"Zhang Youjian" is 39 years old this year. Because he bought a house in Guangzhou while working in Guangzhou, he rarely has time to return to his hometown. He only goes back to visit his mother and brother's family during holidays. He had invited his mother to live with him many

"Zhang Youjian" is 39 years old this year. Because he bought a house in Guangzhou while working in Guangzhou, he rarely has time to return to his hometown. He only goes back to visit his mother and younger brother during the holidays. .

He had invited his mother to live with him many times, but her mother refused because she thought she was not used to living in a big city.

Seeing that his mother insisted on staying in his hometown to live with his younger brother, Zhang Youjian paid 1,000 yuan a month to his mother as alimony. If his mother incurred other expenses, Zhang Youjian and his younger brother would share the expense!

understands that it is not easy for his younger brother and his family to take care of his mother. Zhang Youjian often gives his younger brother some extra money as compensation. Sometimes when his younger brother asks him to share his mother's extra expenses equally, he rarely calculates the money with his younger brother!

At first, the amount of money that his brother asked for every year was still within Zhang Youjian's ability to bear. Unexpectedly, after a few years, his brother asked him for money more and more frequently, and for more and more reasons!

After his mother fell ill and was admitted to the hospital in August 2022, his younger brother made new demands on Zhang Youjian. He believed that his elder brother's condition was better than his own and he should bear all the expenses for his mother's treatment.

Faced with this request from his brother and his mother's tearful persuasion, will Zhang Youjian agree to this despite his wife's objections?

The younger brother thinks that he has raised his mother for many years, but some people don’t think so!

As early as 2012, Zhang Youjian invited his mother to live in Guangzhou. However, because his brother and sister-in-law did not agree with the matter, his mother was unable to come to Guangzhou from her hometown.

Although his mother claimed that she would be uncomfortable living in Guangzhou, Zhang Youjian knew why his brother insisted on his mother staying with them. Zhang Youjian believed that the reason why his brother and sister-in-law left their mother behind was just to let her stay to help take care of the children.

Because of this matter, Zhang Youjian and his brother had many quarrels. Later, when he saw his brother talking about this matter all the time, his brother made a promise in order to solve this problem. He said that his family would be responsible for his mother's elderly care in the future!

In the years when his mother first moved into his brother's home, his brother did not ask Zhang Youjian for money. However, after his mother was diagnosed with a disease in 2017, his brother changed his attitude. He believed that his brother should share his mother's expenses with him. .

Seeing that his brother did not respond to him, he went to many relatives and claimed that he had been supporting his mother all these years, but his brother who was far away in Guangzhou ignored his mother.

After discovering that he was being discussed by relatives, Zhang Youjian also felt that he should contribute money to support his mother, so he went home and negotiated with his brother about supporting his mother.

Zhang Youjian gives his mother 1,000 yuan a month, and his mother's other expenses are shared equally between the two brothers! This was the plan Zhang Youjian negotiated with his brother when he returned to his hometown.

Afterwards, Zhang Youjian has been strictly implementing this plan. He will give his mother a sum of money every month, and actively share the mother's extra expenses with his brother. Knowing that it is not easy for his brother to take care of his mother these years, he has also made extra payments many times. I gave my brother some money.

I thought that we could always support our mother according to the original plan. Unexpectedly, starting in September 2020, my younger brother frequently asked Zhang Youjian for money for various reasons. At first, Zhang Youjian would not reject his younger brother, but as time went by, he slowly began to reject him!

After Zhang Youjian refused to give him money as before, the relationship between his brother and him became worse and worse. Even though his mother came forward to persuade the two to live in harmony, Zhang Youjian and his brother were still at odds.

According to his younger brother, he has been taking good care of and supporting his mother these years. There are many expenses that his brother cannot see. He is far away from home, and the thousand yuan he gives every month is not enough for his mother's daily expenses!

After hearing what his brother-in-law said, Zhang Youjian's wife also expressed her opinion. She did not think that his brother-in-law had supported her mother-in-law for so many years.Instead, she felt that her mother-in-law was actually subsidizing and helping her brother-in-law's family by living in her brother-in-law's house all these years.

For example, when my brother-in-law's children were in kindergarten, their mother-in-law would take them to and from school every day. Moreover, during that time, the mother-in-law was also doing the housework at the brother-in-law's home. Even the thousand yuan they gave her every month would sometimes Being subsidized on my brother-in-law’s child!

After the two parties disagreed on this matter, the two families did not get into trouble that required relatives to come forward to mediate the dispute. However, after his mother fell ill and was admitted to the hospital in August 2022, Zhang Youjian and his brother still found relatives to resolve the matter. A dispute arose because both of them refused to pay for their mother’s medical bills!

The younger brother thinks that he has supported his mother for so many years and his brother's condition is so good that he should bear all of his mother's medical expenses.

But Zhang Youjian felt that while he paid alimony to his mother every month, he also gave a lot of extra money, so he refused to bear all the expenses for his mother's treatment.

During this period, my mother also spoke on the side of my younger brother many times. He once tearfully persuaded his eldest son Zhang Youjian not to argue with his younger brother because his younger brother's family conditions were not as good as his!

After subsequent mediation by relatives, Zhang Youjian and his brother agreed to share their mother's medical expenses according to the original plan.

After they left, a relative once said this: Although they resolved the dispute this time, they will still have conflicts over this matter in the future, because neither of the two brothers is willing to suffer!

After his mother recovered from her illness and was discharged from the hospital in September 2022, Zhang Youjian returned directly to Guangzhou. When he left, his brother made a request to him. He wanted his mother to live with his brother's house in Guangzhou for two years. Zhang Youjian did not respond to his brother, but left the scene directly!

Instead, she felt that her mother-in-law was actually subsidizing and helping her brother-in-law's family by living in her brother-in-law's house all these years.

For example, when my brother-in-law's children were in kindergarten, their mother-in-law would take them to and from school every day. Moreover, during that time, the mother-in-law was also doing the housework at the brother-in-law's home. Even the thousand yuan they gave her every month would sometimes Being subsidized on my brother-in-law’s child!

After the two parties disagreed on this matter, the two families did not get into trouble that required relatives to come forward to mediate the dispute. However, after his mother fell ill and was admitted to the hospital in August 2022, Zhang Youjian and his brother still found relatives to resolve the matter. A dispute arose because both of them refused to pay for their mother’s medical bills!

The younger brother thinks that he has supported his mother for so many years and his brother's condition is so good that he should bear all of his mother's medical expenses.

But Zhang Youjian felt that while he paid alimony to his mother every month, he also gave a lot of extra money, so he refused to bear all the expenses for his mother's treatment.

During this period, my mother also spoke on the side of my younger brother many times. He once tearfully persuaded his eldest son Zhang Youjian not to argue with his younger brother because his younger brother's family conditions were not as good as his!

After subsequent mediation by relatives, Zhang Youjian and his brother agreed to share their mother's medical expenses according to the original plan.

After they left, a relative once said this: Although they resolved the dispute this time, they will still have conflicts over this matter in the future, because neither of the two brothers is willing to suffer!

After his mother recovered from her illness and was discharged from the hospital in September 2022, Zhang Youjian returned directly to Guangzhou. When he left, his brother made a request to him. He wanted his mother to live with his brother's house in Guangzhou for two years. Zhang Youjian did not respond to his brother, but left the scene directly!