encounters are destined to leave, some retention is destined to be avoided, and some choices are destined to go against their own will.

▶ Two
Both Xiao Qin and I graduated from the same university, but I am two years older than her. We are all managed by the Student Union. We will contact some event planning departments. This is how we know each other, and we have ways of contacting each other.
After graduation, I often have the shadow of Xiao Qin in my heart. At the time, she had a boyfriend, so I had to bury this feeling in my heart.
But soon, I heard her classmate (a relative of mine) say that Xiao Qin was dumped by her boyfriend, and her boyfriend expressed sympathy. Xiao Qin couldn't accept it at the time and cut off his pulse to commit suicide. Fortunately, the roommate in the dormitory found out in time, and everyone knew that she was broken in love.
▶ Three
When I heard about this, my heart ached. How Xiao Qin loves this boy. I dare not leave a message for Xiao Qin. I can only contact her when Xiao Qin is in a better mood a few months later.
Later, I used the excuse that the translation problem I encountered in a foreign trade company could not be resolved, and solicited Xiao Qin's opinions many times. She patiently shared. To thank her, I invited her to dinner alone, and she also participated in the date.
When I saw her again, I found that she was in good health. I was always humorous and told her a few jokes. This meal brought us closer.
Later, I often contact Xiao Qin. A year later, after Xiao Qin graduated, I officially admitted that we started dating that day.

▶ Four
We both have a gentle personality. There is no shortage of warmth when dating. After my career stabilized, I proposed to Zhou Qin. She was 28 years old at the time and her face was filled with happiness.
Soon, with the blessing of our family, we entered the marriage hall and started a small life.
Because they were all working far away from home at the time, we had to buy a suite in the place closest to their two companies.
▶ Five
At 30 years old,Xiao Qin is pregnant. I don't want her to work hard. I asked her to resign very early and asked my parents to take care of her together. In this way, Xiao Qin leads the happy life many women dream of. When she was pregnant, she just took care of herself and didn't have to worry about anything.
After Xiao Qin gave birth to a fat son to the Li family, she has always wanted to go to work. She doesn't like children very much. Maybe it is a different woman in the new era, she is reluctant to breastfeed, saying that she will be deformed. As a result, her son drank milk powder when he was born. After the child was two months old, Xiao Qin returned to the workplace.
At first, the first few years of marriage were peaceful. We worked hard and bought a car. I call Xiao Qin right after work. Sometimes two people go to a restaurant and take a walk in the park. Although we have children, we live freely.
▶ Six
When her son Binbin was in the middle class in the kindergarten, Xiao Qin was also promoted. She is the head of translation in a car sales center. Sometimes she had to go to other branches for meetings. At that time, I left the company and became the supervisor of a factory.
Because they are busy at work, we rarely go out alone, so as not to affect our feelings. As long as there is no work at hand, we agree to go home.
Last year, I started to discover that Xiao Qin was a little different, but I can't say that there were any major changes. In the past, she liked light makeup. At that time, she occasionally put on a little heavy makeup. In addition, her clothing style has changed from mature professional clothing to young, and her lipstick changes frequently.
Because these are personal preferences, I generally respect them, but one night, Xiao Qin was playing on a mobile phone and suddenly saw me approaching. She immediately turned off the screen and intuitively told me that Xiao Qin had something to hide.

▶ Seven
She went to take a bath. I saw a WeChat notification on Xiao Qin's phone. At that time, the screen was turned on for a few seconds. I can see the front team. I saw it was sent in English: you are so beautiful today
I picked up Xiao Qin's cell phone. I want to open the password and see the suspicious content inside. Unexpectedly, Xiao Qin wrapped a bath towel and ran out to get his mobile phone. I realized what was going on,Quickly grabbed her phone: "What are you hiding!"
She was very scared: "Return your phone to me." The more I say this, the more I want to know what the secret is. I directly enter the password, open it, and carefully read the text of the text message: you are so beautiful today, and I am very happy with you, looking forward to the next tenderness.
"Did you bring me a green hat? Who is this person?" I almost yelled. I was on the second floor, and my parents and children were on the first floor. My mother heard our quarrel. At this time, Xiao Qin was silent.
"Well, if you don't say anything, I will shoot a video with him." Xiao Qin grabbed my hand and knelt. "Don't ask. I'm sorry for you, I don't need to video. I take the initiative."
When I heard such an answer, I smashed her phone to pieces. My mother probably guessed: "You don't obey a woman's morality, sin, how can my son marry you? I'm sorry, my ancestors."
Mother is more difficult to accept than me. I told Xiao Qin to go that night, but she refused. I cried in the room alone. How have I felt in the past 12 years? How could she be so patient.

▶ Eight
During the few days of the Cold War, she begged me and my family to forgive her every day. Her son Binbin felt uncomfortable when he saw the emotions of his family and burst into tears in the middle of the night. I am afraid of affecting my children. Xiao Qin and I said, "If you don’t get a divorce, you can write a letter of guarantee that you will not contact this person again. Even if there is a business relationship, this is my greatest forgiveness."
Xiao Qin wrote a letter of guarantee, I Advise her to follow suit. I installed a locator in her car. As long as there is something abnormal, I will detect it.
Six months later, she did change. I thought she would change. Unexpectedly, I found her cheating for the second time.
I occasionally open her mobile phone WeChat, but I rarely check other software on her mobile phone.
One day, both my mobile phone and my mobile phone were turned off. I asked him to take Xiao Qin and give him the phone. He turned on the jitter directly and never played it at all.I thought, "Son, you've played mobile phones since you were young," Binbin said. "I saw my mother playing secretly. I don't know if it's funny? Mom often smiles and takes pictures."
▶ 九
I am very wary of tiktok to help my son find the photos, after some surgery , I found Xiao Qin chatting privately with a man in a jute voice. The two also took a video of themselves. The video is thin and carefully exposed.
This time I directly pulled Xiao Qin out of the computer. I slapped her: "Hongxing, why are you so shameless." She said that she hadn't cheated, so the two quarreled and Binbin cried.
The mother took her son away, but she kept yelling "Dad, Mom." She broke free. The sensible son said: "Don't fight. Our teacher said that we should talk about what we have and can't hit people."
I was sad for a while. She explained to me that they just talked and did not meet. The man who was pulling the black tiktok in front of him also unzipped.
I was silent for a month, shared a room with her, and rarely talked.
For the third time, in the middle of this year, I found out that she is ambiguous with her clients. The initial confidential work can be said to be perfect, but I will have a divorce plan, but I did not leave evidence for the first two times. This time, I hired someone to take photos of her cheating evidence.

▶ 十
Because I found Xiao Qin was more careful twice before. The guy applied for a job in their company. He found that Xiao Qin was vague about the customer, but nothing happened. On the contrary, he and his assistant are very close. Sometimes he went to work and didn't come out for a long time.
My head was split, and I asked the guy to find a way to get evidence. The reason they did this was that there were no cameras in the office. I asked that guy to secretly install a camera in a hidden place in Xiao Qin's office in the name of cleaning.
For fear of not being able to shoot, the boy installed a camera in a different location.
When everyone was not alert, the camera captured Xiao Qin's betrayal.
▶ November
This time I am ruthless.I edited a video directly, which was a bit civilized, but it was enough to embarrass her. I stayed with the rest. I asked that guy to send it to their company's WeChat group. Although this guy's department only has more than 10 cleaning and housework, it is enough to let the whole company know their shame.
At the same time, I submitted evidence to the court and filed a divorce lawsuit to fight for the custody of the child.
This time, even if Xiao Qin cried, I was not moved. I originally planned to let my parents take Binbin back to my hometown for a while. In any case, the kindergarten will be closed soon.
When I finish things, I will slowly take them home. I know it hurts my family and children, especially children.
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