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Writer Li Bihua said:
People live a breath, and trees live a piece of skin.
A person, living in this world, is a form of living.
As and Yishu said: "Being a woman, the most important thing is to look good."
Especially between men and women, a woman's posture must be beautiful, otherwise, it will only fall off My own identity has lost my dignity.
01 Between the opposite sex, the palm-up pose is the most ugly.
I don’t know, you haven’t observed it.
In fact, this is a habit and a state of mind.
Because the palm of the hand is up to help, and the palm of the hand is down to beg.
To put it simply, with the palm of your hand facing up, what you throw out is dignity.
A woman, no matter what she loses, don't lose her dignity.
If you get along between the opposite sex, if you start the day with your palm facing up, your dignity will gradually fade away.
In " Half Life ", in order to take care of her family, Manlu came out to make money to support her family when she was very young.
As the age grows, the job of a dancer becomes more and more difficult, so she becomes anxious, hoping to find a man as a backer.
Based on her age and experience, it must be a luxury to marry a wealthy and decent family. However, she is not willing to marry someone with bad family conditions.
She regards face more than anything else. She always hopes to marry a rich man to be a rich wife.
At this time, Zhu Hongcai, the Hunshi Demon King, appeared.
In an accident, Man Lu married Zhu Hongcai and lost her hard-earned money.
I thought that marrying Zhu Hongcai would be able to live the life of the boss's wife. Unexpectedly, Zhu Hongcai was just a person with left hand in and right hand out.
In the end, Man Lu lost both wealth and wealth, and also caught the happiness of his sister's life.
In fact, the biggest mistake in Man Lu's life was not being poor, but lacking love in her heart. She relied on Zhu Hongcai with the palm of her hand facing upwards, and wanted love from Zhu Hongcai.
Respect for each other is the most basic way to get along with each other. And equality is the basis of respect.
women and men together,A woman has the financial ability and spending a man's money is to test a man's ability and love; if a woman does not have the financial ability, blindly asking for money from a man will become the saddest thing in a woman's life.
When love is strong, men may use "I raise you" to coax you, but over time, the feelings will be weak, and people will change. "I raise you" will eventually become " I raised you".
You know, in this world, except your parents, who will support you unconditionally.
At all times, women must have the ability to make money on their own.
You can not make money, but you cannot be without the ability to make money.
You can not go out to work, but you can't lose the ability to make money.
Economic independence represents not only the freedom to spend money, but also spiritual independence.
A woman, only when she truly understands the meaning of independence, will the world be worthwhile.
02 The posture of complaining about bad reviews is the most hurtful between the opposite sex.
Two days ago, taking advantage of the early days of National Day, I wanted to take my son out to play.
Unexpectedly, as soon as I went out, I heard the neighbor’s house quarreling all the time.
probably means that the wife blames her husband for uselessness, and the men take advantage of the holidays and get out of the dark to make money. He only knows to sit at home and play on his mobile phone all day long. I really don’t know how he was blind. Used man.
The man was holding a cell phone in his hand, watching his wife scolding him glaringly,His face flushed.
The wife seems to be furious, and she can't see that her husband has endured it to the extreme, and it will explode at any time.
Then scold again, the more scolded, the more unpleasant.
Sure enough, the husband smashed the phone and his fist fell on the woman.
was hit by a sudden fist, the woman was dumbfounded for a few seconds before she came back, sitting on the ground like a splash, shouting for help and wanting to kill.
Maybe he hit someone with a fist, but he also woke him up, and the husband turned his head and left.
The wife is still verbally insulting behind her back, scolding a man for a while, sighing for a while, if it weren't for marrying this man, I don't know how good my life will be, and so on.
pulled her son downstairs, a woman's harsh swearing sounded in her ears. I don't know why, but she didn't have the slightest sympathy for her.
It may be poor couples who are sad, but if a family is going on, two people have to carry it up. If you blindly accuse each other, it will only make the other person feel that life is more difficult, even the people around you. , And don’t know how to be considerate of yourself.
When getting along between the opposite sex, the most taboo thing is to complain.
For people who like to complain, complaining is very addictive, and it will only complain more and more, making people unable to listen.
For people who suffer from complaints, every complaint is like a knife, cut on themselves again and again, deeply wounded, but invisible.
The most useful way to solve problems between the opposite sex is to get angry.
two people together,Only when we are considerate of each other and grow up together can we meet happiness together.
03Between the opposite sex, the humble posture is the most worthless
An emotional writer said this sentence again: "p7p7p p0" It’s easy for the other party not to take you seriously. When you never bear to refuse, the other party will start to neglect you."
alone, he values others too much, even more than himself When there is no room and space to place oneself.
However, in the world of emotions, many women are prone to enter a misunderstanding. They always think that if they desperately love each other and treat him well, they can get the same treatment.
In fact, people are greedy.
If you have no bottom line, the balance of feelings will be out of balance. For feelings, there will only be hurt and no love.
The most typical is Zhang Ailing vs. Hu Lancheng . She spent most of her life loving a man, but she has repeatedly ushered in the betrayal of the other person.
If you lose your self-esteem when you love someone, then all you have to do is be self-conceited.
Fall in love with one, and when it is low in the dust, it will not bloom.
is low in the dust and will only be trampled by people.
humble,Love is never exchanged, it will only be exchanged beyond recognition, bruised and bruised.
Born as a woman, no matter when, you must abide by your own principles and bottom line, and love another person without changing your dignity.
Love that loses dignity is not love at all, but contempt for oneself.
Every woman should believe that to live alone, you must first make a living and then seek love.
Life is not only life and survival, but also an attitude of positive and independent life.
Women who can achieve happy feelings are often spiritually and financially independent.
A good relationship must be based on equality.
Self-love and independent relationship can be happy and long-lasting.
About the author: Wu Yang. Multi-platform signing author, female inspirational writer. Appreciate the emotions of the world, and interpret the various states of the world.
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