Life requires luck, but it is absolutely undesirable if you rely on luck all of it. Things obtained by luck are easily lost if you don’t grasp them well. As long as you get something through your own "hands", it is the most reliable.
01. Have a "wrist", don't be afraid of things
You will encounter all kinds of people and things in life, People with "width" can handle things freely and turn bad luck into good luck. Don't cause trouble, but don't be afraid of trouble. Although we must remain kind, we do not just tolerate ourselves and make ourselves stronger. We must also fight back when it is time to fight back, otherwise we will be despised. If you want to control your life in your own hands and face difficulties, taking the initiative is a very necessary way.
Be kind and upright in life, but you need to do things. All things that have happened are good things, difficulties and setbacks encountered in life. When we overcome them, those setbacks that have been made into our armor, and we become stronger, wiser and braver.
02. Have "craftsmanship", don't be afraid of losing
Zhou Guoping once said: " Because of setbacks, our observations are led to deep thinking. A person who has experienced setbacks and keeps his love forever proves that he is spiritually rich enough , so you can afford to lose. "Most of us are ordinary people, and we don't have many opportunities to succeed, but we may encounter many failures in the process. But we must have a mentality of not being afraid of losing and being able to afford to lose, so that we can have the courage to fight again and finally get the chance to turn the tables against the wind.
The people who can succeed are not as relaxed as we look on the outside. They have also experienced repeated failures, but they have never given up, and still stick to themselves, constantly polishing their "crafts" and finally succeed. Of course, "craftsmanship" is not just a skill, but also a person's talent and personality. These need to be tempered the day after tomorrow. A truly capable person may be defeated, but he will never be defeated. Life is a long road, and winning or losing for a moment is actually nothing. As long as you choose not to give up, you will eventually usher in your own victory.
03. Have "hands and feet", don't be afraid of hardship
In life, we often hear others say that we are not happy. Or feel unhappy. What kind of life is happiness? In fact, happiness is not comfort, nor is it gained without effort. Happiness is achieved through your own efforts, which is a kind of down-to-earth happiness. The more a person is afraid of suffering, the more he will suffer. A person with "hands and feet" always knows that happiness depends on himself.
Life is fair. If you want to choose a comfortable road at the beginning, then your life will only get harder and harder. There is never a shortcut in life. Never choose comfort at the age when you should endure hardship, otherwise you will be the one who ends up suffering. Don't be afraid of hardship, endure hardship for half a lifetime. Afraid of suffering, and endure hardship for the rest of your life. The sweat we strive to leave and the mud we wade through will lead us to a wider world.
Director Ang Lee once said: " Life is not just sitting and waiting, good luck will fall from the sky. Even if you are destined, you must find it yourself. " Luck is always for the effort The strength of the people prepared. People with "tactics" don't panic when encountering problems; people with "skills" don't fear gains and losses; people with "tactics" don't say anything about their suffering. Persist in crossing the darkness and finally enjoy the beautiful scenery of dawn.
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