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What should I do if my girlfriend says "love is not all of me" when dating?
What moved me was the personal experience of the following woman.
She proposed to break up and dissected her own heart. In the face of love and future, she chose reason and future.
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her boyfriend responded like this.
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and the ending is:
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is really touched On the mature and rational side, when his girlfriend proposed to break up, he did not show anger or frustration, but rather calm.
This man did: listen to his girlfriend and appreciate his girlfriend’s feelings and needs. At the same time, while listening to his girlfriend, he also listened to himself and found the source of inner strength. Not only did he discover a better self, but also let him The girlfriend sees a better self, and the two rush towards happiness together.
Listening is really important. When we encounter something, we must first calm down, not be impulsive, listen to each other, and listen to ourselves.
In fact, listening to yourself is more important, because in family education, the most important thing is personal growth. In the process of growing up, if you can listen to yourself and understand your inner desires, you can have a clearer direction.Know what to do and what not to do.
We live in this world, we don’t live for others, so don’t care too much about others’ opinions, love ourselves, and make ourselves happier and more comfortable. Only when we are happy and comfortable can we bring people around us Happy and comfortable.
We can listen to ourselves anytime and anywhere, such as when we have a certain negative emotion, when our career is at a trough, when our feelings are frustrated, we can all listen, listen to our heart, and help ourselves find the answer.
To listen is to ask yourself questions and then answer. When I first started to learn to listen, I used to draw an iceberg map,
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. When we think layer by layer, we are actually healing ourselves, this The process is to let us recognize our deep-seated needs and understand our true desires behind this emotion at the moment.
When we learn to listen to ourselves, we can become very calm and calm.
Just like I was very impatient and anxious before, it was difficult to calm down when encountering things. Later I learned to practice. After a few years, I am now peaceful and tolerant. Of course, these are not achievable within three or two days. We need us Learn to meditate and listen.
Enjoy life with peace of mind, and live a lifetime with grace!
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