Workplace Story: Vase? How can I be a big man like a vase

I have a very good friend, in him you can easily find all the advantages of a man that is hard to see in reality, he has rich experience and outstanding eloquence. The aura is full and humorous, and he can easily control all kinds of gatherings, making the host laugh and satisfying the guests. Where he goes, there is a harmonious atmosphere of laughter and laughter. Because of this specialty, many friends will call him in many dinners. Therefore, he has a very wide network of contacts and is a famous Bai Xiaosheng in the circle of friends.

His appearance is so outstanding that women like it, but men don't hate it either. Many older seniors, after a meal with him, will reveal the meaning of doing business with him. This is simply a life of openness.

In his feelings, he is also a king. His father-in-law is a retired government official. Although he is an upright official, he has many family members. When he and his wife met, he was just an ordinary office worker. It is impoverished. But it was such a person, her lover was crazy about him, and she was together desperately, and she also raised a pair of twins.

is such an emotional intelligence that is so high that it makes people feel that there is no margin. It can be said that getting along with others is like a spring breeze. A few words can make others feel convinced. There is no capable person that can resolve contradictions in him.

This is an excellent and capable person in everyone's eyes. He is about the same age as me, in his early forties, but has only two industries, one is a franchise barbecue shop, and the other is a design company with only five employees. Compared with the image he gave to people, these two industries are simply astounding. And these two things can only make it barely enter the middle class in this city, and even when it encounters a bad business year, it still needs the help of a loved one's network.

is such an excellent person, what went wrong, I can't see clearly.

I saw a book yesterday: This is what the book says. Some people who are good can only make themselves look good. He puts too much energy into interpersonal communication and packaging, until the end He really can only look good and become a beautiful vase. High emotional intelligence is certainly an advantage, and it seems that it is also a good business card, but these people are often involved in a wide range and lack of depth, and in the end they can't do anything.

and those professionals who seem dumb and not talkative,One can often settle down and continue to cultivate in a certain professional field and solve real-world problems. No matter how bad it is, it is a late bloomer, so friends, unless you are sure of it, don't change your professional track. Sometimes persistence is more important than anything else.

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