The purpose of feelings is not to give and receive each other's love, but to help you understand the love you have been looking for.
In getting along with people, no matter the part that pleases you or the conflict that makes you unpleasant, this is an indispensable part of this relationship. When he refuses to accept the unpleasant part, he It is impossible to see clearly the current relationship between the two of them. The blind date below
, because they dare to face the dissatisfaction in the communication, they all have unexpected gains for each other.
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Zhao Huiying, a 73-year-old female, divorced, has a pension of 2500 yuan, two houses under her name, a son and a daughter, her daughter died at the age of 39, and her son settled in Shenzhen.
Zhang Xintian, 71 years old, widowed, pension of 3000 yuan, house of 44 square meters, no children, single for 40 years.
When the matchmaker saw Sister Zhao Huiying, she confirmed her age twice in succession. To confirm her age, she said she was 73 years old.
When she was young, her husband's betrayal led to a divorce. As a woman, she struggled to support her son and daughter. She once sold fruit and corn, and had suffered everything.
Fortunately, when the children grow up, they are very upbeat and settled in Shenzhen, thinking that they can finally spend their twilight years in peace. Who expected the daughter to be there, and died unexpectedly at the age of 39, which made mothers Unacceptable, it took two years to finally get out of the shadows.
Sister Zhao is domineering and spends 150,000 yuan, leading her wife to travel
Now,Sister Zhao is like being reborn. She loves life very much. She just found a wife last year and took out 150,000 yuan for the travel expenses of the two.
The matchmaker asked in surprise: Take your money and lead him (wife) to play.
Sister Zhao said grandiosely, yes, but this time I want to find a rich man, don't always spend my money.
The matchmaker asked her, how about the conditions of her previous wife and children?
She said that her last wife had a salary of 3,600 yuan a month, and her personal qualities were good, but she had only been together for a year. His wife had a heart bridge and no one was gone.
Sister Zhao made a request to find a partner. She was strong for a lifetime, even if the water and electricity were broken, she repaired it herself. Sometimes, she herself wanted to be a little woman and enjoy this. Fortune, find someone who likes yourself.
Sister Zhao disliked the other party quite a bit, and the matchmaker was dumbfounded.
The matchmaker first matched him with Brother Zou Dan as required.
Zou Dan, male, 79 years old, pension of 2,900 yuan, regular swimming twice a week, like sports.
Sister Zhao and Brother Zou met for the first time. Brother Zou was far away. When she saw Sister Zhao, she said that she was pretty and she liked it.
Before the matchmaker could finish introducing the two people, Sister Zhao turned around immediately and said to the matchmaker with a disgusting expression in private: this old man? No matter what the matchmaker said, Sister Zhao didn't want to say the second sentence to Brother Zou again.
The matchmaker asked wonderingly: At home, you are not talking about picking people, as long as you are nice to you?
Unexpectedly, Sister Zhao changed her words on the spot and said: I'm picking someone! Pick a good-looking one.
The matchmaker still doesn’t give up. I want Sister Zhao to continue communicating with Brother Zou. Who knows that I have forced Sister Zhao’s sentence: . Deng, don't give Na Laihan the ancestor, listen to me everything, and I don't want .
While talking here, Brother Zou still glanced at Sister Zhao from a distance, but Sister Zhao had decided to leave.
Single 40-year-old uncle who only values eye-friendliness
Helplessly, the matchmaker introduced Zhang Xintian to Sister Zhao, 71 years old, widowed, with a pension of 3,000 yuan and a house of 44 square meters.
Big brother Zhang Xintian, has been single for 40 years, looking for a wife only pays attention to the eyesight, the matchmaker introduced him to two female guests before, and they all lost to the eyesight.
When the two met for the first time, Sister Zhao had a good eye for Brother Zhang.
Big Brother Zhang said, looking at Big Sister Zhao's height and body, she just glanced at this face with no eye. In the original words of Brother Zhang: I feel that I look at it, and it feels like a dry grass.
The matchmaker didn’t understand, so Brother Zhang further explained: In other words, the grass is not green anymore, and the yellow ones are all withered. Otherwise, she came here all the way. The trip is not easy, I will neutralize it, have a further chat with her, and then look at the second and third glances.
Brother Zhang asked Sister Zhao how old she was. Sister Zhao was a little unhappy. Brother Zhang calculated on the spot that the pig is two years older than herself, and then Brother Zhang accidentally said: She was originally a woman. Not resistant to old age, I am still two years younger than her.
this sentence,Sister Zhao was a little upset and said: Age is not a problem, people live happily. For the rest of their lives, 10 years have passed in a blink of an eye.
Big Brother Zhang obviously doesn't agree with this statement.
Sister Zhang took out her ID card and said: Let him regret it.
Sister Zhao saw that Brother Zhang had this attitude. She said: Let him regret it. Then I found the ID card from the bag. The ID card showed that the true age of Sister Zhao was 61 years old, which made the matchmaker also very confused.
Sister Zhao said that people who really like her do not pay attention to age at all. There are people around her who are 20 years younger than herself who are chasing her.
Sister Zhao's original words are: Don't care if I am 61 or 73 years old, if you like me, just come to me.
The matchmaker took Sister Zhao’s ID card and went to find Brother Zhang. She wanted to clarify. Who expected Brother Zhang to be a straight man, she said directly: Oh! She is 10 years younger than me, but she is too old, she looks like she is older than me.
The matchmaker further reminded Brother Zhang to go over to chat, pay attention to speaking, and don't say hurtful things.
Brother Zhang saw Sister Zhao again and took the initiative to apologize. He said that I didn't pay attention to what I said. I am an ordinary worker and I don't pay attention to my words.
Sister Zhao asked back: I also said that I don't fight against old age, but you fight against old age. Brother Zhang even apologized and said: I don't resist old age, I'm done too, I'm much older than you.
Brother Zhang quickly took the opportunity to exaggerate to ease the atmosphere.
Sure enough, Big Brother Zhang dared to admit the wrong attitude, and got back the impression that Sister Zhao had of him. Sister Zhao said that it is not easy to be a gay man if she can proactively admit her mistakes.
Sister Zhao is still very fond of Brother Zhang,She also took the initiative to introduce her situation. I have money and a house. If it is good to me, the house can be given to him.
Brother Zhang said that the matchmaker once introduced him to an object who was ugly and short. The other party said that because she was ugly, she would give him a house. At that time, Brother Zhang refused. Because he himself has no children, he doesn't know who his house is for.
This sentence made the matchmaker laugh out of the picture.
Sister Zhang took out 10,000 yuan from her pocket, and the man opened the compliment mode
In order to deepen Sister Zhao’s affection for her, she took out 10,000 yuan from her pocket. Died and said: Last year she went to travel on her own and took 150,000 yuan.
Brother Zhang said: I have never met such a person in my entire life. It can be said that there are very few people. Most people pay special attention to money. Among 10,000 such people, there is no single one. .
Brother Zhang suddenly had an impression of Sister Zhao at the beginning: She is a good woman, we have to say so, and she has the ability. She has always been a leader, and her character is still good. People don’t pick me. What? Today I brought more than 10,000 yuan and I have to entertain us for dinner. This person doesn't pay much attention to the economy, but is also a person who mainly depends on his character.
The two almost turned their faces from the beginning, to the end of the "salvation". It can be said that if you don’t know each other, Brother Zhang fully meets the blind date standards of Sister Zhao, and Sister Zhao is also the one encountered by Brother Zhang. There are few people who don't value material things, but Brother Zhang still has a bit of regret. If Sister Zhao can meet some eye conditions, it will be perfect.
The matchmaker asked the older brother to tell what he valued about Sister Zhao. The older brother said that she is a real person, generous and immaterial, and valued in character. These are all points of interest for him.It's just that the margins are a little worse.
The matchmaker was also in front of the two, and said that the purpose of meeting today is to introduce the two people to each other. After all, the two have just met today, and there are still many reversals. This requires two people to come down. Knowing more about each other can make a decision.
Brother Zhang also offered to take the initiative to take the train, go to the city where Sister Zhao is located, and travel together. Sister Zhang agreed with this statement, she said: I want to find someone , It's okay, we both go to play.
At this point, both of them took the initiative to leave phone calls to each other.
Afterword
Absolute love is unconditional, but most people don’t realize it
The love we usually talk about in blind dates is actually due to the behavior of our partner. Satisfaction, or belonging. And true love is unconditional and cannot be obtained from others, nor is it triggered by the actions of others, but just because you are you.
.The purpose of feelings is not to give and receive each other's love, but to help you understand the love you have been looking for.
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