to your favorite girl’s WeChat account, what will you do first? Hush! Give you three seconds, think about it. I believe most boys will say "look at her circle of friends". But, do you really understand? I know that many Tiezi's so-called "look at the circle of friends" is to go through other people's photos, take a group photo and take a selfie without letting it go, and each one must be put to the largest size to make it clear.
Well, you are awesome! Looking at the circle of friends is not just looking at the surface, what kind of character is this girl? What is the current relationship situation? Is she going to chase? Is it worth chasing? It can be seen through the circle of friends. In today's article, Li Zi will teach the veterans how to read the female circle of friends. As long as you understand, you can get twice the result with half the effort and use the fastest method to catch the most correct person.
The first type: Self-portrait Moments
Many girls like to post selfies in Moments, which does not explain much. However, there is also a difference between selfies and selfies. Some girls are cheerful, simple and cute, and they like to share the big things and small affections in life on their circle of friends: take beautiful selfies and post them, eat delicious food and post them, and post cute cats, dogs, and dogs.
This kind of girl is usually more sunny and confident, their world is simple and full, and there is a high probability-no boyfriend! Solo is very possible for mothers and fetuses. If you have such a girl in your circle of friends, what are you waiting for, feel free to rush forward. but! If their selfies are very delicate, don't rush. Let's take a look first.
is different from the colorful themes above. This kind of girl’s circle of friends has and only self-portraits, and each one is full of big eyes and thin face. The exquisite but basically the same Jiugongge makes you can’t bear it. I want to have a game of fun. It seems that you can always get her selfies,But I close my eyes, but I can't remember what she looks like.
This kind of girl is confident or not confident enough about her appearance, Li Zi can't realize it, but it is certain that they want to be affirmed by others. If you want to chase them, a wave of rainbow farts is definitely indispensable, but compliments must also be skillful. Words like "really beautiful" and "really beautiful" are meaningless.
The second type: fishing circle of friends
In addition, there is also a self-portrait that makes people spurt in minutes. They either wear tights and take a photo with their hips in the gym; or take a selfie with the mirror in a bathrobe in a hotel; or wear a cool short skirt in a bar or nightclub with a perfect S-curve. open. This... is no longer a selfie-type circle of friends, properly fishing circle of friends.
The so-called fishing circle of friends refers to the circle of friends carefully released by some scum girls to manage their fish ponds. Each of them has a point and a deep meaning. To put it bluntly, such a circle of friends is more like a marketing method for them. Sexy photos are their bait, and high-level and exquisite life is their packaging. The ambiguous copywriting triggers endless reverie and creates a kind of unreachable for you. , And the illusion of being close at hand.
They seem to never have to work, but live a life of worry-free food and clothing. They seem to have always been single, but they always have a steady stream of high-quality suitors. Do you dare to chase a girl of this kind, little brother? Of course, not all the scumbags who suggest that they are single in the circle of friends are scumbags. Some people, she is really single!
The third kind: want to leave the single circle of friends
if you make a mistake,They will not be able to receive the love signal from them, and miss the chance to get out of the singles in vain. For example, they will post a circle of friends on the New Year's Eve, "This year is another New Year's Eve this year", and then add a beautiful but slightly lonely photo. Or, they will transform into lemon essence on days like 520 and say "what is 520, isn't it Sunday".
Needless to say, you can feel that she wants to fall in love through the screen, right? At night, in the dead of night, they became the masters of scar literature , the online emo network Yiyun. "After all, one person takes everything", "I never drink too much because I know no one will take care of me", "Suddenly discovered that my loneliness has nothing to do with others", maybe you will find them the next day It has been ruthlessly deleted, but it cannot change the psychology of such girls who want to be cared and loved.
They often show negative emotions in the circle of friends, but occasionally they also have some self-motivating chicken soup, which fully shows that such girls are very insecure. Therefore, those who like this kind of girl must give her a sense of security and comfort when she is fragile. In layman's terms, it is-to take advantage of the emptiness to enter.
For example, if you see a girl post a depressed circle of friends at night, you can directly chat with her and ask her if she has any troubles. Girls are willing to talk. If you do, you can listen to her troubles first, help her to smooth out her emotions, and then give advice.
But be careful, if she posts something that you don’t understand at all, such as an ambiguous sentence, a very suggestive song, a picture without a protagonist and full of artistic conception. That’s obvious,She was sent to specific people, so you don't have to charge and be cannon fodder.
analyzed so many kinds of circle of friends, I know that some old iron can't wait to say that sentence that has been holding back for a long time: the girl I like does not post to circle of friends at all. Come and come, how could Lizi forget such an important class of people? If the girl you like rarely posts in Moments, or the settings are only visible for three days, or even close Moments.
Don’t be afraid, we also have a way. As long as the skill is deep, there is no one who can't tease, it's just that the degree of difficulty is higher. Why do you say that? First, you have to clarify a message. When a girl closes her circle of friends, she closes her social window. This means that she probably has no love needs.
Either she already has a stable partner and the people she likes are by her side. Naturally, she doesn't need to share her daily life through the circle of friends, let alone show herself and attract the opposite sex. There is another kind. Although she does not have a boyfriend, her own life is sufficiently fulfilled. At this stage of life, they are busy studying to improve themselves, busy in career pioneering, dating and making friends is not the focus of her life.
Of course, it is also possible that she just doesn't post to Moments and is very active on other social media. Regardless of the reason, we don't need to go into it, the best way is to talk about it as an opening topic. Just because they don't like to post in Moments, it doesn't mean that they are not easy to get along with and reject others thousands of miles away. To pursue this type of girl, we can start with friends. Talk to her privately from time to time, find your common topic as soon as possible, and wait until she puts down your guard, you can invite you in time to further upgrade the relationship.
The words written at the end
are the same as the avatar and signature,The circle of friends is the first window for us to understand girls, and making good use of this window is like getting on a love express train all the way to the hearts of girls. But if you turn a blind eye and blindly guess and touch, the result can be imagined. In many cases, the difference between you and the caring person lies in this little bit. Brothers, listen to my sister's advice, love is such a beautiful thing, we can use our skill to stop using brute force.
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Author | Huang Lizi Ye
First Psychological Chief Writing Group Consultant | Senior Emotional Tutor | Best-selling columnist
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