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My name is A Qing, I am 26 years old and I come from Nanfeng .
When I was young, my family was in poor conditions, and I didn't have the money to go to school, so I dropped out of school early to work as a front-line worker in the factory.
After I earned some money from my part-time job, I joined a night school.
Work every day during the day and go to class at night.
That day was really tiring. It was all dozing off while listening to the class, and I just gritted my teeth and passed the college certificate.
My belief comes from. I have always believed in a sentence: I can't help it!
Although I was born with poor conditions, through my own efforts, I will be able to live a good life.
My husband owed 200,000 foreign debts before marriage. I told him to work and earn money. He slapped me directly. And engaged in office clerk.
After being introduced by a friend, I met my husband, Ah Cheng, who is in the clothing business.
When I met for the first time, I felt that Ah Cheng was a person to rely on. I fell in love with him at first sight.
Two months in love, we pulled the marriage certificate.
Less than a year after marriage, I gave birth to a son with him, and I left the child at home full-time.
thinks that our little family can be so happy, but what I didn’t expect is...
My husband owes 200,000 foreign debts before marriage. I said he should work and make money, so he slapped me
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During the 2020 epidemic,Ah Cheng's clothing business was not good, and the goods could not be sold, resulting in a large backlog and a sudden break in the capital chain.
finally led to the direct closure of two stores, but in desperation, they directly declared bankruptcy.
Ah Chengsheng still owes more than 300,000 yuan in unexpected debt.
Out of desperation, I borrowed from my relatives and friends, plus my savings, I will pay off all the 300,000 foreign debts.
The business went bankrupt, which caused Ah Cheng's mood to plummet.
At the beginning, I didn't say much because of his mood.
After a long time, he put forward a suggestion to go out to earn money in front of him, but he was indifferent and ignored my suggestion.
I am also very helpless...
My husband owes 200,000 foreign debts before marriage. I said that he was asked to work and earn money. He slapped me directly
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Visited the countryside.
One day at ten o'clock in the evening, I was already asleep, and suddenly I heard a knock on the door outside.
I thought Ah Cheng was back, so I opened the door quickly.
A middle-aged man pulled my hand straight and shouted: "Sister-in-law, I am a colleague from Acheng Primary School. I went to see Acheng. I was very anxious about this matter. I borrowed 200,000 yuan for Acheng in the first two years. Doing business, now because of the epidemic, everyone has no choice but to pay me the money."
I was shocked when I heard the news.
Two years ago, Ah Cheng and I were not married yet.
Moreover, Ah Cheng has never confessed to me about the debt of 200,000 yuan, so he was anxious to let me marry him.
The foreign debt of his business was 300,000, which I borrowed from all my relatives to repay it. Now suddenly there is a debt of 200,000 yuan.
makes me feel that the sky is thundering and I am at a loss as to what to do.
Husband owes 200,000 foreign debts before marriage. I told him to work and make money. He slapped me
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The closed store has been more than a year now, and Chengdu refuses to accept it. Go out to work and always play games at home.
To cope with family expenses, I do three jobs a day, and the children have been sent to my mother.
I work in the factory during the day, run Didi at noon, and go to the food stall at night as a waiter.
I work continuously for more than ten hours a day, and I haven't had a good night's sleep in a year.
In order to understand Ah Cheng's debt, I forced him to ask him why he owed so much money and how he planned to pay it back.
Who knows, he is grumpy, shouting at me: "This has nothing to do with you, leave it alone!"
"Leave me alone? I get debts collected by debt collectors every night, can I leave it alone?" I was angry Asked indifferently.
"I can solve it!?" he shouted.
"Then you go out to make money! I have been resting for more than a year now, and when I want to be decadent, I won't be in charge in the end!" I forced him.
Who knows, he came up directly and gave me a slap in the face.
said: "I told you to leave it alone! I've never loved it! But I'm divorced!", turned around and slammed the door and left.
The red hand printed on my face is so hot that my face hurts and tears flow!
Husband owes 200,000 foreign debts before marriage. I said to let him work and earn money, so I slapped me directly
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What should I do when facing him like this?
Before marriage, he deceived me and owed 200,000 foreign debts,After the marriage, the business failed.
During his one-year break, my heart-warming persuaded him to go out to work and earn money.
or use the housekeeping skill of crying and making trouble to force him, there is no way to get him out of the house.
I really tried all the methods, but none worked.
Now that I encounter such a dilemma, I am very tired every day. This is not only the tiredness of life, but
also feels very tired physically and mentally. I persevere hard and see no hope.
Should I get a divorce?
What should I do?
ask everyone to leave a message in the comment area and give me this helpless woman a suggestion. Thank you!
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