We always don't cherish what we easily get, only when one day suddenly finds it lost, we will regret it, and then think of its goodness, and even have the idea that it is necessary. So it will find ways to re-own it. But everything in the world cannot be as you wish, and what you have lost will never be repeated.
It is also true in feelings. If we take each other's goodness for granted, we will not treat them in the same way. Then in the end he will be disappointed with us and choose to leave us. By that time, we wanted to look back and want to continue to be with them, it was too late.
is easy to get and will never be cherished. Only the things that you have tried so hard to get are worthy of your concern. You will also have a profound influence on these things, and even become obsessed with them. But it often overlooks the things around you that should be cherished by you.
Today we will share the story of a netizen Li Na and see what she has experienced.
Li Na and Zhang Huijie have been married for one year. During this year, the relationship between the two is stable and quarrels are rare.
But I don’t know since when, Zhang Huijie went home less and less.And after returning home, she didn't watch TV or chat with Li Na as before. Instead, I was playing there with my mobile phone, and didn't care about Li Na's feelings. It made Li Na feel whether her husband had suffered anything bad during this period.
The couple's conversation
So one night, Li Na took the initiative to ask Zhang Huijie what happened to her husband.
Jie said and Zhang Huijie and Li Na said: " What can happen to me? You wish me good, right? I don’t mean that, but I just feel that you have changed quite a bit recently. I want to know if something bad has happened. Suspicious every day? You make me very tired and make me feel that getting married is not as good as being single. ”
, I can’t believe Zhang Hui’s words.Said to Zhang Huijie: " I care about you, just to make you tired, you still want to live a single life, do you regret marrying me, so you have been so cold to me in the last few days. ”
Zhang Huijie said to Li Na: " really doesn’t make sense to you. I’m just a little tired. I don’t know how to live with you. Sometimes I think you’re more annoying than my mother. Nagging about this and that every day makes me feel very tired, and there is no way to relax like being single. ”
Li Na said to Zhang Huijie that you are better than you, strong2 span4span. Nagging, you have to know that a woman who is willing to nag you is an expression of loving you. You can’t take this as a burden. If you’re tired, I can give you a certain amount of time to regulate yourself, but I don’t allow you to have Want to divorce me. ”
Zhang Huijie said to Li Na:“ You see you are always so strong, when I haven’t thought about the divorce. I have to stop it severely. I don’t allow it. Before I got married, I thought you were strong, independent, and very attractive. But now that you are married, can you soften a little bit? You make me feel that you are fundamental. I don’t need me. "
Li Na said to Zhang Huijie:" 2strong I knowBut these are the habits accumulated over the years. There is no way to change it at 1:30. I will try to work hard. Can you restore your previous attitude towards me? ”
Zhang Huijie nodded, and the couple negotiated like this.
was enthusiastic about Zhang Na. Li Na also tried to change her strength slowly.
divorced her husband
But the good times did not last long after two months, Zhang Huijie I got cold and happily holding a mobile phone all day. Li Na was very puzzled and asked Zhang Huijie why it suddenly changed.
Zhang Huijie said to Li Na: " No, I am not to you Is it good? Can you stop being like this, I really can't stand it. ”
Li Na now thought she was too suspicious, so she didn’t ask Zhang Huijie again.
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imgZhang Huijie was drunk and was sent back by a colleague. After Li Na took over Zhang Huijie, she complained about why she drank so much.
Li Na irritated to Zhang Huijie: " , I’m not your son, and I’m not your son, so I shouldn’t marry you at the beginning.
Li Na was very wronged and said to Zhang Huijie: " , don’t you know that you have a bad stomach? You still drink so much. I care about you. Can you keep doing this? I care about you. For your good. ”
Zhang Huijie said to Li Na:“ I don’t need such kindness, I need a gentle _span strong span1, not a wife like span5”.
Li Na is completely angry at this time, and she no longer cares about Zhang Huijie.
After Zhang Huijie got up the next day, he also knew what he had done and said, but he did not take the initiative to apologize to Li Na.
The couple just froze.
Until one day, Zhang Huijie did not come back all night, and when she came back the next day, Li Na smelled a perfume that belongs to a woman from Zhang Huijie. Li Na suddenly became angry and said to Zhang Huijie: " Where did you go yesterday? You smelled like that woman, did I tell you? I never allow you to cheat. I am annoyed when I look at you, unlike other girls, I am fed up with you, and now you know, I have been with other women a long time ago, and I don’t think we have this marriage. to continue the necessary "
Li said Zhanghui Jie:". you want to divorce me you do worthy of me "
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Zhang Huijie said to Li Na: " wants to divorce you,There are a lot of women out there who are better than you. I was really blind before I saw you. I am not blind anymore, so naturally I want to divorce you. "
let Zhanghui Jie Li only said do not regret it, and then Zhanghui Jie divorced.
refused to remarry her ex-husband's request
Zhanghui Jie and During the five years of divorce, Li Na continued to fall in love with many people, but every girlfriend would never ask about his whereabouts, nor would he worry about whether his stomach was in good condition. Sometimes, he was not at night. My girlfriend won’t even bother about whereabouts.
Zhang Huijie couldn’t help it anymore, and asked her current girlfriend why she never cared about herself.
and Zhang Huijie’s current girlfriend said: " You are not a kid, why should I care? Isn’t it good for everyone to play their own games? I'm not ready to get married, so I can do whatever I feel comfortable with. ”
Zhang Huijie asked why he didn’t want to marry himself, and now his girlfriend said:" has never been strong2span Don’t forget that we were together for fun at the beginning, what about marriage? ”
Zhang Huijie only knew at this time that they didn’t want to marry themselves, so they didn’t care about their bodies at all. They just came out and fooled around every night, sometimes even better. It’s still too late to go home by myself. Every time I go home, I get drunk. Zhang Huijie remembered Li Na’s goodness, so I went to Li Na. After five years of divorce, I still think you are good, let's remarry. ”
Li Na smiled at this time, and said to Zhang Huijie:" is good, the gift is 600,000, and two suites. ”
Zhang Huijie asked what Li Na means, and now I have become so greedy for money.
img7p7span1 strong span1 span1 _strongspan1 span1 _strongspan1 span1 _strongspan1 span_strong_span1 span_strong_span1 Your first choice is that you have gone around a long time before you find mine is good.After remarrying, if you meet someone better, you will still choose to divorce me, so I will not deceive myself anymore. It is impossible for me to remarry with you, and don’t bother me anymore. "After speaking, Li Na left.
Zhang Huijie only then realized how stupid his original choice and behavior were, but it was too late to marry one.
We always treat those who are good to us, but cheated all of Zhang Huijie’s money. As a spare tire or a preparation option, in comparison with other people, we will always not choose those who are good to us, and even despise them, and will relentlessly devalue them for nothing, but we will lose them in the end. Later, we understood that they were good, but it was too late.
Zhang Huijie could have had a very happy marriage, and his wife cared about him, but he was too strong and his wife was old. It’s because he was in charge of him, that his wife was very annoying, and he even started an underground relationship with other women. After being found out, he didn’t admit his mistake, but chose to divorce. After the divorce, he found out The ex-wife is so good, but I can’t go back anymore.
So in their relationships, girls must be able to understand what kind of day is what they want and what kind of people really care about Own. It doesn’t mean that true love is what gives you freedom and no matter what. We have to understand that the person who really puts you in his heart will stand in your perspective and consider you.
Today’s topic:
Have you ever met someone like Zhang Huijie who doesn’t know how to cherish?
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