Change of life for 28 years: a different family style, a different life


The day before yesterday, I posted an article about Xiong Lei: "Ms. Xiong Lei, change my mind, re-behave, and the future is a long way." As a result, a reader friend suggested that he should write an article for Xiong Lei’s parents. It is recommended that they educate and educate their daughters, because Xiong Lei's "badness", in the eyes of readers, is the result of parents' "not raising"!


Inspired by the suggestions of readers and friends, I suddenly realized that it is more than Xiong Lei! In ’s 28-year misplaced life event involved in all aspects of human affairs, people from different families have different origins and experiences, different family education, and different family styles. Therefore, each person’s life philosophy, The principle of life, the style of behavior, etc., are also very different!


Xu Ma's family is kind-hearted, up and down, and behave in a manner consistent with the rules. Because there is no harm, there is no defensive heart! If you think you are a gentleman, everyone in the world is a gentleman! We often say "to treat the belly of a villain with the heart of a gentleman" or "to treat the belly of a villain with the heart of a villain", this is not the reason why Xu Ma, Yao Dad and Yao Wei's family were conspired by others, and ended up like this The ending, doesn't it completely conform to the old sayings of "saving the belly of a villain with the heart of a gentleman" and "a horse is good to be ridden by others, and a person is good to be deceived by others"?


Old man Xu is kind, and he did his best to take care of his grandson Yao Ce when he was alive. Until his death, he didn't know that Yao Ce was not his grandson! Is there anything more regrettable in this world?


My grandmother was kind, and in order to help her daughter Xu Min buy a wedding house for her son, she gave all her family’s life savings unselfishly and unreservedly to her daughter. As a result, in the court, she was attacked by Lawyer Marta. Denial, total negation, throwing out the famous "grandma's money is not grandpa's money (or "grandpa's money is not grandma's money")" strange talks, all the rage, smash hits, all over the Internet!

Xu Ma Shanliang,To raise Yao Ce, I gave everything a mother should and should not give! But, until now, what did she get? Except for the deep sympathy of most upright, just and kind people for her, there is no compensation, no truth, not to mention full affirmation, enthusiastic praise, and high evaluation!


Dad Yao is kind, obscured for most of his life, selflessly dedicated, and silently bears the responsibilities of a father, the love for the whole family, and all the pain. He has never cried out bitterness and tiredness! However, some people with ulterior motives wantonly slandered and maliciously slandered him and Xu Ma in the name of "nephew like uncle"!


Guo Wei Tian Jingqi Qi Yueyue kind-hearted, Guo Wei changed his life because he swapped the wrong arms and even secretly changed his life. There is hardship to say, and when there is hardship, I don’t feel sorry for myself, don’t blame the heavens and others, and the sons of man. The responsibilities of Mrs. Ren and a law-abiding citizen are shouldered shoulder to shoulder, bear the humiliation, and forge ahead, turning their human life into a beautiful landscape!


Tian Jing is kind, although she is in the center of the vortex of changing life, and on the cusp of the storm, but he lifts weights lightly and calmly handles it, as if he is an outsider and a bystander! Because she knows in her heart that although the person involved is her beloved one, she married into Yao's family for a short time, and she has no need to be sentimental or extravagant for fear that the world will not be chaotic! So, do what you should do, what you can do, do what a wife should do, leave word of mouth to the public, and write kindness on your face!


Qi Qiyueyue is kind, originally an innocent child. When he enjoys a worry-free childhood, he is maliciously slandered by some shameless people. The Yao family has a poor look and even wears clothes that are not as good as Guo. The children and grandchildren are bright and beautiful! Ha ha, the most sinister, the most vicious, the most shameless! It's ridiculous, pathetic and sad!


But what about the other party? But it's shocking, disgusting, despicable and ugly, I can't praise it!


Let me talk about Yao Ce first, from childhood to adulthood, from birth to death,From the beginning to the end, I have gathered the thousands of favors of the Yao family from the Xu family and enjoyed all the glory and wealth that the Yao family can give him. Listen to slander, don't know how to be grateful, be at the mercy of others, go back and forth, rob real estate, leave infamy, and be rejected by others!


Guo's parents, Du Xinzhi and Guo Xikuan, are naturally treacherous and scheming. They gave birth to children and made a series of frauds, challenging the bottom line of national laws; lying countless, challenging the bottom line of public morality; ignoring unlimited ugliness, challenging the three views of personal life! For more than a year, the Internet has been busy, public opinion has been surging, and resources have been exhausted. This has seriously disturbed the public order and affected people's daily life! Behave like this, I don't know how to do it!


Guo's daughter-in-law, Xiong's daughter, and Honda and Tian Jing have the same identity. They can completely stay out of the matter and retreat all over, but they are scorching hot, holding a hot face and sticking to someone else's cold ass. They have made repeated mistakes from the beginning. Wrong, over and over again, one wrong to the end! There are three wrong views on doing things, like leisure and work, twice expelled, nightclub accompany, feasting and feasting; talking about marriage and marrying, staring at Yao Ce, stalking; marrying into Yao’s family, delicious and lazy, patronizing, not thinking about repaying favors, turning back and turning into enemies; for robbing Family property, hired lawyers with high salaries, took the risk, made a desperate move, left the seriously ill, jumped up and down, up and down, and finally fetched water from the bamboo basket, stealing the chicken and eating the rice, embarrassing, lost his wife and broke down!


The world is full of surprises; there are more than a hundred people, all kinds of people, the forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds! Why is the gap between people so big? The reason is different at home!


Home is the smallest country, and the country is the largest! Home is the smallest cell in society, and the quality of the family style directly affects the quality of the social atmosphere! Since the new party and state leaders took office, the reason why they have paid special attention to family tradition, emphasized family training, and paid attention to family education shows that parents, as the first teachers of their children, have a lifelong, profound and significant impact on their children!


So, in this sense, changing the events of 28 years of life is a bright mirror, a bright mirror of the demon! Man and demon,Buddha and ghost, Dao and demons, make judgments based on superiors and inferiorities! I implore readers and friends to open their eyes, recognize character, stay with the good, stay away from the despicable, let the bad guys lose the market, and keep the society clean!

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