Reading Chronicle:
Someone actually wrote a book-"How to make the one you love fall in love with you".
The book lists 85 tips to make TA fall in love with you.
1. First impression
Love is an ability that everyone should learn.
The bad guys will deceive the feelings after they learn the routines. The good guys should learn the techniques of love to make your loved ones fall in love with you.
When people are in love, phenethylamine is secreted in the body, which makes us feel very excited, and even can't sleep all night.
The secretion of phenethylamine comes from our childhood subconscious. It may be something that touched the chord of love in your heart. When you grow up, you will look for your spouse in that direction.
The book discusses whether there is "love at first sight". If after love at first sight, both parties get married, they will believe in love at first sight.
If it fails,Then they would think that they were stunned.
Many girls will say that there is no standard for finding someone, just by feeling.
To make your loved one fall in love with you, it is especially important to make a good first impression.
According to statistics, a large number of ordinary people’s lovers are within five blocks, which is a radius of five blocks around your home. It’s okay to go for a walk, dress yourself up a little, and be ready to fall in love at any time. Because a woman will judge from a man's dress whether he is worthy of entrusting him for life.
From the beginning of primitive society, women have a much greater risk of having children than men. In their genes, they hope to choose a man who can pass on the line and raise her children.
It doesn't matter what women wear. In the eyes of men, appearance and figure are more important.
To build a feeling with a person, a very important technique is to make eye contact with the person.
If the time of eye contact is only 30%-60%, there is no way to arouse the spark of love. Only watch him for more than 75% of the time,In order to create an atmosphere of love.
So the first step is to learn to use your eyes and focus on the person you like. There is another point that impressed me, about the choice of dating location. It is recommended to choose the place of dating in a place where people's emotions are ups and downs. Even anxiety 's mood is better than calm. When emotions begin to fluctuate, it makes people want to fall in love. People are more willing to fall in love when their impulsive and emotional elements rise.
2. Self-esteem massage p p p p p .
Adler believes that people are pursuing a sense of value and belonging all their lives.
self-esteem massage will make the TA satisfy the above two points at the same time.
The purpose of self-esteem massage is to make the other person feel that after TA is with you, how he has become so good.
After meeting you,TA feels that he is getting better and better.
In life, we often find that there are many scammers who can deceive the rich elder sister.
The reason is that very few people really fall in love, and a large number of people feel empty, lonely and cold.
Suddenly someone appeared and massaged her self-esteem, which made her feel great and beautiful.
Self-esteem massage has a series of techniques.
first learn to praise silently. I often stare at TA with his eyes, and every time his eyes leave him, he looks reluctant.
The second step is to learn empathy. Don't give him lessons, don't make mistakes. Learn to say "I can fully understand your feelings", "I know it will hit you a lot this time" and so on.
The third step is to worship admiringly. I adore him from the bottom of my heart and praise his details with my heart.
The highest state: You have to express that you like the unique one. For example, you like the way she looks crisp when drinking, especially the action of patting the table to stand up to toast...
If you make the other person feel that your shortcomings have become the object of your love,Her self-esteem will greatly increase, and her self-discipline will also increase.
There is another trick: find an opportunity to tell TA that you are the most beautiful person I have ever seen.
To sum up: Self-esteem massage is to let the other person find a better feeling.
Third, the equivalent exchange
book presents six elements of a person's worth:
Appearance, wealth, status, knowledge, character, character.
These things can be exchanged on an equivalent basis.
When you build relationships, you need to carefully calculate your worth.
Whether you are in the East or the West, the right marriage is always the most important principle of marriage.
Many ordinary beauties who were born later married into wealthy families.Because their beauty can be exchanged with each other's wealth at the same price.
Such families are prone to mid-life crisis. The wealth of men continues to accumulate, while the beauty of women no longer exists. There is a problem with the equivalence of the two parties.
Some beauties can still live well. Because she re-used her character and character to shape her price.
In fact, everyone does not want to climb high, high climbing will make you a lot of pressure.
I carefully analyzed my worth:
When I fell in love, I had no advantages in appearance, wealth, or status.
has certain advantages in knowledge, character and character. After nearly 10 years of marriage, my wealth has improved to a certain extent, and my knowledge has continued to accumulate. The whole person becomes more confident. And self-confidence will have a positive impact on a person's appearance. Therefore, I would like to give some suggestions to those who are eager to enter the marriage hall:
objectively evaluate your own worth, find your own advantages, give play to your strengths, and continue to accumulate.
One day, you will find your equivalent exchange partner.
Love is a verb and a technology.
Taking a little time to learn how to love will make our marriage run better, and it will also make it easier for people to find the person they love. (Golden City that improves every day)
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