Most men’s ideas about love are not simple.
Unfortunately, in life, many women treat love very simply. They always love too emotionally and too confused. They always fall in love with men who do small things for her, such as buying her a supper in the middle of the night; celebrating her birthday. Give her a small gift; order a takeaway for her at noon...
However, it may be that he has touched your heart, but it does not necessarily mean that you have entered his heart.
A smart woman will understand that when a man pursues her, it mostly starts with admiration for her appearance, and everything he does is just a superficial appearance. Therefore, when getting along, she will in turn make the man attracted to her. Only in this way can the two people truly fall in love with each other.
After all, falling in love at first sight is beautiful and romantic, but the more we are together, the more inseparable we are, which is the true meaning of love.
When you love someone, you are not afraid that you are not serious. What you are afraid of is that you think you are "just playing around", but unexpectedly you are the one who "takes the bait".
Therefore, when you meet such a woman, she will act as if she has poisoned the other person, making him more and more immersed in her; it is also like hiding a needle in the cotton, eroding the bones and ecstasy. When the man notices it, he will find that his heart is already full of everything. It's her.
In particular, the following three women will make men fall in love more and more obsessed with them the more they are together.
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The woman with whom he has "a close connection" understands each other.
The most beautiful temperament of a woman is not her appearance, but that when a man is with her, he will sigh: She understands me so well!
After all, for a man, what he wants is never to get along with each other seriously, or for one party to please and please, while the other party is superior.
What he longs for is that the other person understands him deep in his heart.
Therefore, when a woman is by his side, she will know what he wants to express with a glance from him; she will understand what he wants to do with a word from him.
This kind of "understanding" will fascinate men.
Because such a woman is often very rational and can think from another person's perspective. She will stand in a man's perspective and analyze problems carefully; she will also understand a man's dedication and hard work. Even if she says a word of comfort, she will Speaking of his heart.
When being with such a woman, the longer the relationship progresses, the more a man will feel that this woman and he are so in tune with each other that they are a perfect match.
There is too much love in life. It is fresh, beautiful, sweet and romantic at the beginning, but in the end, the more two people get to know each other, the less they get along.
However, for a woman who can "understand men", the lack of novelty is an advantage to her.
She will turn sweetness into the dependence of two people; she will turn warmth into the daily life of two people together.
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The woman who is "evenly matched" with him is the icing on the cake.
The most beautiful thing about love is that each other is the "icing on the cake" of the other.
Many women, once they fall in love, will regard their men as their everything; after getting married, they will regard their children as their everything.
watched an interview.
A famous host once said to his wife: You are a qualified mother, but not a qualified wife.
Even though he said this, you can still feel that he still loves her very much.
Women's energy is limited. Once many women get married, they will forget their childhood dreams and be willing to sacrifice themselves to fulfill their lover. As long as he is satisfied, she will be happy. However, often the more she behaves like this, the sooner she will lose the man's love.
A smart woman will not stand still, but will remain evenly matched with men.
In other words, in her heart, if you stop loving me one day, then I am not afraid, I still have my own life.
So, if you observe carefully, those female celebrities who marry into wealthy families, those who can always stick to their original intentions, will often live a very happy life in their marriage; on the contrary, the more they compromise and give in, the more humble they will be in love. Those who stay are more likely to be abandoned quickly.
Because when you are still beautiful, still attract the attention of others, and still wherever you go, someone wants to have your contact information... the man who loves you will panic.
Therefore, such a woman will make men fall in love more and more, discover her charm more and more, and become more and more immersed in her.
Her courage to love and hate, neither humble nor arrogant, will make her life perfect and fulfilling. Her beauty will also make men feel that having this woman is the icing on the cake of their lives.
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is a woman who can advance and retreat for him. When he meets a woman
, in this life, IQ is very important, and EQ is even more important.
The so-called "emotional intelligence" actually means that you can advance and retreat. You are not so smart that men feel scared, nor are you so stupid that men feel unable to communicate; Will make herself his "maid"; won't be able to speak eloquently, duh Being aggressive is not like a canary, she must be cared for by him...
A woman with emotional intelligence will be able to be strong and soft, and have a measure of progress and retreat. When it is time to fight for herself, she will not compromise at all. When acting like a spoiled child, you can also be charming and lovable.
She will know how to control her emotions. She will not flamboyantly ask a man to surrender to her, nor will she be arrogant and insist on overwhelming him. Instead, she will control her emotions well and communicate in a timely manner. If she has something to say, she will say it directly. Tactful and straightforward, you won't let him guess and give him enough face.
The maturity of women actually lies in this.
has nothing to do with age, but is related to emotional intelligence.
Many women, when they reach middle age, will still criticize their husbands everywhere. This is not good, and that is not good, but the more this happens, the worse the relationship between husband and wife will be, the less confident the man will be, and the less he will want to be with her.
Therefore, it is very important for women to have high emotional intelligence.
She will not take a man's commitment very seriously, but she will definitely require him to act towards her in daily life, not to be lazy, and to share in housework; she does not necessarily require him to be rich, but , he has to make progress and not take life seriously.
Therefore, men will be very fond of such a person who can be comfortable with him and can supervise him, and he will also be very grateful for her affirmation of him.
On the surface, men seem to like to play the role of heroes, but in fact, what men long for is the softness of women, which can add some luster to their lives.
Therefore, the more two people meet each other, the more they will fall in love without getting tired of each other.
Conclusion:
It is said that the most beautiful confession of love is companionship.
On the other hand, the best way to witness mutual love is that the more two people are together, the more they fall in love.
Time is trivial, and the depth of love in the years lies in having someone by your side who will always encourage you, support you, and give you warmth. She understands you, understands you, and understands you. Sometimes the love is deep, and sometimes it is dull. The more you are with her, the more addicted you will be.
So, the love of companionship is to eliminate the inappropriate people and meet the right person.
Marriage is like the shoes you wear on your feet. Only you know whether they fit you or not. True love for someone is not about picking out the stars and moon in the sky and showing them to them, but it is about making the other person become more and more attached to you in the ordinary life of getting along with each other.
Just like the lyrics: The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old slowly with you...
Life is long, and when a man meets a woman who has a close connection, the years are also gentle;
The rest of his life is warm and warm. When a man meets a woman who is the icing on the cake, his life will be wonderful;
When he meets a woman who is evenly matched, his future will be bright.
Finally, I wish every couple can be happy and romantic throughout their lives.
author, calm fox
picture, network
I hope you can find the deep affection in the ordinary years in my words! Thanks for your attention!
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