#Have you ever been forced by your family to ask for betrothal gifts? I have not been forced by my family to ask for betrothal gifts. I got married to my beloved. If both of us were willing, we went to get a marriage certificate. After I got married, I went back to my hometown on

My father once talked about how poor he was when he was attending normal school in the 1960s. He didn’t even have the money to go to school, so he just carried a quilt and walked to school all night.

After working, it is 18.8 yuan a month. When I get married and have children, every month’s salary is spent on buying some medicine when the children are sick.

Every time the children are sick, they take turns catching a cold. When the eldest child is cured, the second child will start. When the second child is cured, the third child will start. Spend all your monthly salary.

Young people have just started working and have no money at all.

is based on his own work experience. He knows that when he graduates from college, he is so poor that he has no money at all. Parents in rural areas have even less money.

My father just knew that the salary after work was low and not enough to spend, so he didn't ask his beloved for any gift money. On the contrary, they also gave us 2,000 yuan to buy clothes.

Be it betrothal gifts or dowry, the money parents spend is to dress their children better and eat better.

My parents don’t even consider that they will need pension money when they get old. I want a betrothal gift to support me in my old age.

My father sympathizes with the poverty of young people just after they start working, and understands the hardship and poverty of those who go to school all the way.

Today’s young people are no better off than in the past. In the face of housing prices, the average person’s salary of just over 10,000 yuan is simply not enough. How come

still spends 4,000 yuan a month, 2,000 yuan on rent, and 2,000 yuan on food? It is still a very frugal life. He may not be able to save even 100,000 yuan in a year. A person cannot save enough money to buy a house in 30 years.

Young people in any era are very tired, and no one can relax, except for the rich second generation.

However, the parents of the rich second generation are also very hardworking. They definitely work overtime every day without any rest time, working hard to make money.

If people don’t make money, they will think that it is very easy for others to make money. Once people start making money, they will know that it is very difficult to make money. You can't even earn the gift money, and you can't ask for it from the other party.

On the contrary, it is poor parents who do not make money and will desperately ask for betrothal gifts. They think money comes easily.