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Friends are like fish in the water. Fish in the deep water layer and shallow water layer will never come together; the poor and the rich, the officials and the people, the grassroots and the dignitaries cannot become true friends because they have different perceptions of life. The most important thing is that they treat the world and nature differently.
Even the rich and the rich, officials and officials, dignitaries and dignitaries will not become true friends.
Because there are interests, distinctions, choices, priorities, and concerns, we can distinguish between three, six, and nine levels. The worldly conflicts of interests obscure the true feelings, so there will be no true friendship.
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Youth is enviable, but maturity is even more profound.
no longer only values youth and beauty, but also values maturity, serenity, nature and clarity; values a woman's mind, generosity, wisdom and kindness; and values the connotation behind stability and maturity and occasional tenderness.
Ten years are extraordinary for everyone’s life. Ten years of traces, once ups and downs in the sea of life, ideals and dreams, regardless of success or failure, now only sighs remain. Through the trials and tribulations, the bright clothes, angry horses, and flames and flowers, all that can remain deep in my heart are extremely precious treasures. Nalan Xingde There is a saying in "Yu Meiren": "The light behind the moon and the shadow of the flowers are already traces of ten years and ten years of heart." Desolate and poignant, the experience is imprinted on the paper, and the knot of ten years of heart spreads deeply. . The years have turned into a book, and the affectionate parting finally ends. Between the lines, there are shadows of the past and the footprints of the old year. Cang Cang's longing for and sadness of death are destined to go through life. . The same love as Mao Hexi. About the author: Xi Yan (WeChat ID: x) is an editor of literary websites. His writings have been published on major literary websites. Some of his works are scattered in print media publications such as "Writers' Newspaper", "Writers' Selections", and "Qilu Literature". Published collections "Songs of Time", "Ink Painting Jiangnan", etc. Public account: Yulu micro-publication (ID: luer2200), most literary books and periodicals. After ten years, I am used to watching reunions and reunions, but I still feel grateful. Ten years later, in which city will the classmates and friends I haven’t seen since farewell be? Have the landscapes of distant lands changed? Does the first love have a destination? How are they doing? You will be busy and working hard every day just like yourself! Like me, I will think of myself deeply at a certain moment! Ten years is a cycle that is neither long nor short. The reader said, "Ten years is very long, and it is as long as looking up at the years; ten years is so short, that it is as short as nodding your head and thinking about seizing the day." Ten years is like a day, which is a big lie. In fact, it is a bit sour and a bit torturous. Over the past ten years, experiences have turned into stories. It is hard to overcome the gap between things and people, and it is hard to describe the endless melancholy in my heart. Ten years, what have been lost? What was gained? Is it a deep bond or a long-lasting emotion? Friendship, laughter, anger, scolding and no grudges, how many are left? Love, is the original intention still the same as before? Family love, do you understand the depth and weight of silent giving?
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Be sincerely grateful to the person who has been waiting for you all your life, because he is the harbor of your life; smile to the person you once hated, because he made you stronger; sincerely thank the person you once loved, because he made you understand love. .
Be grateful to the person who betrayed you. If it weren't for him, you wouldn't understand the world. To the person you secretly liked, you should sincerely wish him happiness, because when you liked him, you also wanted him to be happy. To the person you trust, you should Get along well with him and you will never meet many sincere friends or true confidants in your life.
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Feelings are not high or low, and there is no need to control or master them. Feelings flow naturally and freely. Deliberate control and pursuit will not lead to true feelings.
Sincere emotions in this world require tacit understanding of the soul, and even natural spiritual communication.
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Things in the world are both complex and simple. If you are simple, the world will be simple.
To live a free and brilliant life, you have to endure pain. Everything has two sides or many sides. Sometimes it is difficult to tell what is right and what is wrong.
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Happiness index depends entirely on mentality.
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Place emotions in a free space. To be tolerant to others is to be tolerant to yourself; to be tolerant of feelings is to be tolerant of the soul.
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When you are free, think about it quietly, how many truly reliable buddies and confidants you have after living for decades.
Don’t look at and distinguish your friends from the perspective of your so-called status or what you can control through your official position. These so-called friends may be the most unreliable ‘friends’!
As the saying goes: It is enough to have a confidant in life. Maybe after thinking about it, how desolate the soul is without even a confidant.
Be more tolerant, generous, and benevolent. True love for true love, this is the foundation of being a human being.
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Wife or husband has long seemed ordinary, even unbearable. But time has already merged with each other.
No matter how difficult and unbearable it is, it is still a part of life.
We may not cherish it when we are together, but if we are separated, we will find it difficult to leave.
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The meticulous care and doting we gave to our children not only made us a burden, but also made the children unable to stand up for life. the backbone.
When I was young, I was afraid that they would endure hardship, that they would suffer, that they would be exposed to wind and rain, that they would be exposed to wind and rain...there were so many fears.
When they grow up, we still have to bear the deep sorrow and pain for our original fear. Who is to blame?
How can you see a rainbow without going through wind and rain? This is absolutely true!
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None of us can win the race against time. "Life is short" is not an empty statement. For people in their forties, it has a lot of feelings.
Face everything calmly, live out your self, live out your self-confidence, think what you need to think, do what you need to do, love yourself, and more importantly, love others.
No matter when and where you are, you must especially cherish your fate. Whether it is a passer-by in your life or a long-term confidant, it will be a lifetime of wonderful memories.
Don't wait until you are powerless to bring up the memories of lifelong regrets and remorse.
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