The number of bachelors in rural areas has increased year by year, people have no choice but to become reality, and Chinese-style relations have begun to change.

Do many of us, especially those in rural areas, feel this way?

means that there are more and more bachelors in the village, and the taste of the year is getting less and less, and even some people don’t want to go back for a new year. The most discussed issues during the festival are:

1. Yiyue It's proud to get married when you are young, which proves a person's power.

Ask young people (people who are not married) if they have any girlfriends. If yes, when are you going to get married, hurry up, there are not many girls now!

(In their eyes, the so-called love issue is never considered, everything is inherited from generation to generation, so now many young people get married, they do not have any love, most of them have made do with it. , The divorce rate is also increasing year by year)

2. Proud of wealth, colored glasses, rich is a cow! Many students have no money, saying that it’s useless to read so many books and they don’t see much money all year round!

In their eyes, as long as you have money, you are a cow. Even if you don’t give him (her) any benefit, or even a little stingy, they will admire you very much. You are so awesome to meet you, and admire you. It's like a surging river... You don’t have money and you read a lot. Although they don’t know it clearly, you read that so-and-so. There are so many books. Now they are mixed up like this.... In addition, the children in their own family will read so much if they are not good at reading. It's useless...Look if XX graduated from elementary school and came back with a Mercedes-Benz or BMW!

(Reading is useless, why do you want your child to go to school, can't pass the exam to a better school, let him go in if you put money in it. Shameless [泪奔], this is not me Blowing, this is really the case)

3. Live a very realistic life. I can’t evaluate this as a person.There is no way, every family has sutras that are difficult to recite!

Nowadays, many people are living very realistically, so the New Year has no taste. Let’s talk about one of my classmates or relatives. He went out after graduating from junior high school. At that time, I just graduated from college and didn’t have much money. He asked one day I borrowed the money and said that I would pay it back in two months. I thought it was a classmate and a relative. My monthly salary was a few thousand yuan, so I directly borrowed four thousand yuan from him. Then I didn’t pay it back in two months. After asking for a long time, I returned a thousand yuan. After the three thousand yuan, every time I asked, I said that I would pay it back next month. In the end, I didn’t pay it back for four years. I deleted my friend directly. Two months became four years away indefinitely. It’s still next month. Well!

(So reality makes people more realistic, asking someone to help you, this person is really good. Helping you is love, not helping you is your duty, don’t always feel like others If you don’t help you, you can do whatever you want. It’s you and you don’t necessarily know how to help. Every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite. Sometimes borrowing money will lose a relative and friend. I don’t want to take it back anymore. Look at your own abilities and you can borrow it)

Chinese-style relationships are changing

Nowadays, many relationships are laughter, not from the heart, many of them are fake Laughter, just like the service industry, some laughter is compelling.

I was very poor when I was young, but very happy, and the New Year and the New Year holidays are even happier! I have food and clothes when I grow up, but I don’t feel happy!

I did not want to enter the world, but I do not know that I am already in the world! I hope tomorrow will be better, live every day first!

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