Everything is good from other people’s family, in fact, you are also someone else’s

I don’t know why, but I always hear from colleagues and family members who is very good, very beautiful, very well married, very smart, and very rich. But it’s the same for you. Look at what you look like. What’s wrong with you here, what’s wrong there, you’re not good at anything in the eyes of your family, and you’re an ordinary person in the eyes of your colleagues. No matter what topics you discuss, you will always be someone else. Good home.

Actually, what I want to know is, are you really that bad? Aren't you also the person whom others admire? This kind of "other people's good", what is in his heart, he said not to compare with others, but who has done it. You compare children, husbands and wives, and old people. What are we comparing to? Every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite, and what you see is the glorious side of others, and who is showing the unbearable side in front of you.

In comparison, I have lost the self-confidence of the child, the trust of the husband and wife, and broke the heart of the parents. I feel that other people's homes are good. If you have thought about your own home, they are also the good ones. , Your own family is also something other people want to own, and comparison kills people. Since other people’s family is good, then your family’s, is it really that unbearable?

is just different thoughts, different levels of concern, different self-control, and different tempers. As a child, if you scold too much, you will not be obedient. As a husband and wife, if you deceive too much, you will not believe. As a parent, if you control too much, you will Upset. Keep your eyes open and take a look at your family. You’ll find that your family’s is actually very good. The child may just learn well from no one, but he is very kind. Your husband and wife may be handsome and beautiful from no one, but Gu’s, Constantly paying for family life, the elderly may not be considerate of others, but they are healthy and did not cause you trouble. Therefore, people have to learn to be satisfied, learn to comfort themselves, the comparison is hypocrisy, and one day you will find hypocrisy. In the world, you simply cannot lie.