A woman with a real high EQ will not take the initiative to ask men these questions, it is meaningless

Many women don't seem to understand this truth. They always exercise their desire for control in the name of love.

They never really trusted the other half. They always tempted him in every possible way, and kept asking about things that shouldn't be asked until they completely wiped out the other's patience.

Two people in love have the right to have their own private space and a secret that belongs to only one person.

Women with high EQ know not to inquire about the privacy of men, while women with low EQ always do the opposite.

1: Encrypted mobile phone

When we were young, we were always curious about the locker that was locked by our parents. See what good things are in the cabinet.

Many women in love are always curious about men’s encrypted phones.Always want to see the secrets in the phone.

Lanni’s boyfriend’s mobile phone has a password, and the password has never been told to Lanni. Lenny used this or that kind of excuse to try to get a password, but they all failed.

However, the more her boyfriend refuses to tell her, the more she wants to know, why can't she tell her if it's not just a mobile phone password.

Until one time, Lenny asked her boyfriend's phone password directly, and her boyfriend broke out.

her boyfriend unlocked the phone password angrily, and then handed the phone to Lan Ni's hand for Lan Ni to check.

Lanni also checked everything she could think of, and there was no problem.

boyfriend said that the reason why he was reluctant to tell Lennie the password was not because he had some shady secret. It is because he regards the mobile phone as a more private thing, which belongs to personal privacy.

And he does not like to share his privacy with others, that is, that person is his girlfriend.

In fact, even if two people are lovers, it is normal to have their own privacy.

Lanny’s behavior of always trying to inquire about his privacy makes her boyfriend feel very unhappy.

With the popularity of mobile phones and the continuous increase of functions, mobile phones do have too much privacy content.

men will pay more attention to these privacy,In many cases, they are reluctant to let women check their mobile phones in order to avoid unnecessary troubles.

Trust is the foundation of a relationship. Women with high EQ have enough trust in their men. In their view, it is normal for lovers to keep their privacy.

Not checking a man's cell phone casually is a manifestation of education and self-confidence.

Two: Past feelings

It seems that many women can’t get past their “predecessors”, and they are always curious about men’s past feelings.

And Xiao Jiang never asks about his boyfriend's past feelings. Even when her boyfriend planned to secretly attend the wedding of her ex, she pretended not to know it.

That morning, she helped her boyfriend prepare the suit early, and secretly put the prepared red envelope in the suit pocket.

When the boyfriend touched the red envelope in his pocket, his eyes were instantly red.

He asked Xiao Jiang why he didn't ask?

Xiao Jiang said: "That's your privacy, why should I ask? Besides, will you tell me if I ask?"

boyfriend froze, yes, even Xiao Jiang asked He doesn't necessarily know how to say it. On the contrary, he will think that Xiao Jiang is a person who does not know how to respect the privacy of others.

Xiao Jiang doesn’t say anything and asks nothing,The boyfriend feels that he is respected, and the past is not important anymore.

The predecessor's bowl of vinegar is really sour and good enough, but those women with low EQ are still eager for it.

A woman with high emotional intelligence will never be true to someone who has become a past tense. No matter how deep a man has in the past, it will eventually be the past.

The present tense is the most important thing. Too much snooping will only make men feel bored. It will not do the slightest in maintaining a good emotional state.

3: Things that men don’t want to mention

Hao Kai was decadent when he just graduated because of a business failure. During that time, in addition to playing games in Internet cafes, he was drinking and smoking at home all day long.

Fortunately, his parents did not give up on him, they kept enlightening him, and took him out to travel and relax when they had time.

Hao Kai finally figured it out, cheered up again, and soon found a job and got a girlfriend.

Hao Kai has never said anything about that dark past, and his relatives and friends around him are also very tacitly silent.

However, Hao Kai's girlfriend Xiaochun always asks Hao Kai about the things he had done before. Every time Hao Kai deliberately changed the subject and avoided it.

Xiaochun never gives up,It was mentioned from time to time, which made Hao Kai very distressed. He finally walked out of the abyss, really didn't want to think back to that time.

There was no way, and Hao Kai finally broke up with Xiaochun.

Everyone has some unbearable experiences in the past when they were young and frivolous, and men would not like to mention them.

Women with high EQ never ask, but women with low EQ will never understand this truth.

Women with high emotional intelligence will not ask men’s cell phone passwords in the name of love, and are even less interested in their past feelings.

As for the things that men don't want to mention, they never ask.

because they know that what a man wants to say will naturally tell her, and a man will not say what he wants to say. Even if he asks, a man does not necessarily know how to say it.

Love should be a sky that can fly freely, not a cage woven in the name of love.

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