Xiao Wang and his wife Xiao Shi have been married for 5 years and have two sons. Nowadays, his wife and the man eat and live together outside, and Xiao Wang only hopes that his wife can return to the family, so that he can forget the blame.
But Xiaoshi said that she didn't want to go back, and she was scared when she returned home. What is going on here?
After marriage, he found that her husband was grumpy and beat and scolded his son
The eldest son was born by Xiaoshi, who had an accident with another man before marriage. The two got married with a certificate.
Xiaoshi thought he had found her own happiness, but after getting married, she found that her husband was grumpy, and he kept beating and scolding his elder son, which made her very unbearable.
Not only that, the husband is still in the bedroom, the lobby is equipped with surveillance, and all her actions are under the eyes of her husband.
Xiao Wang also has a vice, that is, he can gamble and his income is unstable.
Xiaoshi lived in fear in her marriage, which eventually led to conflicts and she ran away from home.
Xiaoshi rents a house outside, eating and living with another man.
The most ironic thing is that this man is not someone else, but the husband’s colleague. Well-off also has a family.
Two men and women with their own families, living together in public, are also unscrupulous.
Xiao Wang followed Xiaokang several times to find out the addresses of the two.
The next day, Xiao Wang brought a mediator to the door, hoping that his wife could go home with him and live a good life.
When the two met, Xiaoshi kept his head down, saying that he didn't want to go back, and he was too scared.
At this moment, Xiaokang also happened to be back. When the mediator asked what the relationship between the two is now.
Xiaokang said: The two are just good friends and have a good time. Xiaoshi's husband threatened to kill her. She was too scared and needed a man to protect her, so the two lived together.
In fact, Xiao Wang discovered his wife’s affair as early as last year. At that time, he also reminded his wife: , you go to play, don’t let your family go away.
Xiaoshi is now pregnant again. The mediator asked: Who is the father of the child?
Xiaoshi said helplessly: I don't know.
When the mediator asked Xiaokang: Will you marry her?
Xiaokang said that the two are happy, as long as she has a good life. If Xiaoshi wants to return to the family, he is willing to let go.
In order to let his wife go home as soon as possible, Xiao Wang also explained the reason for installing surveillance. Not to monitor his wife, but to be afraid of the child's accident, so I can check it at any time.
Finally,Under the patient persuasion of the mediator, Koishi let go. Considering the two children, she didn't want her home to be separated, she said that she could go home. But the husband must promise her several conditions.
First, the husband must do it, and the previous things cannot be mentioned.
Second, do not beat or scold children.
third, quit gambling
fourth, can’t monitor her every move.
Xiao Wang promises that he will do it, but he also hopes that his wife can obey the woman's way and stop being confused with other men.
It is difficult for a woman who cannot stand on her own to be happy
Xiaoshi’s marriage is actually destined to be very difficult to be happy from the beginning.
Xiaoshi had a son before marriage. Under normal circumstances, a man with better conditions would not consider a woman with a child.
They were afraid of raising their son for others, but they were eventually driven out by their son.
When a woman remarries, she often has one requirement: I hope that the other person will treat her child as if she was born.
can meet this requirement,In fact, it is very high and few people can do it.
A man facing an unrelated child, to be tolerant, he needs to be open-minded.
A man with an open mind must be able to resolve conflicts. And this kind of man actually looks down on Xiaoshi.
If the other party can marry you, it means that the level is actually similar to yours.
Xiao Wang's conditions are not good and his temper is not good. It is precisely because of his bad conditions that he married Xiaoshi.
The little king who was originally grumpy, after marriage, vented all the unsatisfactory things in life on his wife and eldest son.
Xiaoshi sees his eldest son being beaten and scolded by her husband every day, and he can't protect him, so he will definitely hate him.
The child is innocent, but all this is caused by Xiaoshi's inability to support himself.
Before marriage, Xiao Shi gave birth to other men. He didn't think about relying on himself, but quickly fell in love with Xiao Wang and got pregnant and married.
Conflicts with Xiao Wang, and finds other men to live together. Xiaoshi's solution to the problem is simple and rude, that is, he keeps looking for men to rely on.
I am always attached to a man and live on his conscience. In the mess in my life,I'm pregnant again.
Xiao Shi is a person who has no sense of responsibility, and he has nothing to do with Xiao Wang.
The husbands a woman can marry are actually about the same level as their own.
Behind forgiveness is just to take what they need
The king chose to forgive his wife. His forgiveness is not true love, it just takes each other's needs.
He needs a woman to handle housework and take care of children. After all, a man who is grumpy and loves to gamble, if he is divorced and bring children with him, few women will choose him.
Therefore, maintaining the status quo of the marriage is the most appropriate.
As for the points he promised, just listen.
If a person's bad habits are so easy to change, they would have been changed a long time ago. Why is it still the same today?
Let’s talk about the desire to control.
Many people say that strong women can't stand it, but strong women are nothing more than nagging.
And men are grumpy and have a strong desire for control, which is even more disaster to the family.
The TV series " Don't Talk to Strangers ", An Jia and are very controllable people. They have a bad temper and beat and scold their wives if they don't agree with each other.
And the wife lives in such a family, and she becomes frightened, for fear of being beaten if she makes a difference.
The reason why Xiaoshi fled was because he didn't want to live this life of fear and fear with his children. It's just that her way is wrong.
If a woman wants to live a happy life in this life, she must first be independent.
Regardless of whether it is economically or spiritually, one cannot be overly dependent on others.
Once over-reliant, the opponent will break his wings, so that he no longer has the ability to spread his wings and fly high. Once the other party no longer supports you, your life will be turned upside down.
The reason why women are happier than men is that most men don’t always want to rely on women to eat soft meals. Instead, they will use all the resources of the woman to make their career successful and live more and more confident.
But women are different. Most women always expect a man to help them solve their problems and protect themselves from the wind, sun and rain. It seems like a smooth life, but it’s full of things. The crisis.
It is very hard to struggle by myself, but it is practical. Relying on others to provide for temporary happiness, but once something happens, there is no ability to fight back.
There is a saying that is very good: Dad has,My mother has it, my husband has it, not as good as my own.
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