A 35-year-old woman is the leftovers on the table? A friend’s blind date in a dating agency

Xiaohua is 35 years old this year. Seeing her parents are getting older and her peers have given birth to second children, Xiaohua sometimes feels lonely. Holding her last hope, Xiaohua finally came to a matchmaking agency accompanied by her family. The agency, spent 4999 and signed a contract. The matchmaker of the matchmaking agency said that there is no need to pay until the marriage.

The city where Xiaohua is located is a fourth-tier city. Xiaohua works in a private company for finance and has a salary of 3500. The following is the blind date introduced by the matchmaking agency:

A: 34 years old, unmarried, a logistics company driver, height 170, salary 4500, I introduced myself to two houses and two cars at home. When I met, I said that I had never been in a relationship. I wanted to find a girl who was just like myself and had never been in a relationship as a life partner. A's biggest hobby is playing games, not smoking or drinking. , Usually at most fill up some money in the game, the two met at the entrance of the milk tea shop at about 11 o'clock, ordered a cup of milk tea, chatted for half an hour and then went back to each house, came back and did not continue to talk, the boy said that he had no feeling through the matchmaker. No willingness to continue contact.

B: 32 years old, unmarried, added WeChat through a matchmaker, and did not chat after adding WeChat. I met in a matchmaking agency. The boy worked in a state-owned enterprise, with a monthly salary of 5500, and a height of 178,211 graduated. The boys themselves are better, and there is an older brother in the family who has already married. The boys currently live with their parents and do not have a separate house, but the boys have a colder attitude throughout the whole process. After sitting in the dating agency for 15 minutes, they said something was left. The matchmaker said that the boys The standard for choosing a mate is a girl who is 3-4 years younger than herself. Xiaohua feels that this time the boy was probably fooled by the matchmaker, and the meeting was gone.

C: 35 years old, unmarried, working in a factory, monthly salary of 4500, a sister is already married, after adding WeChat through a matchmaker, I will meet in a coffee shop in a shopping mall, C is more talkative, from Which factory girl in the factory went back to the dormitory with a married workshop supervisor at night, and then talked about conflicts between her two colleagues and she was expelled from each other by beating each other with bricks. From the cost of 1,000 yuan a month for the dog she raised to sending it away The dry-cleaned down jacket is worth 5,000 yuan. C said that his glasses are 2,800 yuan, and his shoes are 800 yuan.C said that his usual consumption is like this, and the value of down jackets worn in winter is not less than 3,000 yuan. My friend is curious if the monthly salary of 4500 is enough to spend it like this? C said that she is just an older sister, which is equivalent to an only child. His parents have retired and do not need to buy a house. There is no burden. You can spend as much money as you want. Xiaohua is usually frugal and feels different from his own consumption concept. The contradiction, I haven't talked for a few days, and it's gone.

D: 38 years old, divorced, 9-year-old daughter, sentenced to the wife, D said that his ex-wife was from a foreign province and the child was taken away, so there is basically no contact later, so now I find someone to have another child , Three houses in the family, driving a big car, monthly salary of 9000+, height 178, weight 220, did not add WeChat, met at the dating agency, D smoked 2 cigarettes in the middle of the chat, Xiaohua felt that D’s hair fell a little, Seeing a bit greasy and unfavorable, the matchmaker persuaded Xiao Hua that it would be harder to find it no matter how old she was. Besides, it would be harder to have a baby when she got older. If the conditions were good, she would go everywhere, but Xiao Hua refused.

E: 34 years old, unmarried, runs a sanitation sprinkler, and has a monthly salary of 5500. He only rests when it rains. She goes to work during normal hours. She has a self-built house at home. Xiaohua thinks that she is fine. I just wanted to get there first, and try to see each other during rainy hours. I might see 2-3 times a month. After 2 months of persistence, I basically stopped contacting them, and slowly stopped contacting them later.

For nearly half a year, the dating agency has introduced a total of 5, and the dating agency has not introduced any more in the last month. Xiaohua called, and the matchmaker said that if the conditions are suitable, they will continue to introduce them, let us wait.

Although Xiaohua is 35 years old this year, everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness. I think everyone, regardless of men and women, has the same idea. Some people may meet earlier, and some people are happy. I will come later, and I wish Xiaohua can find her own happiness as soon as possible.