Everyone has a lot of friends around them. Everyone is working hard for life, the same is running around. Everyone's living conditions are completely different. Some people have struggled and have a monthly income of more than 10,000. Some people are plain and earn 3,000 a month. You stay up all night every day, work hard, and finally get a satisfying salary. At this time, you may have encountered such a situation, that is, there is always a person around you whose income is not as good as yours, but one day you find that the person next to you has not made much effort, but the salary has risen a lot, immediately catching up with you or even surpassing you . At this time, do you have such a mentality-hope that his salary will not increase, maintain the original level, or even decrease.
When you have this kind of psychology, it is actually very easy to understand. That's why I worked so hard, and in the end I was not as good as him or the gap between him and him was so small? At this time, your heart is very unbalanced and full of puzzles.
Now you clear your mind, think about it, why do you compare with him? Does anyone compare to you? According to Zhang Sandai, there are two possibilities, one, Zhang San is to compare with you, but since Zhang San compares you, it means that you are worthy, he envy you, and he wants to catch up with you; 2. Zhang San fundamentally I never thought about comparing with you. His salary increase is simply luck or hard work. Is it meaningless to make your own comparisons without authorization?
You have gotten a salary that you are satisfied with, but because of your own psychological reasons, you have blocked yourself. You got the goal you expected, shouldn't you be happy? When others are happy for you, only you are sad.
As the old saying goes, contentment is always happy. That's how it is said, but everyone wants a higher income and a better life. At this time, you have to think about who you live your life for, and who your life is for you. Only you know whether you are comfortable or happy, right?
Just keep working hard, life will definitely get better and better, life is already very tired, enjoy the fruits of hard work, don’t compare yourself, and why don’t you compare with better people, others will not Will you have the same ideas as you?
gradually understood that
's hard work is actually a state of life, and
is not meant to surpass others.
Instead, give yourself an explanation,
Live hard, work hard, and be happy.
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