The acquaintance between Jiang Chenghao and I was caused by an accident.
That night, I worked overtime until 10 o'clock to go home, and when I passed a remote path, my bag was snatched by a robber.
Just when I was panicked and didn't know what to do, Jiang Chenghao appeared in his little eDonkey.
He wittily led the robber to the police station, the robber was arrested, and I took my bag back.
His appearance at that time seemed to me like a supreme treasure driving a colorful auspicious cloud.
At that time, I said several thanks to him in succession.
He smiled and said, "If you really want to thank me, please invite me to dinner."
I handed him one of my business cards, and said that after two days I'm done, I will invite him to dinner.
But because I was too busy, I almost forgot about it.
About a week later, I received a call before I got off work.
The voice on the other end of the phone is a very nice male voice, with a hint of grievance. "Didn't you say you want to invite me to dinner? I didn't even wait for your call. I'm downstairs in your office now. It's better to choose another day. Hit the sun."
I looked out the window and saw a young man standing beside the big locust tree downstairs, it was Jiang Chenghao.
Because of the light that night, I didn't get a good look at his appearance, but now I see that he is still pretty good-looking.
All in casual clothes, tall and thin, with sharp eyebrows and sword eyebrows.
My heart throbbed, picked up the bag and walked on.
During the conversation, I learned that he is an editor of a magazine and his hometown is from the countryside.
He is the boss, with two younger brothers and a younger sister behind him.
Because his family is poor, he takes home most of his monthly income.
My liking for him has improved again, and I am brave to do what is righteous, and be filial to the Gu family. He is really a good man.
After eating that day, he rushed to pay, but I thought this was originally a meal to thank him.
Think about what he said just now in order to help the family, the life is so hard, it is estimated that he usually finds it difficult to eat such a meal.
So I said, "I will pay, and when you have more money, please call me back."
He rubbed his hands in embarrassment, nodded and agreed.
Then we fell in love.
He told me that he fell in love with me at first sight. When he saw me that night, he felt that I was the girl he had been waiting for.
My salary is higher than him, and I have no family burden.
When we are together, I basically pay for all the expenses.
At first, he would rush to pay, but because every time I paid and ended up, he would not rob me, so I paid for it for granted.
Once I chatted with my friends, and they all said that men were reluctant to spend money for a woman, indicating that they did not love this woman enough.
When I went out for dinner with Jiang Chenghao again, and when it was time to check out, I saw his indifferent appearance, and I had a pimple in my heart.
He seemed to see my unhappiness that day, and he apologized and said to me "Xiao Wei, I'm sorry, my mother is ill. I need money during this period, so I am nervous."
Next time we Don't come out to eat, I'll cook for you.
Hearing his explanation, I was relieved.
Such a filial man, how could he be wrong to me if he stays with me in the future?
That day, he said he would go to my house to cook.
I bought a lot of vegetables and returned. Originally, I didn’t expect him to make delicious dishes.
But when I saw him wearing an apron standing in the kitchen busy, the warm yellow light was shining on him, the whole picture is When that kind of warmth, my heart is filled with infinite warmth.
The most annoying thing in my daily life is cooking.I often settle for a meal with a pack of instant noodles or order a takeaway, but because of him, I suddenly feel at home.
When he put a delicious dish on the table, I passionately hugged his waist from behind "Thank you for cooking for me.
Jiang Chenghao turned around and placed it on my forehead A kiss "It's an honor to be able to cook for the woman I love.
Love always makes people lose all judgment, makes people lose their minds, and makes people feel impulsive.
We only talked about love for half a year before we got married.
I get off work late every day. He will cook the food the next time he goes home.
At first, I thought this kind of life was so happy.
Isn’t it often said on the Internet that if a man is willing to cook for a woman, that is to put this woman on the tip of his heart.
But it’s been a long time. I think that every meal he cooks contains very little meat in
, sometimes only minced meat.
Moreover, the oil is very little, in short, it is very light.
I said "Honey, I haven't seen meat for a long time.
But he said, "Eating so much at night is not good for your health. Eating less can also keep your slim figure."
I couldn’t help it that day. Before going to work, I woke up early and went to the vegetable market to buy shrimp, meat, and chicken. The dinner that day was the most satisfying meal I had eaten in so long.
But I had to hurry up for several mornings. I felt too tired. So, I gave him 1,000 yuan a month for food. I said, "You do more housework than me, and you cook every day. I didn’t Time, I will pay.
Since I paid him food, the food at home has been greatly improved.
I bought all the fruits. If I don't buy it, it is absolutely impossible to see a trace of the fruit.
But every month at the end of the month, I start to eat vegetarian food again in the evening.
I was a little angry and asked him that day, "Your monthly salary is more than 6000.We have been married for several months, and I have never used a penny of your money. Why are you not willing to spend money on buying meat? Where do you spend your money?
Jiang Chenghao looked down slightly and said, "My brother will get married next year, and I promised my dad to pay to redecorate the house. "
When I heard this, I was furious, "You didn't buy a house by yourself, and now you want to save money to help your brother buy a house?"
He sighed and said, "My situation, didn't you know everything before getting married?" "
I opened my mouth, and I was speechless.
I thought his savings and family care were a manifestation of a strong sense of responsibility, but I did not expect that his sense of responsibility was only for his parents. Brother, there is no me.
Thinking back to our life from love to marriage, I suddenly feel ridiculous because I only realize this until now.
Every time we go to the supermarket to buy something to check out, he always stands there By the shelf next to the checkout counter, it seems to be picking goods.
He won’t come and pick up things until I have paid the money.
One weekend, I suddenly wanted to eat dragon fruit, so I just wanted to. He called and asked him to go to work, and asked him to come back and help me buy it.
But he said, "Tomorrow we will go out and buy it again. I'm already downstairs now.
I thought about it at the time and directly sent him a red envelope of 50 yuan.
He accepted it, and then asked me "other than dragon fruit, what else do you want to eat?"
and I told him heartlessly to buy another watermelon.
The house we live in was previously bought by me, and I also paid for the utility bill.
Every month, he always pays The list was placed in front of me and said, "This month's water and electricity, you have time to hand in. "It seems that only I can do the payment.
And every time I go home to visit my parents, I prepare a gift in advance and ask him to carry it to my parents.
Sometimes I say he is stingy, and he says aggrieved. "You are the only daughter in your family, how can you feel that I am the boss. In order to save money,Sometimes I can only save 5 yuan in travel expenses, and I walk sweaty.
On that day, my mother accidentally fell off the stairs and suffered a serious injury.
The surgeon said that because the cost of the operation was more expensive, he had to pay a portion of the money first.
At that time, I didn’t have enough money. Now, my money is all done in the bank for financial management. If I want to withdraw it, I have to go to the counter to do it. I don’t want to waste time queuing.
So I asked him to use mobile banking to transfer money directly, but he said, "I have already deposited for 5 days. If I take it out today, I will lose a lot of interest. Anyway, your money will be taken out to you. Mom pays for the medical bill, so take it now.
I looked at him in shock, "Your interest is more important than my mother?" Is it more important than our relationship between husband and wife? "
He said frankly, "Your mother is hurt, you can stay aside, my mother is sick, I can only send money back, if I don't even give the money, my mother will not support me in vain ? The situation in my house, you..."
is that old saying again, I don’t want to listen to it anymore. Before he finished speaking, I turned around and left.
I called my girlfriend I borrowed 30,000 yuan and said that after my mother finished the operation, I would withdraw the money and pay her back in a few days. Give me back the money.
When I need someone to help me most, my friends are actually more useful than the person next to my pillow.
When I looked at Jiang Chenghao again at that moment, my heart was cold.
And let me make a decision The decision to divorce was when my mother was discharged from the hospital. The company sent me on a business trip.
The day I arrived at the airport, I found that there was a very important document at home.
Because it was noon, I thought Jiang Chenghao should be at home, so I called He asked him to call and send it for me.
But he said that he was in the work unit to rush the manuscript and could not go home.
In desperation,I had to let the colleague who was off work rush back to the company, find the document from my computer, print it out, and send it to me at the airport.
Fortunately, I arrived at the airport a long time earlier that day, otherwise it would be troublesome.
At night in the hotel, I chatted with my girlfriend on WeChat. She said that she went to find someone near my house at noon. She happened to meet Jiang Chenghao. Seeing him hurried on the way, she told him to ignore it.
I immediately understood that he refused to come and send me the documents, not because he didn't have time, but because he was afraid of paying the cost of printing.
I retrieved his avatar from WeChat and posted a sentence "I will get divorced when I go back."
The couple are married and they are a family, but some men always do not treat their wives as their own. .
In his opinion, only people who are related by blood are relatives, and wives are always outsiders.
Jiang Chenghao obviously belongs to this type of man. A man who allows his wife to spend money is generous, and spending his own money is like cutting meat. Such a man should leave early.
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