Foreword:
Aunt Liu, who is 55 years old, has been widowed for eight years. During these eight years, she has been in contact with several single old men. Aunt Liu found that these old men have one thing in common: they only want to remarry. Save a little babysitting fee.
This accidental discovery made Aunt Liu completely disheartened about remarriage. She vowed that she would rather live alone for the rest of her life, and would never be a free nanny for a single old man.
Aunt Liu:
I am 55 years old this year, and my husband died of lung cancer eight years ago. After my husband passed away, I lived with my daughter for three years. After three years when my daughter married, I was the only one left in the family. I felt very lonely.
In order to make myself no longer alone, I was moved to find a second marriage partner. Many people used to persuade me to find a second marriage partner, but I refused, because there was a daughter with me at that time, so I did not feel lonely and lonely. After my daughter left, I realized that no one with me was really lonely. .
I have a house with a pension, and I also pay attention to maintenance, so I look younger than my peers. Ever since I let myself go out to find my second marriage partner, there have been many single old men chasing me.
In line with the principle of Ningquewulan, I carefully selected among these men, and later I chose Lao Li. Lao Li has a large house of more than 100 square meters. He usually lives by himself. Lao Li said he was a big man and was not good at housework, so he hired a part-time worker.
Lao Li pays the hourly workers a salary of 3,000 yuan a month, and the hourly workers come for three hours a day to help Lao Li wash clothes, clean, and make a dinner for Lao Li.
Old Li said that he liked me very much. If I promised to marry him, he would hold me in his hand and would never make me suffer. I think Lao Li's personal conditions are very good, and he not only has a big house to live with, but also enjoys the care of part-time workers.
So I promised Lao Li to live with him for a period of time. If the two get along well, we will officially get married.Lao Li was very happy. In order to welcome me, he took me to the mall to buy brand new bedding and leather slippers for me.
After I lived with Lao Li for a week, he dismissed his part-time job on the grounds that he wanted to enjoy the two-person world and did not want to be disturbed. Since there was no part-time job at home, all housework has become my own business, because Lao Li is incompetent with housework and can't even wash dishes.
I do a lot of housework every day, but I haven't been able to get the slightest return. Old Li enjoys my care comfortably, and is not willing to spend a penny for me. What he provided to me was nothing more than free board and lodging.
I lived with Lao Li for only a month, so I resolutely left him because I don't want to work as a nanny for the rest of my life, and still not get the nanny's salary.
Later, I spent a period of time with Lao Chen. Although Lao Chen is not as rich as Lao Li, I think he is very practical and can do housework by himself. Since Chen can do housework himself, he must not Will use me as a nanny.
So I lived with Lao Chen for a while, but my life was more tiring than at Lao Li’s. Lao Chen lived with his son’s family of three. Since I moved to Lao Chen’s house, he took his grandson with him. My child-rearing wife was fired.
Old Chen asked me to help take his grandson who was more than two months old. He said that I looked like a capable woman, and she must be better than a parent-in-law. I knew that Lao Chen had to pay 5,000 yuan to her childcare wife every month, so I asked Lao Chen how much salary he was going to pay me.
Old Chen asked me back, saying why did he pay me wages? He said that I was the hostess of this family, and not the childcare wife he hired. How could there be any reason to pay the hostess? Hearing what Old Chen said, I could only smile, packed up and left Old Chen's house.
I heard that Lao Chen soon remarried with a rural woman. The woman took Lao Chen's grandson with her hard every day. Lao Chen also told people how good he was to that woman. Women only need to bring them at home. With his grandson, Old Chen will be able to raise him without her having to pay a penny for living expenses.
When I heard this, I couldn't help but burst into a cold sweat. Fortunately, I ran fast, otherwise I would be like that stupid woman.Helping Lao Chen with his grandson was so tired every day, not only did he have no salary, but Lao Chen also said how generous he was.
The third person I came into contact with was Lin, and his performance made me completely devoted to remarriage. Lao Lin is sixty-five years old this year, ten years older than me.
Although he is so much older than me, I think that a man who is older will know how to care for his own woman even more, so I don't dislike Lao Lin being older than me. After I dated Lao Lin for a while, at his strong request, I lived with him for a while.
When I went to Lao Lin's house for the first time, I found that there were a lot of feminine products in the house. I asked him what was going on? He said that those things were his daughter's belongings. He said that sometimes when his daughter quarreled with her husband, she would come to him to stay for a while, so he would always keep his daughter's belongings at home.
For Lao Lin's explanation, I think it is reasonable, so I didn't get too entangled, and lived with him happily. At the beginning, Lao Lin behaved very well. He would do housework with me. Two people would do housework together, so I would not be too tired. At that time, I was very happy and thought that I finally found a good man.
Who knows that the good times are not long, and gradually, the time Lao Li helps me with the housework is getting shorter and shorter, until he doesn't help me with the housework at all, I feel very strange, so I asked Lao Lin why he stopped helping me Doing housework?
Lao Lin said that housework is not something women should do? The reason for helping me with housework before was just to motivate me to do housework. Now that his goal has been achieved, there is no need to continue to help me with housework.
Old Lin's words made me so angry that I turned my head and left, and never wanted to be with this fake old man again. After I left Lao Lin, an acquaintance told me that the man Lao Lin was so bad.
She said that since the death of his wife, Lao Lin has not changed women less. Every time he coaxes women home with the same routine, which is very good to women.
Two people live for a long time. Lao Lin will reveal his prototype. Not only will he not spend money on women, but he will also use women as free sitters. Once a woman is unhappy, he will drive the woman away and look for the next one.
Through the three second marriages I contacted,It made me completely succumbed to remarriage. What I never expected was: Although I am not greedy for men’s money, and do not need men to spend money on me, but even so, men are still not satisfied, they still want to use me, let me be their free nanny.
In this life, I don’t plan to remarry. I will only live a single life. Although I sometimes feel lonely, I would rather be alone than live with a bad old man and do so many tedious housework every day. Still waiting for a man, but he can't get his gratitude.
Conclusion:
Many men say: Why are women so material? Just to help me with a little housework, let me give her as much money as possible. As a man, can you think about it in another way: If you are asked to take care of all the housework, a woman doesn’t need to do anything and enjoys the fruits of your hard work with peace of mind. She still has nothing to say to you, whether you will still be willing and rejuvenated. Waiting for her for a year?
(Creating is not easy, plagiarism must be investigated!)
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