The students had an appointment to gather with their families at the Huali Hotel in the provincial capital during the long holiday of November. We arrived as expected, and when I walked into the hotel lobby with a handsome guy on my arm, it felt great. I didn't tell my classmates who this handsome guy next to me was, but when they saw us, I obviously felt that they were all staring at us. I smiled slightly at Wenze, and then started to greet my old classmates.
Wenze is 20 years younger than me. A year ago, I met him and soon fell in love.
The fall of last year, I was divorcing my 42-year-old husband. We have been married for 18 years. He worked as a business manager in a company. Due to his work, he often travels on business and is a workaholic. He always puts his work first.
After years of cold, monotonous and lonely marriage, we finally got divorced. After the divorce, I began to focus on my personal life and career. During this period, I have dated with different men, most of whom are about the same age as me, and one date is close to 60 years old.
I am doing marketing in a company. One morning, a tall young guy in a leather jacket walked into our company building with a motorcycle helmet in one arm. When I first saw him, I was deeply attracted by this handsome boy. A colleague told me that his name is Wenze, he is 22 years old and he is also engaged in marketing.
Although I think he is handsome and likable, he is 20 years younger than me, so I dare not think too much. However, one afternoon the next day, he called my office and asked me for my mobile number. I was flattered at the time, and my heart jumped. When I read the phone number to him, I obviously felt that I was incoherent and almost misread the phone number.
He used my mobile phone number to add a WeChat ID, and then repeatedly invited me out on appointments. I told this to one of my best girlfriends, and she encouraged me to do it boldly.
But from the moment we met, all the worries in my heart seemed to disappear. After that, we went to tea houses and bars. We went to Daming Lake in Jinan. We also drove to Handan Jingniang Lake for a whole day.It's so romantic!
Like many boys nowadays, Wenze likes to play games, but is not very fascinated. He is very funny and charming, and we always have a lot of things to say together. We all love to go to the gym, are interested in nutrition, have similar political views, and like the same movies.
I can't imagine that he has such a strong physical and mental attraction to me. Until today, I, a middle-aged woman in my forties, really understand what it means to fall in love.
Most of the time, our age difference is not a problem. It’s natural for us to party with each other’s friends, but sometimes we also encounter very embarrassing things. Once, a friend quawwenze in front of everyone: "Look, your son looks really good. Handsome! It's up to you."
Damn, what kind of eyes are there! Makes me a big red face.
At first, I thought I should be the same age as his mother, but in fact, our parents are about the same age. Wenze's parents were in their 40s when they had him, and my parents were in their 20s when they had me.
Soon after I met, Wenze came to my house to meet my mom and dad. After the parents met Wenze, they didn't raise any disagreements. Dad just said that the boy was very handsome and young, nothing more.
Wenze lives with his parents. I sometimes see his mother when I drive him home from get off work. At this time, she always waved hello. The first time we had dinner together was a Sunday. I was very nervous at the time, but afterwards I discovered that Wenze's parents were very easy to get along with.
However, not everyone supports my choice. A friend once sent a message asking me if I was serious. They asked me why I wasted my time when I should be looking for a white-headed man. There was even one My friend sent me a WeChat with emoji of vomiting.
If Wenze is an unreliable person, it is a different matter, but the only problem between us is age. I am really worried that our relationship will be broken due to age issues.
Fortunately, Wenze never took it as a problem, and none of his friends had any opinions on our age gap.
After the gathering of friends yesterday, a good classmate sent me WeChat,Asked if I was living in a dream, she expressed her worries about our future in WeChat, saying that men always like women who are younger than themselves.
I let Wenze read this message. He didn't take it. He was confident in our relationship.
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