Text/Xia Mo
01、Introduction
There are many colors of love, from bright red to melancholic blue. When in love, love is red. After staying together, in the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, love gradually turned into melancholy blue.
At the beginning of love, I hope that the other person sees the good side of him. Only when he is in deep love, will he naturally reveal his true happiness, anger, sorrow, and joy.
If a man no longer covers up, exposes his true emotions to a woman, says something that has never been said before, or suddenly collapses and becomes a different one, then he must have moved his heart, using his life. In love with each other.
In love, if the other person shows you everything, then he has already regarded you as a part of his life.
There is a saying in "Blessings of the Heavenly Officials": "You are the infinite scenery, and you are also the fallen dust. The most important thing is you, not what you are."
Man, afraid of letting people see himself vulnerable Side, especially the one you love the most.
But when he fully trusts the other person, truly loves a person and will show his most vulnerable side to the other person.
Men have these "counseling" in front of you, but they actually treat you as a wife, don't ignore it.
02. When you encounter difficulties, complain in front of you
A man’s complaint is a kind of talk.
" Shanshan is coming " this TV series,It tells the story of a lot of laughter and curse between Fengteng and Shanshan. The two people get along very easily and very interestingly.
However, one day, Feng Teng rarely showed a very decadent side. He told Shanshan that he was sitting in the office and had to deal with things that he couldn't finish.
He can't be willful, he can't go wherever he wants. It seems that he became president at a young age, but he has no other right to choose.
He can only be in that position and deal with all kinds of emergencies conscientiously, without the slightest slack.
Shanshan understands Feng Teng from another level. In her mind, from that moment on, she may no longer think of him as a superior president, but a living person, an ordinary person who needs her to comfort him. people.
Only when a man recognizes a woman can she see her pain and pull her to consider the problem from his perspective.
Women will gradually understand what kind of eyes a man is hurt, and will know what kind of things he is really angry about.
When a man recognizes a person, he will complain in front of her and confide in her, showing the "counseling" side. Because he is trusting her and relying on her.
When a man complains to a woman, he wants her to understand, to get her care and love.
03. When you are sad, cry in front of you
A man who trusts you enough will cry in front of you.
In " Why Shengxiaomo ", the hero and heroine fell in love for a while, and then separated for seven years due to a misunderstanding. The hero He Yichen also waited for her for seven years without knowing the other party's wishes.
When he saw Zhao Mosheng again,All kinds of disgust and ridicule on the lips, indifferent expression, blunt words, and even choose to marry Zhao Mosheng like revenge.
The knot between each other was not really opened. He saw that Zhao Mosheng had booked a ticket and packed his luggage. His depressed mood could no longer be controlled, and he asked Zhao Mosheng rudely why he wanted to leave again.
In fact, Zhao Mosheng is going to Hong Kong temporarily for work reasons, not wanting to leave without saying goodbye again.
He Yichen, who understood all this, couldn't help crying.
In this relationship, he was always afraid, afraid of the other party's silent departure, afraid of his own powerlessness, and Zhao Mosheng finally understood how much the other party cares about her.
When a man shed tears in front of a woman, it was because he was injured. He removed all the armor and tore off the thick camouflage.
When a man really falls in love with someone, he will cry when he wants to cry.
Because of trust and love, she will remove her strong disguise in front of her and show her "counseling" side.
04. When you are lonely, tell you what is going on
There is a line in " my first half of my life": "Because life is difficult, we need one person to help each other." The man looks very strong, and he rushes forward, even if he fails, he will start again and continue to create new miracles.
However, men also have moments of depression and confusion.
When he is at a trough, he needs the comfort and support of his lover to gain strength.
In front of the person he loves most, a man is willing to show his worst side unscrupulously,Ken tells those unbearable past events, showing the other side of his "counseling", which is a kind of dependence.
At this moment, he is no longer an indomitable hero, like a wayward child, his eyes are dark, as if he is fighting against life.
He needs care, recognition and love from you.
He knows that even people all over the world don't believe him, only you will never leave him.
When a man is lonely, he looks sad in front of you, which is telling you something about his heart. Although the appearance is "counseling", it is enough to show that he depends on you.
When a man shows you all the colors, he is unguarded, he is also expressing love and trust.
05、Summary
A good love is that each other is pretending to be in each other's eyes.
I have love in my heart, I care, knowing that she is there, there is no need to hide and cry secretly.
Woman, when a man secretly shows a "counseling" side in front of you, it is actually a kind of trust, but also a kind of love and dependence.
Women, good love is caring for and supporting each other.
When a man shows you his fragile side, please remember to comfort him and give him a hug. Because he needs warmth and understanding.
Yu Guangzhong said: "Your eyes are so beautiful, there are rain, sun and moon, mountains, rivers, clouds, flowers and birds, but my eyes look better because I have you in my eyes."
A man allows a woman to see the softest side in his heart. He wants you to understand and hopes to be comforted by you.
woman,When a man loves to the depths, he will be willing to remove all his disguise and show the truest side in front of you. Affection is deep, it is dependence, but also trust.
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.Author: Xia Mo MO, cutting-edge emotional tutor, psychologist, over 1 billion popular emotional writers across the network, happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
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