In this world, apart from parents, the closest people are brothers and sisters.
When their parents were alive, brothers and sisters often visited each other. After a parent passes away, many people think that siblings break off their friendship. In fact, this is not the case. The love of brotherhood is always parting.
When you are old and have a meal at your brothers and sisters' house, you will understand the following four things.
1. As we get older, we see each other less often.
In fact, the future is not long. Brothers and sisters who seem to stay with you for a long time will leave one by one at a certain time.
When we were young, we learned a poem: "When a young boy leaves home, his elder brother returns, his local accent remains unchanged and his hair on his temples fades."
In order to make a living, family members would go to different cities to make a living. Then settle in different places. Being able to have dinner together is a rare thing.
read a message: Zhang Wanlong, a Taiwanese veteran who had been away from his hometown for 70 years, went through all the trouble to contact his relatives in Tangshan .
Back then, he was still a young man when he left his hometown; now he is over ninety years old, and his gray-haired look is heartbreaking.
Relatives rushed into the old house together, and more than a dozen people gathered around to eat peanuts and jujubes and talk about their farewells. He speaks with a Tangshan accent, which makes people very friendly.
After paying homage to our ancestors and seeing our relatives, we still have to leave after all.
When your loved ones say goodbye again, will you think that - when you look back, it will be a year, and when you turn around, it will be a lifetime.
Really, many times, when you put down your wine glass, you will turn away and wipe away your tears.
Hatred is really useless, no matter how fierce it is, it can't resist the feeling of longing. Goodbye, although it will be sentimental, but it will also be without regrets.
2. After our parents pass away, our brothers and sisters are the closest to us.
After our parents pass away, the closest people to us are our siblings.
has only brothers and sisters, connected by blood with us.
During the Qingming Festival, brothers and sisters will get together to worship their parents, add graves and weed, which is also a kind of happiness.
After the death of their parents, brothers and sisters rely on each other. During the holidays, no matter whose house we have a meal with, everyone will find the happiness when their parents were alive and remember the beauty of being together when they were children.
3. In the past few decades, all the fighting has been in vain.
"We are originally from the same roots, so there is no need to worry about each other." Brothers and sisters share the same father and mother, and they harm each other and plot against each other, which is the most chilling thing for their parents.
When getting along with brothers and sisters, you must give in and tolerate each other. Why fight over money and property and ruin family ties.
Decades pass by in the blink of an eye. Compared with money and material things, the most precious thing is brotherhood.
When people get older, they will understand that money is something outside the body. Don’t fight or seize, tolerate and give in to each other, leave a good example to the younger generations, and make the brotherhood stronger and stronger.
4. At the end of life, no one wants to die with hatred.
As the saying goes: When a person is about to die, his words are also kind.
Once people reach their old age and life gradually comes to an end, they will become much kinder.
When people grow old, they can still have brothers and sisters to visit them, which is a comfort to the soul and a blessing.
People are old, have difficulty moving, and are suffering from diseases. Apart from their children, they have only brothers and sisters left.
When brothers and sisters have a meal together, during the chat, they think of the benefits of siblings, and they will write off their grudges. After all, no one wants to die with hatred.
Don't think about the past, don't be afraid of the future, pick up the bowl and eat well, everything is in your mind.
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