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I don’t know if you have noticed a problem. Most of the young people born in the post-95s and post-00s are always smart and low-minded, spending money lavishly. They seem to have no sense of economic crisis at all. Are they really that? Are they rich?
Actually, it’s not that they are very rich. It’s just that they have been spending money from their parents. They have no worries about food and clothing before they get married, but after they get married, they will understand that they used to be Parents are raising themselves.
The story I shared with you today is that after a pair of young people got married and left their parents, they still couldn't see the reality and still wanted to pursue a high-end life. They ended in tragedy.
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The 25-year-old Yang Qin and her boyfriend met during a blind date. After 6 months of being together, the two have the same topics, hobbies and consumption concepts, so the two people Ready to get married.
However, because the two people have the same consumption concept, they have to ignore the opposition of their parents and have to hold a vigorous high-end luxury wedding, regardless of the family's financial situation.
At that time, Yang Qin had no troubles at all, and was still immersed in the sea of love with her boyfriend.
So when the two are ready to get married, they also discuss the things that should be prepared when they get married. Because the boyfriend's house has two suites, one is for the boyfriend's parents and the other is reserved for the boyfriend's marriage, but it needs decoration For a moment, because after the renovation, I have to buy a variety of furniture and daily necessities, which cost about 250,000 yuan.
But according to the local marriage custom , when the man leaves the house, the woman will leave the car, so Yang Qin is also unwilling to lag behind her boyfriend, so he asks his parents to bring a 200,000 wedding car, so two people It cost 450,000 before getting married.
Because the two are the only children in the family, although the parents are reluctant to spend so much money on their marriage, there is no way! Can only bite the bullet and go along with the children,But at this time, Yang Qin and her boyfriend did not have the slightest sense of economic crisis.
Because both of them have jobs, there is no need to worry about these things. They will have no money to spend after they get married. They will do everything in a big way, and they have never thought about saving.
Wedding dresses, diamond rings, wedding photos, and wedding candy gift boxes were carefully selected by the two of them. In the end, these are also a lot of money, and there are as much as 150,000.
At this time, the boyfriend’s parents also thought that they were married and they had spent too much money, so they called Yang Qin’s father: “Sigh with a sigh that they got married and almost paid for the family. It's empty, and even she and the old man's pension money are covered." When Yang Qin thinks about this, she is full of guilt.
The wedding was very grand and luxurious. Relatives and friends from all walks of life were full of praise for this wedding, "It was natural." Yang Qin was also happy in her heart, and she was also very satisfied with this wedding.
But after getting married, she found that the salary of the two was not enough to support their family. Yang Qin is a white-collar worker in a company with a salary of 5,000 a month, and her husband is a training instructor for a private enterprise, with an average of 7,000 yuan a month. Look like.
The two of them have neither mortgage nor car payment, why the sum of their salaries is about 13 thousand, why is it still not enough?
That is because none of them will save money , Due to the same smell, the consumption level of the two is too high, so almost every month is the moonlight clan, sometimes not enough for their own use, every day a variety of eating, drinking and playing, I think in addition to the four giants in the business world today Besides, almost no one can support their consumption.
Yang Qin recalled: “Before he got married, he basically spent the money at home, and his parents would often remind her to make her spend less, so she would spend less appropriately every month. Keep yourself, but after she got married, her mother said that she didn’t have much money at home, so she took back the card she had left her to spend money on. Only then did she discover that she could spend just a few strokes of her monthly salary. Gone."
Now she understands that when she lived with her parents, her parents were carrying firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, so she didn’t want to spend a dime at all. After we got married, she had to take care of these things. To solve this problem, I used to go shopping without blinking, but now even if I want to drink milk tea for 20 yuan, I have to squat down and think about it.
And my husband’s situation is the same as hers. Now they can’t save a little money every month, so now they often quarrel over money.
One complained about earning too little money, the other complained about spending too much money, and the sea of love at the beginning also disappeared. Only the current family chores and firewood, rice, oil and salt are left.
And Yang Qin, in order to improve the quality of his life a little bit, so he often goes to live in her family. Parents’ money, but at least it can solve the problem of food and clothing.
So after less than a year of marriage, Yang Qin proposed to divorce her boyfriend, although Yang Qin is now trying his best to change herself and try her best to make herself every month Save a little more money. Although my husband has also changed, her husband was laid off when the company was laid off a month ago.
Now although I have found a new job, the income is not as good as before. I have fallen from the previous 7000 to the current four or five thousand. This change of her husband has caused the previously precarious family to fall deeply to the bottom, so Yang Qin really can't bear this kind of life anymore.
The two had a big quarrel that night, and Yang Qin angrily filed for a divorce.
"I want to divorce, not because I dislike him for making less money now, but because he has been blaming me. Said that when I got married, I spent too much money and I had to spend more than 200,000 yuan for the wedding. "Yang Qin explained.
She felt that she was really wronged, because the wedding was organized by the two of them together, and it was agreed by both parties, and she was not the only person enjoying the wedding process.Faced with her husband's repeated ridicule, she really couldn't bear it.
When both parents saw that the two were quarreling and quarreling, they also reprimanded them for a divorce, and they also reprimanded: "You two are messing around, you can make more money if you don’t have money, and you can break up wherever your relationship is! Neither of you Do you have a little sense of responsibility? Even if you get divorced today, what will happen? Find another one. You two still have this attitude and bad temper. You are not just repeating the same mistakes."
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Actually, for us bystanders, in the final analysis, young people today are too incapable of saving money, and slowly they don’t have the ability to make money, but they prefer to pursue a high-quality life, and they have no consumption concept at all. , Young people never want to be superior and inferior.
First of all, you have to figure out how capable you are, and how much you can do. Don’t blindly pursue things that are far beyond your ability. This will only make you suffer the consequences, understand. NS?
When we meet this kind of children, it is not them, but their parents who we feel sorry for. They saved the money for a lifetime, just because their children’s wedding was exhausted and even caught up with ourselves With regard to pension money, if children are divorced, they have to worry about their next wedding. It is really pitiful for the parents of the world!
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