Life is long, the pace of society is too fast, and the pressure of life is too great. Everyone is eager to meet their soul mate, to have common ideals and three views, and to walk hand in hand on the long road of life. A person is too lonely and bitter, but the ideal is beautiful, but the reality is cruel. Some people are still alone after looking for it, and never meet the right person.
And in life, everyone also has their own view of marriage and love. Some people are pursuing love, while others are buddhist mentality and an attitude of recklessness, especially for those who love to play. I feel that falling in love is a troublesome thing. After all, I have to worry about the feelings of the other person. Marriage is a prison that restricts freedom. But as I grow older, the eyes of the people around me and the pressure of my parents will also make myself uncomfortable. Make no choice.
Wang Qian is 34 years old this year. In the eyes of others, she is a proper older leftover girl. In fact, Wang Qian's own conditions are not bad, and many people have pursued them before, but they also Because of her playful nature, she is reluctant to fall in love, and she does not want to enter marriage too early, so that she becomes a "leftover fighter".
Her circle of friends is always playing and checking in everywhere. Although the life is comfortable and enviable, it is impossible to be single for a lifetime. Later, at the urging of her parents, she also had to embark on it. On the blind date, he also met Xu Yang. Xu Yang is one year older than her. He spends his energy and time on work. In addition, he has too few opposite sexes in his circle, so he has remained single and two people. After the meeting, he was also very concerned about Wang Qian.
Wang Qian also has some good feelings for Xu Yang, so I wanted to get along with him for a while. During these days, Wang Qian took Xu Yang to many places, and the distance between the two seemed to be Wang Qian is also very satisfied with it.Until the National Day approached, Wang Qian was about to ask Xu Yang to play again, but what she didn't expect was that Xu Yang, who had always been obedient to herself, refused this time.
Faced with Wang Qian’s invitation, Xu Yang said: We are adults and we are going on a blind date. The purpose of the blind date is to get married, but you are always playing, and we know three It’s been many months, but the relationship hasn’t even been determined yet. You can’t say anything about it, just enjoy the happiness of the moment. I have to suspect that you are using me as a shield to deal with your parents. If that’s the case. Then I won’t accompany you. I went on a blind date to get married, not to consume each other with you. If I can talk, I can’t stop here.
After listening to Xu Yang’s complaint, Wang Qian also understood his thoughts. For him, feelings are not important, marriage is the goal, so that night, Wang Qian took the initiative to propose After ending the relationship between the two people, she felt that there was no emotion in the marriage. It was just getting married, and she didn't feel that she had done anything wrong. Wouldn't it be good to keep the distance between each other while playing? What's more, not sure about a romantic relationship is also a small test for the other party, but unfortunately the other party can't understand it. In that case, it is better to get together and get together.
But in Xu Yang’s view, the ages of the two of them are there. It is really hard to waste. The pressure from the parents to urge the marriage, the eyes of the people around, I also want to have a home, and after marriage You have to have a child. I really can't afford to wait. If the other party can be sure that the relationship is okay, but he can't see any hope, it will simply come to a showdown.
In life, everyone has their own view of marriage and love, and they cannot force others to understand themselves, nor can they easily change the minds of others. If you want to walk hand in hand, you can only talk about it and have more of each other. Point tolerance,To talk about love and marriage, but some people are too pursuing the supremacy of love, often ignoring realistic factors, and not treating their feelings properly, and eventually miss the right person.
Tolstoy once said: People are destined to be lonely, but we come to this world, in fact, no one is willing to walk through this life alone, we all hope to have a partner to accompany ourselves and experience the wind of life together Ups and downs. Although love is desirable, it pays too much attention to your own feelings and ignores the needs of others. It is also difficult to find the person you like. Love is not perfect. Marriage is a choice made by all parties after weighing the pros and cons. When you meet the person you like, you must take good care of it, and don't wait for the loss and regret it. #愛情# #爱情麻辣烫# #愛情書#
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