Nowadays, there is a kind of man called "Phoenix Man" in society. The reason for this is that these people are born in poverty and have achieved some achievements through their own efforts. They are regarded as golden phoenixes flying out of the chicken coop. So he is called "Phoenix Male".
In this way, Phoenix male is still very good. Although he grew up in a bad environment, he changed his destiny through his own efforts. It is reasonable to say that such a person can be considered as potential. The stock is over, but most girls are reluctant to marry a Phoenix guy.
Because of the influence of the native family, Phoenix men are usually a little selfish, they value money very much, and they will have some hatred of the rich. When they marry a wealthy girl as their wife , Watching my parents and his wife's parents lead a different life will make me feel dissatisfied. When my wife recognizes his true face, she is unwilling to continue living with him.
Today’s story comes from the sharing of fan Wang Xiaowei.
Married to the Phoenix man .
Wang Xiaowei and her husband Chen Jie are university classmates,There were many suitors around Wang Xiaowei when she was in college, but she fell in love with Chen Jie. Chen Jie’s family background was not very good. He was a child from a rural background and usually dressed in plain clothes, but Wang Xiaowei thought he was a The earnest and motivated person took the initiative to confess to him, and the two became boy and girl friends.
Wang Xiaowei is from a wealthy family. Her parents are only a daughter. She is very fond of her. Her personality is enthusiastic and cheerful, and she is also generous in life, so she dared to proactively confess to Chen Jie. After the two were together, Wang Xiaowei is very concerned about Chen Jie and often gives him various gifts, but Chen Jie has never given Wang Xiaowei anything. Wang Xiaowei doesn’t care about these things, and she also understands that Chen Jie’s family is not good, and she has no money to buy for herself. gift.
After graduating from university, Wang Xiaowei and Chen Jie both found a good job. After the job was stable, Wang Xiaowei and Chen Jie mentioned their marriage. Wang Xiaowei took Chen Jie home and met with her parents. They were quite satisfied. They just minded that his family is not good, but they thought that as long as the daughter had a happy life, other things were not important. Anyway, when her daughter married, she would dowry a house and car, and Chen Jie did not need to buy it.
Wang Xiaowei followed Chen Jie back to his hometown and met his mother. His father died of illness early, and Chen Jie’s mother had no opinion on their marriage. She was very happy to learn that her son was getting married. She felt that her hard work for so many years had not been in vain. His son was finally rewarded. He was admitted to university, got a good job, and is now getting married.
The wedding was organized by Wang Xiaowei’s parents and it was very grand. Of course, they would not wrong their daughter. After marriage, the two moved into Wang Xiaowei’s dowry room. The house is large and the location is good.It’s close to where they work. I thought I could live a peaceful and happy life, but it was only after marriage that Wang Xiaowei recognized Chen Jie’s true face, and she realized that Chen Jie was a typical Phoenix man.
Phoenix man exposes his nature .
The mother-in-law sells vegetables for a living in her hometown. Wang Xiaowei also loves her mother-in-law very much. Chen Jie sends back half of her salary to her mother-in-law every month. Wang Xiaowei did not say a word. She felt that her children were filial. Parents are right and righteous, not to mention that the mother-in-law worked hard to raise her husband. Now that the husband is capable, it should be honourable to respect the mother-in-law. However, Chen Jie often said some inexplicable things, which made Wang Xiaowei very uncomfortable.
It was the Mid-Autumn Festival soon after they got married. Wang Xiaowei wanted to bring her mother-in-law to the city for the festival, but Chen Jie refused. My parents celebrate the festival alone, but when I think this is the first Mid-Autumn Festival after I get married, I can’t let my mother-in-law be alone in my hometown. After hearing this, my parents also expressed their understanding. They went to the supermarket to buy some gifts and prepared to go back to their hometown to spend time with the mother-in-law. During the Mid-Autumn Festival, when buying gifts, Chen Jie said to Wang Xiaowei: "People are really different from people. My mother has never seen these things we bought, but your parents are tired of it." Listen. After Chen Jie's words, Wang Xiaowei felt a little inexplicable, but she didn't say much.
When I returned to my hometown, I drove Wang Xiaowei’s dowry car. This car was very valuable. After returning to his hometown, Chen Jie’s hairpin and relatives all came to see their car. Chen Jie and those Relatives and friends show off how great he is,Life is so happy nowadays, relatives and friends are very envious after listening to it, saying a lot of flattery, Chen Jie is very happy listening to it.
A few days after returning to the city after the Mid-Autumn Festival, relatives and friends of Chen Jie’s hometown called to borrow money from him, and he never refused. Wang Xiaowei felt that this was a bit wrong, so she asked Chen Jie. Said: "Others borrowed money from you, so you should shirk it anyway. Don't agree with everyone. Now this society owes money to the uncle." After hearing Wang Xiaowei's words, Chen Jie was a little unhappy and said to Wang Xiaowei: "They are all My relatives and friends, when encountering difficulties, ask me to borrow money, how can I refuse? That's a loss of face, it's my business, don't worry about it."
and later Wang Xiaowei did not After asking about these things, she felt that there was no need to cause conflicts because of these trivial matters. One day, Wang Xiaowei’s mother called her and asked her and Chen Jie to go home for dinner. At the dinner table, Wang Xiaowei’s father said that he was about to change cars. After buying a few cars, let Wang Xiaowei and Chen Jie help to see which one to buy.
Divorced from Phoenix man .
Looking at that expensive car, Chen Jie felt very uncomfortable. After reading his father-in-law’s car replacement plan, Chen Jie was completely blushing. At his father-in-law’s house, he has been holding back. Say something more. After returning home from the meal, Chen Jie said to Wang Xiaowei: "My mother still sells vegetables for three rounds. Your dad drove well, and now I have to change the car. I really can't stand it. Are you rich people so extravagant? We poor people deserve to suffer and suffer. Let’s get divorced. I can’t live a day like this."
After hearing Chen Jie’s words,Wang Xiaowei was really speechless. She said to Chen Jie: "My dad didn't ask us for money after changing cars. What are you talking about here? Did I cause your mother to sell vegetables for three rounds? You are her son. What does it have to do with me to let her live a happy life? Besides, my dad has money to change cars. It was his hard work. Why are you here to point fingers?"
Chen Jie said to Wang Xiaowei: "Okay, I finally told your truth, you just look down on me and my mother, right? Let's get a divorce, you go find a right person to marry." Wang Xiaowei basically She didn’t look down on Chen Jie and her mother-in-law. If she looked down on Chen Jie, she would not agree to marry him. But watching Chen Jie’s unreasonable appearance, Wang Xiaowei was completely sad. She found that Chen Jie was selfish. Phoenix man, seeing no other good, so the two divorced like this. After the divorce, Chen Jie moved out of Wang Xiaowei's dowry room and lost everything he had.
Although Phoenix men have changed their destiny through their own efforts, they still can’t forget the hardships they have suffered. In those poor days, they couldn’t get enough food, clothes, or get enough. Respect by others, so they desperately want others to recognize themselves, and they want to be valued by others.
The influence of the native family and the inferiority in his bones made it impossible for the Phoenix man to look at what happened around him with a normal mind like other people, just like Chen Jie's father-in-law after watching the car With red eyes, they can't accept that some people can easily live the life they have longed for. In their eyes, this world is unfair. Everything he has worked so hard for is within reach of others, but they don’t know. No one’s success is accidental.
Most phoenix men are like this, they don’t care about your feelings, and they don’t know how to respect you. After marrying him, you will face endless troubles, so girls must Be sober and don't marry a Phoenix man.
Today’s topic
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