Do not kiss the family, break the bones and connect the tendons.
Parents and siblings should be the closest people in the world, because they are connected by blood, close to each other, and a sibling, they are destined to be the most destined people in the world.
It is said that the tiger brothers, the father and son soldiers; family members should unite as one, hug each other, care and help each other, foreigners dare not despise and bully.
In real life, not only do some brothers and sisters have conflicts, they even become enemies, wishing you to live or die; what’s more, some parents and children are not in the water, there is nothing in the water. Affection.
The most regrettable and hateful thing in the world is that father and son have turned against each other. Brothers and sisters become enemies, and they don’t want to see each other, and they will die forever.
The reason why relatives are not united and conflicted is often because the bowl of water in the parental relationship is uneven. Between brothers and sisters, some people are too selfish, which will cause other brothers. The dissatisfaction and resentment of the sisters caused emotional hurt and indifference to family affection.
Freezing three feet is not a day’s cold. The dissatisfaction and resentment in the heart accumulate for a long time, and one day it will explode. Once the brothers and sisters tear their faces and no longer care about family relationships, they will become indifferent. And ruthless, even worse than a stranger, this is the saddest thing in life.
The most important thing between relatives is selfishness.Regardless of other people's feelings; and if you want to maintain the affection between family members, you must do these three words: don't care.
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If you want to maintain the relationship between your loved ones, don't care about the gains and losses.
People in this world are selfish. Even with the closest people, some people tend to put their own interests first.
In the face of selfish relatives, if you care about the gains and losses of your interests, you will feel angry and dissatisfied. Once conflicts and conflicts occur, the family relationship will be separated, and perhaps the relationship will never return to the past. NS.
Brothers and sisters are not always generous when they have a good life, sometimes they are not so stingy and stingy if they don’t have money; don’t expect anything that needs to be spent together. Relatives who live wealthy pay more. Everyone is the same brother and sister. If you live poorly, you have to share your responsibilities like others.
between brothers and sisters, don't care about the gains and losses of each other's interests, you have more money to help your brothers and sisters who do not have money, regardless of how much you give, will there be unity and kindness between relatives;
If you think about giving your brothers and sisters a gift of 100 yuan,And the other party only gave you a gift of 50 yuan. If you are unhappy or even careless, it will be difficult to communicate with relatives. Don't always feel that you have suffered a loss. Once the family relationship is lost, you will not be able to buy it back for much money.
The unity and friendship between brothers and sisters always requires someone to make tolerance, concessions and sacrifices; in order to be united and friendly among relatives, someone always needs to pretend to be deaf and dumb, and self-defeating Be a fool; if the relatives are too shrewd, no one is willing to suffer, there will be no family affection.
If family affection is tied to interest, and everyone uses their own calculations, family affection will not last too long.
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There is a saying: filial piety is the first of all things, no matter what the heart is, there is no filial son in the poor.
Be filial to your parents, and your children should rely on their own conscience. As the saying goes, "You have money and you can do your best." The money you spend for your parents is a reward and gratitude to your parents. Don't think of yourself as a parent. If you spend money, but other brothers and sisters spend less, they feel unbalanced and even look down on them.
There are many ways to show filial piety to your parents,You spend money for your parents to be filial, to work hard for your parents is to be filial, to accompany your parents to solve problems for your parents, to make your parents happy is also to be filial; brothers and sisters, after all, live rich and poor, don’t take your own The standard measures other brothers and sisters.
filial piety to your parents is your own responsibility and obligation. Even if some brothers and sisters don’t spend a penny, don’t get angry at all. If you are not filial, it’s useless to get angry. You can argue with him , He will definitely not think that he is wrong, and will treat you as an enemy; believing that even if he is alone, he will not let his parents be wronged, it is the true filial piety and his own virtue.
In many families, there are many brothers and sisters who want their parents to endure hunger, live badly, and even sleep on the streets and never die because they treat their parents. Too much care, but completely forgot his responsibilities and filial piety, and forgot how his parents worked hard to raise themselves.
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In the face of your parents, don't worry too much.
There is a saying: Parents in the world, facing your parents, don’t care too much, just think about their kindness, even if your parents have not treated you well or even done you wrong. What's wrong, you have to learn to let go and forgive.
Without our parents, there would be no life; when our parents brought us into this world, we have all our possibilities.
Not all parents in this world are fair, parents also have their own selfishness and preference; some parents prefer boys to girls; some parents will be particularly partial to a certain child, and some parents are even especially towards you It’s not good. I even beat you and scolded you to look down on you, causing you to have pain and resentment, but in any case, the fact that they are your parents can’t be changed.
The relationship between adults and their parents is always dependent on and warm to each other; it is the norm to treat parents with gratitude to their parents; to be able to repay grievances with virtue, influence parents, and repair the relationship with their parents. It is one's own cultivation and morality.
Parents are not saints, they also have their own shortcomings and faults; family affection is not like water and fire, but water and milk, you are in me, I am in you, each other misses and cares, parents’ grace is greater than heaven, parents No matter how big a mistake is, those who should be filial to their parents still have to do their part.
In the face of relatives, we must learn to be magnanimous, learn tolerant and understand; to be able to "do not care about", will there be everlasting affection between family members.
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