The feelings of the older generation are relative to young people. In addition to lack of passion and romance, there are three obvious characteristics of their feelings that are worthy of learning from today's young people.
1. Plainness is full of true feelings. The feelings of the older generation are like raw jade, they are insignificant on the outside and sincere on the inside. This is related to their education. Today’s older generation, at least those born in the 1960s and before, have more or less traces of the traditional view of love, especially the traditional education on how to behave, even today it is worth learning. The meaning of inheritance. Their love and their feelings are not as vigorous as today's young people, so radiant and can be seen at a glance, and it is not like today's young people who dare to speak out loudly if they have love. They don't put love on their lips and their feelings on their faces. Others can't see it at a glance, because they put love in their mouths and nourish their feelings in their hearts. This kind of love, this kind of affection, looks plain and unpretentious, but the heart is pure and flawless like gold.
2. There is affection in the depths of love. The feelings of the older generations are like a simmering fire, the longer the time, the more mellow. Since they were born in the 1940s, 1950s, and 1960s, our country is in a special period of waiting to be rejuvenated. Social economy, culture, education and other aspects are relatively backward. socialist construction is exactly the great leap forward Important stage. Among them, the vast majority of older generations do not have more autonomous time to spend the past months and years like today's young people. Their love and their feelings are gradually built up by understanding each other, helping each other, and loving each other in the busy work and study. The feelings established under this background have a common language, common pursuit, and common goal, so they have a solid foundation and can stand the test. Therefore, this kind of love that is slowly simmered over a small fire is full of flavor,Stewed and stewed, once you encounter an opportunity, the thick love will give birth to warm affection, and this feeling will become rich and colorful.
3. Loyalty and unswerving love for life. The feelings of the older generation are like gurgling brooks. Although there is no surging rivers and seas, the long streams of water will never dry up. In real life, although the feelings of most older generations are not as vigorous as those of young people, their marriage feelings are stable. Unlike some young people today, they regard feelings as thin as paper and love as rags. Either flash marriage when you meet, or get married online or get divorced offline; or get married today and get divorced tomorrow if you make a difference. Jiang He exhausted, Xia Yuxue, dare to be with Junjue, has long become a secret appointment in ancient times, without pure love and true love; when you grow old, it can only be a word of blessing at the wedding.
Of course, I am not saying that young people have a bad outlook on love today, nor that young people have no real feelings (I know: what age is it now, or feudal ethics, three outlines and five constants, marrying chickens and dogs, marrying dogs The age of the dog!) I’m not an antique who can’t keep up with the times. I just want to say: Although the feelings and love of the older generation are simple and unpretentious, they are true love; although they are not vigorous, they have love and affection in their hearts; although ordinary It's so invisible, but the feelings soaked in oil rice chai tea can trickle forever. Isn't this worth learning for our young people?
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