How will you feel when you haven't seen a person's news for a long time, or you are suddenly curious about what he has been doing recently, so you click on his friend circle and only see a cold horizontal line? Surprised, angry, or sad? After thinking about it, maybe you will tentatively send a message to the other party, and find that the other party can receive it, but does not delete you or block you, but blocks you from the circle of friends. What does this mean? Most people who do this actually fall into these three mentalities.
People who are not familiar with you don’t want to have your privacy snooped into at will. So, do you mind if people you don’t know well look through your circle of friends? Some people may not care, but some people really do. I saw a comment made by a netizen on the Internet. I really hate people who are not familiar with me and yet they always monitor my circle of friends. At first glance, it sounds a bit extreme. After understanding what happened, I can completely understand how he felt. He is usually very carefree, with a look-and-see mentality, and seldom blocks others until he adds someone and doesn't have much contact with him. As soon as he posts to Moments, his colleagues will comment in the comments section thinking they are humorous. Point and point. He posts photos of his travels, and his colleagues tell him where he went to play now that he is rich. He posts his game records, and his colleagues say what a girl can do in this killing game. Sometimes I would see him posting on Moments, and I would chat with him for a while, asking him what he meant by what he posted in Moments, and whether the person of the opposite sex in the photo was his boyfriend. It felt hard to say that his privacy was being dug into, she said. I really want to delete the other party directly, but it’s because of my colleagues. The relationship couldn't be broken, so I had to block him. I can understand his helplessness. Opening up your circle of friends to others is a way of showing your sincerity, but if you meet someone with whom you are not familiar and likes to point fingers and make random comments, you will have no choice but to take back your sincerity.
When you see this, you may start to reflect on yourself. Why would the other party block you even though it is not so annoying? Within the boundaries are people who are close to each other, and outside the boundaries are those who are distant from each other. Regarding the private base of the circle of friends, he only wants to accept people close to him, and does not want to be intruded by unfamiliar people. The more important point is that he posts to Moments more casually and does not edit carefully and thoughtfully. It doesn't matter how people who are familiar with him see it, comment or ridicule him, after all, they understand his true side. However, if people who are unfamiliar with him see it, they may have a one-sided impression of him or even misunderstanding him because of this circle of friends. Instead of setting the group visibility every time, it is better to directly block unfamiliar people to make posting to Moments easier and more casual.
Also, I am afraid that my parents will worry about me, and I also want to leave some space for myself. Some people's circle of friends can be open to people they don't know well, but closed to those closest to them. For those who have been blocked, it is really confusing. Why would someone block the people closest to them? Talk about the experience of a friend around you, maybe you can understand the meaning of this. My friend Tangtang once had a quarrel with her boyfriend. She posted a message on WeChat Moments in the middle of the night, accusing her boyfriend of various crimes. She posted this post on WeChat Moments partly to vent her emotions and partly to show it to her boyfriend. Not long after, her boyfriend apologized to her and they naturally reconciled. A circle of friends that has only existed for ten minutes,
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