True story｜A boyfriend who has been in love for 3 years and fell in love with a girlfriend at first sight, is it dog blood? Or is it true love?

Auntie, telling my story may be ridiculed, but for 8 years, I am living in regret for the vanity of a woman

recently, I heard about them Divide and recombine, and finally achieve a positive result, which makes me even more miserable. When I didn't let them meet, would the ending be different?

# 1

I don’t want to come out of the bar tonight. After breaking up with my friends, I found a hotel nearby. I sat on the windowsill and looked at the lights in the city. The whole city was bright and bright. "If I marry him, one of these should belong to us?", Tears flowed down thinking about it.

8 years ago, I heard that they were separated and reunited, and finally got married and got a good result, but I couldn't enter a relationship. As Zhang Ze said: Some people are destined to be the sun. As soon as he appears, the stars and moon will automatically become invisible.

"But he used to be my sun. How can anyone who has seen the rays of the sun accept the glimmer of the moon and stars?"

Yes, Zhang Ze is mine The sun, and An Qi is my nemesis. My happiness was destined to end the moment they met. Unlike the dog-blood plot where a girlfriend wins love, our story is simple and clean,It is also because of the simplicity and cleanliness that made me lose more thoroughly, and even failed.

To this day, I still face a huge question mark: If they fall in love at first sight, what am I?

#2

My name is Zhu Lidan. When I met Zhang Ze, I was 28 years old. It was an attractive moment of charm and youth. At that time, I had just graduated with a Ph.D. After a few rounds of fighting, I entered my favorite design institute as I wished and sought the post I had long desired.

After the completion of the work, I began to plan my lifelong event-to find a husband worthy of me for myself.

For this reason, I frequently participate in singles parties organized by our unit and other brother units. My idea is simple. Our unit is good and the brother units are not bad. The quality of single men who can participate will not be bad. It's a cost-effective blind date event.

That's it, I met Zhang Ze.

I have a habit of going early for every such activity. In order to occupy an ideal position, I can familiarize ourselves with the venue early, understand the situation of the male guests, and focus on attacking. When I met Zhang Ze, I arrived early as usual.

At that time, I was sitting in the corner drinking juice. Suddenly, the atmosphere of the venue changed slightly, and the noisy voices suddenly became quiet.

I couldn't help but look up to see what was going on.

#3

Just like this, I saw Zhang Ze standing at the door at a glance.

He wore a white casual suit with a dark coffee-colored pullover inside. The attire was simple and clean. He set off his thin figure with a special style. His facial features were not so handsome, but there was something unspeakable. The charm is very eye-catching.

Yes, at that time, I was firmly grasped by him, he was like a beam of light, shining into my heart, and the dazzling made me dizzy. After a brief silence, the noisy voices surged like a tide again.

The whispers at this time are all talking about a topic: Zhang Ze.

Soon, I know: He is a boy from a large courtyard in Henan, with a very background in his family, and he is the third generation of G with roots. In his early 30s this year, he has a rich love history and no real girlfriend. A typical playboy who has been in love for no more than half a year. The most recent "Glorious" love story is a sweet and lovely nurse. After breaking up with him, he fell into depression and almost committed suicide. He made a lot of noise in the circle of acquaintances.

In the end, this noisy ended with: Who can win such G three generations.

#4

At that time I thought: it must be me.

28-year-old me, beautiful person, good background, high education, good work unit, innocent love history.

I think I beat those women who "failed to win Zhang Ze" by more than one level.

So, I stepped on high heels and walked towards Zhangze.

Of course, just passing by Zhangze. I walked straight to a friend next to Zhang Ze. I greeted him warmly, greeted him, and asked him if he saw the beauty he liked.

He wittily introduced Zhang Ze to me, so I met Zhang Ze and added WeChat to each other.

After that, as I expected, Zhang Ze noticed me that day, so it was logical that after a few overnight talks, Zhang Ze invited me to go on a short trip together. At that time, after I received the invitation, I rebuffed a few words and readily agreed.

That time, I took out the highest level of my emotional intelligence and talked and laughed with Zhang Ze.

In the evening, the two of them went back to the hotel after playing, and Zhang Ze went straight to the front desk to check in. Within a few minutes, he came over and gave me a room card, and said gently: You 502, I 503, live next door to you.

I smiled: okay, I will knock on the wall if something happens.

Actually, I feel a little disappointed.

#5

In this way, the first solo trip with Zhang Ze is over.

My relationship with him did not develop in the direction I expected, but everyone around me knew that Zhang Ze was chasing me.

also said that I was attractive, and I was fascinated by Young Master Zhang, but I was the only one who complained secretly in my heart.

I think Zhang Ze should have heard the wind, but he is not in a hurry. If he should invite me to dinner, he will take me to dinner. If he wants to ask me out to play, he will ask me to go out. Gradually, I started to reject him slowly, about 3 times, but once, but I didn't say anything about it. I just said that I was busy with work, and I would call back next time.

Now think about it, he is not tempting enough.

When I meet a woman who is tempted, how can I have such a mind to play a game of grappling?

But, I love this man so much, I want him. After so many pulls, I gradually broke into Zhang's circle, and I went to the hall to see his parents and grandparents. So naturally, I started to walk in and out of his home, go shopping with his mother, and make beauty. Chat with his grandpa and play chess...

In the end, I won the support of his family and Zhang Ze.

#6

When Zhang Ze asked if I could be his girlfriend, I cried with excitement. Hugging him, crying and laughing in his arms.

He smiled and wiped my tears, and he used his fingers to straighten my hair, comforting me softly: fool.

That night, I gave my first time. Afterwards, he stared at the red on the bed sheet, smoked a cigarette, held my hand tightly, and said: Unexpectedly.

In this way, I became Zhang Ze’s girlfriend. I thought we would always be together and get married naturally. Then, give birth to a pair of cute babies, call him father, call me mother.

However, when An Qi appeared, she did nothing and easily overthrew everything I had worked so hard on.

Who is Angel?

An Qi is my high school classmate, a real Bai Fumei. Her parents went to the sea to do business in the 1990s and quickly gathered wealth. Now there are thousands of employees in Chengdu, and she is also very capable, herself A female CEO in charge of a company.

On that day, she sent me a WeChat message, saying that she was broken in love and wanted to come over to relax. Ask me if I can make the best of the landlord's friendship.

I have no reason to refuse, and I am very happy.

#7

On the one hand, I am happy to meet my old classmates, and on the other hand, I have Zhang Ze.

Women’s friendships have components of comparison, and An Qi is a shadow on my head throughout the high school. No matter what I do, I can’t surpass her. She is the goddess recognized by the teachers and students in the school,School flowers. The grades are good, and I have never dropped out of the top ten in the school. Can also sing and dance, can piano, paint, and be versatile.

But now, she is broken in love, but I have Zhang Ze.

If time can be reversed, I will definitely not let them meet, but there is no regret medicine in the world.

When I happily cheered Zhang Ze and me to pick up the plane that day, the first time Zhang Ze saw An Qi, I knew I was finished.

Zhang Ze is restrained and restrained, and rarely leaks his emotions, but when he saw An Qi, I clearly felt his eyes light up. Sure enough, before An Qi returned to Chengdu, Zhang Ze couldn't wait to show off with me. He stared at my eyes and spoke to me in a solemn tone that is very strange to me. He said: Dandan, I'm sorry. I fell in love with An Qi at first sight. I cannot lie to you or myself. I must be single again and pursue An Qi innocently.

I was shaking with anger and asked him: What are our three years?

He said: Dandan, if there is no Angel, we might go on, but now it's different. We must be honest in dealing with feelings.

But, when he was with me, was he honest?

【Lemon Auntie Comment】

Zhu Lidan's eyes were still in a trance, she said: Is this a dream, but for me, it is a nightmare. Over the past 8 years, I have repeatedly asked myself if Zhang Ze didn’t let Zhang Ze meet An Qi, if she didn’t fall in love with Zhang Ze at first sight...

8 years later, Zhu Lidan’s dream has not yet woken up.

She said that when she broke up, she didn't entangle too much, because she fell in love with Zhang Ze at first sight, and she knew very well what it was like. She said that her pride made her unable to accept Zhang Ze by her side, but her heart was on other women.

Zhang Ze also gave Zhu Dan strong support and help as compensation for their breakup.

In this regard, Zhu Lidan said that Zhang Ze's family is decent.

Now Zhu Lidan is 38 years old and is still alone.

After writing this story, there will be readers who will ask, right? How can there be love at first sight in this era? Could this be a story made up by Zhang Ze to get rid of Zhu Lidan?

The truth is, you haven't encountered it but there must be.

For the third generation of G like Zhang Ze,When there is power and no need to worry about livelihood, the pursuit of spiritual love will be more critical and pure, and also extra serious.

This is also the reason why he broke up with Julidan promptly. He is not worried about gains or losses, and is more loyal to his own feelings.

The follow-up development is that Zhang Ze and An Qi have been separated and combined for 8 years. In 2020, they will finally become partners, and they will achieve positive results. My aunt has seen Zhang Ze and An Qi's group photo, they are very eye-catching, they are a pair of bi people.

It just seems unfair to Zhu Lidan.

But, how can there be any fairness in things like love? You know, Love has always been your wish. How can there be any thing that comes first? Besides, if you get a divorce when you get married, no one can guarantee that you will regain your head when you fall in love.

There is no way to condemn Zhang Zeshi's chaos and abandonment. It can be said that he is scum, but he is also honest enough: for love, first restore singleness and then pursue happiness. This is respect for Zhu Lidan, respect for An Qi, and respect for true love. From this point of view, he is much more orthodox than many men who have cheated in marriage and love cheating.

For this love accident,If I have to say something, my aunt sent that old saying: fireproof, anti-theft and anti-girlfriend.

Sincerely, love between men and women is like a fire and dry wood, the difference is just the right opportunity to burn the flames, even if it is not love at first sight like Zhang Ze and An Qi, then both girlfriends and girlfriends men are in need Be careful, because best friends hear more about their own men from their good friends, they will probably have indirect understanding and curiosity, coupled with inexplicable comparisons and jealousy between women, and frequent opportunities Contact is simply not too convenient to wipe the gun and escape the opportunity.

So the famous big V Yan Gongzi will say that every time he gets a new boyfriend, he will warn his sister Tao: I will be the rules. Otherwise, we will all have a hard time. Although there is exaggeration and joking, it contains a certain truth.

If you want the thief not to worry about it and not let the thief make mistakes, what should I do?

We are not exposed. Fire-proof, anti-theft and anti-girlfriend.

Finally, I would like to advise Zhu Lidan: Don’t be addicted to the past, and be brave to love, as if you have never been hurt.

This looks like a sentence of chicken soup,But if it can warm people's heart, why not take a sip?

I wish Zhu Lidan out of the shadow of this love accident as soon as possible and find his own love.

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*About the author: Aunt Lemon, has been engaged in emotional observation and analysis for more than 10 years, loves reading and thinking, I like to ponder about human nature, love, marriage, and the world. I don’t want to do anything but preach, and speak the truth soberly.

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