Regarding marriage, the writer Romain Rolland once said this in his book "Mother and Son": The only great thing about marriage is the only love, the mutual loyalty of two hearts.

Regarding marriage, the writer Romain Rolland once made such a statement in the book "Mother and Son":

The only great thing about marriage is the only love, the mutual loyalty of two hearts.

This passage illustrates that in a marriage relationship, only when the hearts of a husband and wife are close together can they create a happy family together.

Every man hopes to marry a beautiful wife, but if a wife is too beautiful, there will be many suitors around her, and her character will be relatively arrogant. If she cannot focus on her family life , then for the husband, married life will become a disaster.

As the ancients said, marry a virtuous wife rather than a beautiful one. When a man chooses a marriage partner, he should understand that compared to beautiful appearance, virtuous and virtuous qualities are more important to a woman. This is an important condition for a prosperous family life.

But in real life, some people don't understand this truth. They think that if they can marry a beautiful wife, they can have a happy marriage. However, in marriage, if you can give your wife something, If the couple cannot satisfy each other's desires, the couple may want to escape from the marriage.

Zhao Yu (pseudonym) is honest and dull, but in the eyes of outsiders, his life is very happy because he married a beautiful wife.

Wang Qing (pseudonym) is beautiful and tall. She has never lacked suitors around her. Zhao Yu was deeply attracted to Wang Qing the first time he met Wang Qing. After a passionate pursuit, Zhao Yu finally won Wang Qing's heart. After the two of them entered the marriage hall hand in hand, they also gave birth to a child. A lovely child.

In married life, Zhao Yu was very good to Wang Qing. He not only had to make money to support the family, but also gave the children to his parents, and even took the initiative to take on all the housework at home, while Wang Qing was only around the family. In a supermarket, I work as a cashier with a simple job.

After Wang Qing went out to work, her mind seemed to be no longer at home. Not only did she have an indifferent attitude towards Zhao Yu, but she rarely went home to see her children. Although Zhao Yu didn't say much about his wife's change, Zhao Yu's The mother felt something was wrong, so she took her child to the supermarket where Wang Qing worked.

What was unexpected was that Wang Qing became very angry when she saw her mother-in-law. She threw the things in her hands heavily to the ground and asked her mother-in-law to leave.

After this incident, Wang Qing moved out of her home and refused to contact Zhao Yu again. After inquiring, Zhao Yu learned that Wang Qing lived in the home of a little sister she had just met. He went there many times. He went to Wang Qing, hoping that he could return to his family, but he was unmoved.

Zhao Yu had no choice but to find a mediator, hoping that Wang Qing could return home and live with him for the sake of her children.

Wang Qing returned to the Zhao family in the company of her little sisters. Seeing his long-lost wife, Zhao Yu timidly told the mediator about her marital problems.

Zhao Yu bluntly said that his wife often stayed away all night. When he asked her, she said she lived at the little sister's house, but he did not believe what his wife said. He thought that her wife might be with someone outside.

After hearing what Zhao Yu said, Zhao Yu's mother also said that Wang Qing had rarely taken care of the child since the child was born. She had always taken care of the child. Once, she went to the supermarket to find Wang Qing. In the supermarket But the person told her that Wang Qing had resigned. The person still showed a complicated smile and said to her, many people often come to see your daughter-in-law and take her out to play.

What her mother-in-law said made Wang Qing feel very angry. She said bluntly, if you don’t have evidence, don’t talk nonsense.

Wang Qing said that she has many friends outside, and hanging out with them is a normal thing. On the contrary, her husband Zhao Yu always interferes in her private life in the name of caring for her, which makes her feel Being restrained made her afraid to return to this home.

After hearing what his wife said, Zhao Yu said that he did not interfere with his wife going out to play with others at first. One day, his wife had a friend celebrating his birthday, but their child was sick, so he asked his wife if he could go home to see the child. But the wife turned off her cell phone and refused to pay attention.

In addition, Wang Qing has an indifferent attitude towards Zhao Yu. Whenever Zhao Yu wants to seek comfort from Wang Qing, he will be rejected by Wang Qing. Zhao Yu wants to reason with his wife, but his wife will be impatient. He pushed away, which made Zhao Yu feel uneasy. He felt that his wife's heart was no longer at home.

Regarding this, Wang Qing said bluntly, "There are many people who want to pursue me, but that is their business, and I have not responded. I just want to separate from Zhao Yu, but Zhao Yu's family wants me to return the gift and A one-time payment of child support is hard for me to accept.

Wang Qing said that she can take care of the child by herself without paying a penny in child support from the Zhao family.

Zhao Yu's parents expressed concern about Wang Qing's request. They said that Wang Qing was so playful and often stayed away from home all night, so how could people be reassured if the child was left to her to take care of?

The mediator also advised Wang Qing to carefully consider the issue of child custody, because this is not a trivial matter, but no matter how the mediator and the Zhao family persuaded, Wang Qing was unwilling to respond.

In this regard, the mediator was helpless. He could only suggest that Zhao Yu fight for the custody of the child through litigation, and then ask Wang Qing for child support.

At this point, the marriage story of Zhao Yu and Wang Qing came to an end.

Emotional analysis:

Marriage is not a simple sum of men and women, but a true connection between the feelings of a husband and wife.

In married life, the material and emotional contributions the husband and wife give to each other should be equal. Only in this way can the balance of love be balanced.

In the marriage life of Wang Qing and Zhao Yu, because Wang Qing was beautiful, Zhao Yu always kept his attitude very low. He tried his best to tolerate and love his wife, but what he got in the end was still Wife's betrayal.

Perhaps it is because when Wang Qing married Zhao Yu, she was still too young and she did not know what she really needed. Therefore, when she entered the society, as her horizons broadened, so did her exposure. The number of people arriving gradually increased, and she found that the suitors around her could give her more things, so her values ​​​​were shaken.

But in a marriage relationship, both husband and wife have the responsibility and obligation to be loyal to each other. People who are engaged should know how to take into account the feelings of their husbands and maintain a moderate and safe distance from those who want to pursue him. Otherwise, he will Not only will it destroy your marriage and family, it will also plunge your life into chaos.

Marriage is a rare fate. It can give people a warm home. Only those who know how to cherish marriage can find happiness in their married life.

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