want to live with my children.

Although they haven't driven me away yet, I'm almost done. Because I have no use value to my children. All of this is my fault. If I had not done these three things wrong, it would not have been so miserable now. I have a pension of 7,000 yuan a month. Although not many, I think it has surpassed most elderly people, and many elderly people do not have pensions.

But I have 7,000 yuan a month. I am now homeless. Who can blame all this? If you want to blame me, blame myself, because I did these three things wrong. I hope that through this case, I can remind all the elderly that no matter how much your pension is, let alone 7,000 yuan, even 70,000 yuan, you can't do these three things wrong, otherwise it will definitely be a tragedy in the short term.

For such things, the first thing I did wrong is that I hand over my deposit. I went to my son to retire three years ago. I didn't want to go, but they insisted on letting me go there, especially my grandson. When my grandson came back, he told me, grandpa, you can go to our place to support me.

Of course, this matter was told by my father, because my father said that you listened to me the most, so you can go back to retire with me. We all take care of you there. After the high school entrance examination, you are alone in your hometown. Who knows if something happened to your boss? Although I didn’t take the initiative to make a mistake, who will come faster, whether it will come faster than tomorrow? What if there is an accident? A few days ago, your cousin was my uncle.

This is how he happened to him. He was gone before he was sent to the hospital. Will the consequences still be like this if someone is at home? Someone may not die so soon if he is at home. No matter what happened at home, it was gone like this. How pitiful. It was not that he had no children or that he had no money. It was just that this happened because he lived alone. In order to avoid these tragedies, you should go to our place to retire. We look at you better than anything else.

And you should go to our side when you are old. If you don’t go, how can others say my dad? So you go there to retire. Of course, I hope you can go there, and we will be happy if you are there. How could I refuse such a thing? My wife passed away many years ago. After my wife passed away, I lived alone in my hometown. I didn’t take the initiative to go to my children to retire, because I was afraid that my own affairs would cause trouble to them?

I think this is the reason why many elderly people live alone. It is not that their children are unfilial, nor that their children are unwilling to support themselves, but that they do not want to trouble their children because of their own affairs.That's why I don't want to go to my child's place. Now that my child is back, I'm telling me about this, how can I refuse? I originally wanted to refuse, but I couldn't say they were just like that, so I went to their place to retire. After I went to their place to retire, they began to instigate me to hand over the money. My son told me, you are here, eat mine and drink mine.

Although it is natural for me to raise you. But you can't spend my money, our life is not easy, otherwise you can hand over your savings. We owe so many mortgages and with your deposit, we will live a good life. Anyway, your money is saved in the bank.

That's better to take it out and do something more meaningful, don't you? If you deposit the money in the bank, there is no interest. If you give it to me to pay back the mortgage, you will be able to reduce a lot of interest. So it would be better to take out the money and pay my mortgage. You also know that when your child grows up, you also need a lot of money to get married. If I don’t have money, how can they get married? Do you want to see your grandson lose face?

Faced with such a thing, I think few old people can refuse, and then I agreed to take out the money. I saved all my life and took out all my money for more than 300,000 or more. At the beginning, I planned to divide it into three parts, but they told me that you eat mine and drink mine here, and you don’t need to pay for anything. You can ask me if you ask for money, and you will get a rent refund every month in the future.

Why do you have to divide the money into three parts? Just give us the money. If you have no money, you still have a pension, just ask us. There is no need to leave so much money. It is dangerous to keep so much money around you. What if you are cheated of it? If you don’t have money around you, others can’t deceive you. So for your own good and for the family, I will hand over the money.

What else can I say? This is the first thing I did wrong. If I handed over the money, I shouldn’t have handed over the money. The money is for the elderly to support me. If I don’t have money at all, no one can rely on it. Not long after handing over the money, they started asking me again for my salary card. They told me that it is indeed not a big problem to keep the salary card with you, but you have a bad memory. What if you lose your salary card?

And you also know that our mortgage is more than 8,000 yuan a month, which is nearly 9,000 yuan. Then your pension can almost pay the mortgage, or use the pension to pay the mortgage. I want to refuse. Because I don’t think it’s necessary to do this. They have their lives and I have my own lives. It takes me a lot of age, but my life will continue. And I had handed over all my pension money not long ago, what else do I want to do?

Do you still want my pension now? I know many elderly people who will encounter these problems after having sex with their children. Maybe your children will not be so direct, but they will definitely hint you. But my child is more direct and just asked me to hand over the money. They told me a lot of things, just say that you must hand over the money, otherwise they will not be able to survive. I felt soft when I saw them like this.

Here is another word, the elderly cannot be soft-hearted when facing these things, and once soft-hearted, the one who regrets must be you. If you don’t have kidneys, the elderly cannot be soft-hearted when facing these things. Once soft-hearted, the one who regrets must be you. If you don’t have credit, you will not hand over the money. Then there is still a way back in the future. If you are soft-hearted, there will be no way back, just like I am now.

They took away all my money, including my pension and my deposit. Now I have no money and my salary card is with them. It was only then that I realized that living here is like a year. Usually when I go out to buy things, I ask them for money. They will give me some money when they are in a good mood, but will not give me money when they are in a bad mood, and sometimes I even think I am wasting money.

I fell in love with a set of clothes for more than 200 yuan. They told me, didn’t you just buy clothes not long ago? Why do you want to buy it again now? Do you think the money was blown by the strong wind? In the past, when my pension and my deposit were all with me, I did whatever I wanted. They would not ask about my own money, but now I have to tell them to buy things and wait for their consent before I can buy them. If this happens, you won't have money to buy.

is really pitiful now. This is the second thing I did wrong, and the third thing is that I was forced to be helpless. My grandson is getting married. It was also happened not long ago, and they needed a wedding house. My child had no money, so my child came to me. They told me that my grandson is not young anymore and is going to get married. If he doesn't get married, he doesn't know how to live in the future. Now he needs a house.

I told them directly, where do I have money? Haven't I handed over all my money? There is no money now. Then they told me, I know you have no money, but don’t you have a house? Anyway, you won't go back to your hometown in the future. Why not sell the old house? If you sell the old house, you will have money to buy a house for my son and get married. Do you think so? It is impossible to live back to your hometown. So you can only sell the old house, and you also know that you are living a good life with me and will be here in the future.

There is no need to be single anymore, so let’s stay here for other things. I was speechless. The old man is really not lucky in the face of these things. If you are lucky, you will regret it in the future. Just like I am now, I regret it very much. Why did I hand over all this? Now I have no way out. I have handed over the house, my deposits, and my salary card. Where should I go?

Before I was here. They treat me very well because I have money, now I have no money and I don’t even have an old house. They treat me not very well. Although I didn’t drive me away, I saw disgust in their affairs. If it weren't for their father, I would have been driven away by them. My eldest son treats me like this, and I have two sons.

regret it, I shouldn't have given all this to them. Sometimes I think if I didn’t come here to retire, it wouldn’t be so miserable now. When I was in my hometown, I didn’t have anything to worry about. I could hire a nanny to take care of myself, but now I have no freedom at all. Not only can I lose my freedom, I can’t even leave the door. Who can I blame this time? If you want to blame me, I blame myself. This ending happened because I did these three things wrong.

The elderly must pay attention. No matter whether you follow your children or not, you cannot do these three things, otherwise you will be like me. Even if you have a pension of 7,000 yuan per month. Where should I go to the last step, who is as homeless as me? Where should I go? The world is so big, but I don’t have a place to stay.

Conclusion:

Who can blame for this ending now? If you want to blame yourself, blame yourself. If you didn’t hand over the money and the house, then is this the ending now? Faced with such a thing, the elderly really cannot be soft-hearted. They need your children to help, but you cannot go too far.

Too much is irresponsible to yourself. Just like the old man in the article, he is too soft-hearted, but when he moves the child to the end, this is the ending. Although your child may not be like this, you have to be careful and you have to be responsible for yourself. Let’s just say that, if you are not responsible for yourself, then who in this world will still be responsible for you.

You have to learn to be responsible for yourself, so that others will be responsible for you, even if you have biological children, if you have money in your pocket and then the boss, do you think they will ignore you? If they don’t care about you, at least you can still live back to your hometown and have money to live.

But when you have no money and even Lao Zhao is gone, what should you do? So what if you have 80,000 yuan in retirement? Isn't the result so miserable? Just like the old man in the article. I hope that through this matter, all the elderly can take it as a warning and never do these three things wrong.