Now, every time the child leaves, she will go to the roof to cry alone. Only in this way can she find a little bit of herself.
"It's not my family or friends that save me, it's my work. Working hard can reduce my pain, and by helping those who are in the same pain as me, I can feel a little less guilty about my children."
has experienced the ups and downs of life. Feng Lang can still smile like she does now. Her secret is to persist in doing work that does not let her lose herself. Work makes her feel that she is still alive and allows her to find a reason to live that is as precious as the life of a child.
Life is different, and there is no right answer in life. For some people, work is the first card to be abandoned for the sake of their family. For others, work is the rope that they make sure they are alive and connected to the world and must never let go. And I have been standing on these two tightropes at the same time. One day, I want to be with my child all day long and share her childhood with her. Someday, I want to be a working mother and be a career counselor for my daughter in the future. It is very dangerous to stand on two ropes all the time. In the end, the work piles up and the children are not educated well. In this jungle that only cares about results, if you want to balance work and family, you will often find yourself in a dilemma.
In fact, compared with the past, many women seem to be happier staying at home. There are also many women who start doing things they are interested in while taking care of their children and husbands. Now they live a fulfilling life and enjoy daily small things. Happiness, there are many women who understand the joy of it.
Even so, I still think women still have jobs. I hope that the last thing you want to protect is your work. It doesn’t matter what kind of work you do. I just hope that you put more energy into the work that you prepared a long time ago. Maybe one day in the future it will suddenly bloom and shine. If it is just a vague vision now, then start working harder from now on. If you generate more interest from your hobby, then believe and urge yourself to develop it into an ability.
Although the child you are holding in your arms is humming and has no idea what he is saying, one day he will suddenly say without hesitation: "Mom, I want to live alone." At that time, you will not panic. , your husband who has been with you all day leaves you for some reason, and you have the best defense and will not be frustrated. Through work, we can understand a more meaningful, youthful and energetic way of life. In time you will find that your husband will respect you more.
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