In modern society, the economy is developing rapidly, especially after our country has entered a new era of reform and opening up, people's wallets have quickly bulged up.
Economic work is also playing an increasingly important role in the country’s strategic tasks. All of this shows that we have entered a fast-growing economic society in which the individual is profit-seeking. , It is necessary to calculate costs and benefits. Inertial thinking like
not only plays a role in the field of economic activities. In love, people are often unconsciously affected by this thinking. In love, in marriage, they often care about gains and losses, and care about costs and benefits. .
Therefore, for many wise women, if they want to keep a man, it is not based on the traditional view that "If you want to grab a man's heart, you must grab their stomach."
In real life, it is not necessary to grab men’s stomachs. On the contrary, as long as the cost of leaving them becomes higher by some means, it is out of economic benefits and various benefits and cost considerations. , They will not rashly betray you and leave.
Therefore, a woman can increase the cost of leaving it in the following ways.
First of all, women have to control the financial power. Nowadays, because of the social situation where there are many men and few women, men cannot get married, and the society does not find the reason on its own, but instead blames this problem on the high bride price.
But in fact, the bride price is really not worth mentioning compared with the responsibilities of the married woman and the cost of having children and taking care of the family. What's more, if you have a bride price, people will also have makeup. But I didn't expect that the whole society would not think that way.
In this case, girls should learn to protect their own interests. You must save a sum of money, and you must also grasp the financial power of your family. Only in this way can you protect yourself.
Even if you sacrifice your career or your own interests by giving birth or taking care of your family, you can have more capital when you get divorced.
The financial power of the family is with you, so men of course dare not cheat easily. On the one hand, they don't have that much money in their hands. On the other hand, even if they divorce you, they will lose a lot of money. Therefore, after weighing the gains and losses as well as the costs and benefits, they certainly will not choose to leave recklessly and easily.
In addition, you can also be her good helper.
Whether in business or in marriage, in fact, what a man is looking for is a partner who can fight with himself and shoulder the responsibility of the family together, rather than a humanoid pendant who can only play coquettishly all day long, nor is it a mere spoiler. A vase that looks unusable. In this case, independent and capable you have a strong attraction.
In this case, you are very capable and accomplished no matter in your career or in your family. You are his little helper, and even the credit overwhelms him.
In this case, he will have a kind of trust in you, a kind of dependence and dependence. Over time, they will not be able to cut off this sense of dependence. They have to admit that they are separated from each other in career and family. I won't open you.
In your career, you are a solo, independent strong woman who has experienced the battlefield. In the family, you gave her lovely baby and gave her the warmth and care of her family. The family relationship can be handled just right. Such a woman, how could a man be willing to leave, how could he be willing to let go.
They are not stupid, they will measure the contribution and benefits, when they are with you, there are so many benefits, who would choose to leave stupidly and stubbornly?
Men are very shrewd and rational. They have their own ideas and motivations for doing things. They will be very passionate about things that are good for them.
For those who are useful, they will come forward to cheat, so for such a woman who can bring them so many benefits,How could he be willing to let go. He is not stupid, he will weigh the pros and cons after weighing the pros and cons, and make the best choice for him.
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