Introduction
The most traditional way of caring for the elderly is to follow their children in caring for the elderly. However, due to the improvement of living standards, the elderly have more choices. For example, hiring a nanny or going to a nursing home to provide care for the elderly, and some may choose group care or community care. The first two cost a lot of money and are not affordable by ordinary elderly people. The latter two also have many shortcomings, and many elderly people have difficulty adapting to them.
Therefore, finding a wife to live together has become the best choice for the elderly. With a wife by his side, he will not be so lonely, and there will also be someone to bring tea and water. On the surface, it seems that finding a wife is really good, but often after living together, we realize that living with a partner is not as wonderful as we imagined.
The 64-year-old Aunt Zuo said frankly: "I live with a 70-year-old man. It was pretty good in the early days, but what he did later made me feel particularly chilled." Let's take a look. The story of Aunt Zuo.
Narrator: Aunt Zuo
I am 64 years old and have been retired for more than ten years. As soon as I retired, I chose to live with my son. On the one hand, I could enjoy the company of my family, and on the other hand, I could help them. My son and daughter-in-law are both good children, and they are very filial to me as a mother. I was very happy during the years I lived in my son's house.
But I never expected that my son would suffer from stomach cancer at such a young age. The first operation cost a lot of money, but fortunately, he gradually improved after the operation. However, within two years, the cancer recurred again. This time, my son was not so lucky and left us forever.
The grandson was four years old at that time, and the daughter-in-law was just 28 years old, and she became a widow at a young age. I naturally hope that my daughter-in-law can stay in our home forever, but I also know that I cannot be selfish. Her life has just begun, and I cannot delay her for my own selfishness. If my daughter-in-law wants to remarry, I would support it.
About the third year after her son left, my daughter-in-law found a new partner for herself. They knew each other well. The husband was also very good to her and my grandson, so I also wish them well.
My grandson lives with my daughter-in-law. It’s not that I don’t want to keep my grandson. But I know that a child's growth is often inseparable from his mother. His father is no longer around. It would be really miserable if his mother is not around either. No matter how nice I, a grandmother, am to him, I can't replace the existence of my parents.
However, after my daughter-in-law got married, she would take her grandson home to visit me every month. I am very satisfied with being able to do this.
I have been living alone since my daughter-in-law remarried. It's really lonely to live alone in nursing homes. People say that there are many elderly people in nursing homes, so it will definitely be very lively when you go there. I have also learned about some nursing homes, and the fees are very low. I can't bear the money, and I feel that there is no freedom in life in a nursing home, so it is better to take care of the elderly at home.
A friend introduced me to a partner the year before last. I originally had no idea about finding a wife. They took great pains to introduce me to me, and I couldn’t refuse, so I went to meet him. Later I found out that he was pretty good. , decided to give it a try. The object of
is Lao Li, who is 70 years old this year. He is also my later wife. I am able to provide for myself in old age. After all, I receive a pension every month, so I don’t look for money when looking for a wife. I just hope to have someone who can take care of each other. When I was sick, the other person could give me warmth. I thought my request was really simple.
After getting along with Lao Li, I feel that he is a pretty good person and cares about others. He often greets me and asks me about my welfare. I feel quite warm. After getting along for a few months, we hit it off immediately and decided to live together.
When we first started living together, Lao Li was really a particularly qualified wife. He pays for both of our living expenses and shares the housework with me. He doesn’t have that annoying machismo. And he is a bit romantic. From time to time he invites me out to eat and gives me small gifts.
Introduction
The most traditional way of caring for the elderly is to follow their children in caring for the elderly. However, due to the improvement of living standards, the elderly have more choices. For example, hiring a nanny or going to a nursing home to provide care for the elderly, and some may choose group care or community care. The first two cost a lot of money and are not affordable by ordinary elderly people. The latter two also have many shortcomings, and many elderly people have difficulty adapting to them.
Therefore, finding a wife to live together has become the best choice for the elderly. With a wife by his side, he will not be so lonely, and there will also be someone to bring tea and water. On the surface, it seems that finding a wife is really good, but often after living together, we realize that living with a partner is not as wonderful as we imagined.
The 64-year-old Aunt Zuo said frankly: "I live with a 70-year-old man. It was pretty good in the early days, but what he did later made me feel particularly chilled." Let's take a look. The story of Aunt Zuo.
Narrator: Aunt Zuo
I am 64 years old and have been retired for more than ten years. As soon as I retired, I chose to live with my son. On the one hand, I could enjoy the company of my family, and on the other hand, I could help them. My son and daughter-in-law are both good children, and they are very filial to me as a mother. I was very happy during the years I lived in my son's house.
But I never expected that my son would suffer from stomach cancer at such a young age. The first operation cost a lot of money, but fortunately, he gradually improved after the operation. However, within two years, the cancer recurred again. This time, my son was not so lucky and left us forever.
The grandson was four years old at that time, and the daughter-in-law was just 28 years old, and she became a widow at a young age. I naturally hope that my daughter-in-law can stay in our home forever, but I also know that I cannot be selfish. Her life has just begun, and I cannot delay her for my own selfishness. If my daughter-in-law wants to remarry, I would support it.
About the third year after her son left, my daughter-in-law found a new partner for herself. They knew each other well. The husband was also very good to her and my grandson, so I also wish them well.
My grandson lives with my daughter-in-law. It’s not that I don’t want to keep my grandson. But I know that a child's growth is often inseparable from his mother. His father is no longer around. It would be really miserable if his mother is not around either. No matter how nice I, a grandmother, am to him, I can't replace the existence of my parents.
However, after my daughter-in-law got married, she would take her grandson home to visit me every month. I am very satisfied with being able to do this.
I have been living alone since my daughter-in-law remarried. It's really lonely to live alone in nursing homes. People say that there are many elderly people in nursing homes, so it will definitely be very lively when you go there. I have also learned about some nursing homes, and the fees are very low. I can't bear the money, and I feel that there is no freedom in life in a nursing home, so it is better to take care of the elderly at home.
A friend introduced me to a partner the year before last. I originally had no idea about finding a wife. They took great pains to introduce me to me, and I couldn’t refuse, so I went to meet him. Later I found out that he was pretty good. , decided to give it a try. The object of
is Lao Li, who is 70 years old this year. He is also my later wife. I am able to provide for myself in old age. After all, I receive a pension every month, so I don’t look for money when looking for a wife. I just hope to have someone who can take care of each other. When I was sick, the other person could give me warmth. I thought my request was really simple.
After getting along with Lao Li, I feel that he is a pretty good person and cares about others. He often greets me and asks me about my welfare. I feel quite warm. After getting along for a few months, we hit it off immediately and decided to live together.
When we first started living together, Lao Li was really a particularly qualified wife. He pays for both of our living expenses and shares the housework with me. He doesn’t have that annoying machismo. And he is a bit romantic. From time to time he invites me out to eat and gives me small gifts.I felt very comfortable and at ease with him.
I really regard him as my wife. Since I got together with him, I bought everything he wears for him, and I am also very good to his children. When Lao Li's children came back to visit him, I also entertained them enthusiastically and made preparations in advance every time.
Lao Li’s son and daughter-in-law are both teachers. His son is a teacher in the third grade of high school and also serves as a class teacher, and his daughter-in-law is also a class teacher in an elementary school. Although teachers have many holidays, they are also very busy at work. They can take care of their students but not their own children.
So they often send the two children back to Lao Li to help take care of them. Lao Li is a big boss. He is good at housework, but he is not as good at taking care of children as I am. I usually take care of the children.
His son and daughter-in-law are also very grateful to me. In addition to preparing red envelopes for Lao Li during festivals, they will also prepare another one for me. The attitude towards me was also very warm, and it felt like a family. It really made me feel the warmth of the family.
This kind of life is really wonderful, and I always feel lucky that I have met a good wife.
At the beginning of last year, Lao Li accidentally fell when he was going down the stairs and stayed in the hospital for almost a week. During that time, I stayed with him in the hospital, bringing him tea and water, and I didn't dislike him at all.
Lao Li was also very grateful to me. After he was discharged from the hospital, he bought me a gold necklace. I feel that since Lao Li and I are in a partnership, we should take care of each other and get along when things happen, so that our lives can always be happy. Go down.
But when it was my turn, Lao Li changed immediately. Two months ago, I felt unwell and went to the hospital for a check-up. The final check result was that I had cancer. When I heard the news, my mind went blank. I never imagined that I would get such a disease. The doctor told me that my condition was very serious and that treatment would cost a lot of money, and the possibility of cure was not high. He asked me to be mentally prepared.
Lao Li didn't say a word on the way home. I thought he was just worried about me. But I didn't expect that after I got home, Lao Li told me that we wanted to break up. He felt that my cancer would only drag him down, and he didn't want to contribute money or take care of me.
My heart froze when I heard him say that. I didn't say that he had to pay for my medical treatment, and I tried my best to serve him when he was sick. But when it was my turn, he didn't even hesitate. He was decisive. You want to break up with me.
I am so sad. Lao Li has already said this. I also have my own self-esteem and cannot stay to see his expression. So Lao Li and I broke up that day, and I packed up and left his house.
After I returned home, I was at a loss for a few days, not knowing what to make. Before I could get the results, the doctor from the hospital called me and told me that I had gotten the wrong test report. I don't have cancer, just some minor problems. I thought my ears had heard it wrong at the time, so I repeated the question several times. Later, I ran to the hospital and had a physical examination again before I could believe it.
Later, Lao Li learned about my physical condition from my friend, and then found me again, hoping to get back together with me. It is undeniable that Lao Li was really good back then, and I lived quite happily with his family. But after experiencing that incident, I finally saw clearly what Lao Li was like. He was only willing to be nice to me when I could help him. Once I ran into trouble, he would give up on me without hesitation. He was really disappointed.
So I didn’t get back together with Lao Li. He came to me several times later, but I didn’t want to see him. This kind of thing once is enough. As I get older, I have less ability to bear it. If I encounter another abandonment, I may really not be able to bear it.
I have always been frugal since I was young. Now I have a pension of 500,000 yuan and a monthly pension of 3,000 yuan. I should be able to be self-sufficient and live a good life without relying on a man.
For the rest of my life, I choose to live alone. I am free and free. I just need to take care of my own food, clothing, housing and transportation. There are not so many troubles for me to worry about, and I can live a more comfortable life.
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