What is the real "joking", I always think that the real joke is acceptable and happy for the other party. If the other party hates the joke and feels pain, then this is not a joke, this is Intimidate! Although jokes are not a big problem, but you must also grasp the degree, consider the occasion, consider others, and joking is definitely not a person's business.
However, there are always people who like to mock others under the guise of jokes or make untimely jokes when others are in a bad mood. What is even more irritating is that they often "double standard", that is, people who are being joked. Don't be angry. When you are angry, it means you are stingy, you are careful, and you don't have a sense of humor. I despise this very much.
Marriage was originally a solemn and serious matter, but as people continue to open their minds, marriage has become interesting. Through some suitable games and jokes, the atmosphere of marriage can be set off. It can be said to kill two birds with one stone, but there are always some People use this guise to make some vulgar or even vulgar jokes, which really makes people angry.
During the National Day this year, a set of wedding pictures in Kaifeng, Henan Province became popular. It turned out that it was a family’s daughter who got married. Various very domineering and even some domineering banners were hung in the courtyard, which read: " My sister is used to being arrogant and domineering at home. If you have any disagreements in the future, listen to her"; "If my sister has tears in her eyes and hurts on her body in the future, I will definitely let you go out to panic"; "You cook three meals a day." "; "You are responsible for making money to support your family, and he is responsible for being beautiful and beautiful" and so on.
To be honest, as a bystander, I was a little angry to see such banners, because the words of these banners are all in a threatening tone. It is estimated that the bridegroom will be dissatisfied when he sees these banners, just because The feelings were not spoken out.
Coincidentally, reader Zhang Ming also encountered a similar situation. He met a girl through a matchmaker. At first, the two did not look at each other. By chance, the two met again. Through further understanding, the two talents Feelings gradually came into being, and after a year of love, marriage was put on the agenda.
When discussing marriage,Zhang Ming was almost tortured to death by the woman’s family. At the beginning, Zhang Ming learned from the girl’s mouth that the man only needs to get 100,000 gifts, but when the parents of both parties discussed, the woman’s parents would need 200,000 gifts. Moreover, the attitude was very strong. In the end, the marriage was not negotiated. Later, under the mediation of the middleman, the two parties set the bride price at 150,000. After the wedding date was confirmed, Zhang Ming's heart was always in his throat, but he could not attack his girlfriend.
On the wedding day, Zhang Ming brought the motorcade to welcome his relatives. When he passed the village entrance, he was blocked by others. Zhang Ming naturally understood what everyone meant, and immediately signaled his colleagues to hand out wedding candy and cigarettes. After dispelling these obstacles, the welcoming team finally came to the woman’s house, but to Zhang Ming’s surprise, he was stopped by the woman’s family when he was preparing for to pick up the bride and got into the car, and then pulled out a banner in public. Some threatening warning banners were written, which made Zhang Ming a little dissatisfied.
Just as he was at a loss, the woman's parents signaled to him and asked Zhang Ming to look at a banner, only to see the words "I want to pick up the bride, and give another 50,000 red envelopes." After reading this content, Zhang Ming He seemed even more angry, and immediately asked the woman's parents what they meant. He didn't expect the other party to say categorically: "That's what it means. If you don't take 50,000 yuan today, you won't want to pick up my girl." After hearing this, Zhang Roared with anger: "If you want money, I won't get married. Let's divorce." After saying that Zhang Ming greeted the team to go back.
After reading this story, I don’t know what to say, not to mention that it’s not appropriate for the woman to pull the banner like this to warn. It’s not appropriate to just make a mistake on the day of the wedding and ask the man to give the red envelope again. This behavior has been It is very immoral. However, this phenomenon is not uncommon. In some weddings, especially in some rural areas, this kind of thing often happens, but it is rarely fulfilled. Most of them mess up the marriage and make a mess.
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